A friend beside agrees before small haze two days to go shopping with High elder sister, did not see for ages, should close to genu grows naturally talk, small haze spoke of her mom is urging her look for a partner in marriage all the time recently, irritated irritated dead. After High elder sister listens, with respect to jest small haze grows so big, also did not talk about a love, small haze grows those who carry Bai Xi, high, it is an old beautiful woman, do not be short of hunter.
There are a lot of men to seek her for a long time beside small haze, but not if really. Small haze says with High elder sister is not she does not search, however she fears to contact feeling, small haze speaks of, when she is small, her parents often quarrels, so that she is right nowadays marital generation is scared, do not have safe feeling very much, oneself were brought up now, because,the affray that just knows her father and mother is a few bagatelle, one very needless kind that.
High sister can say only, see clear parents quarrel every time actually with the identity of spectator is the bagatelle of some of trifles, it is Buddhist monastic discipline with this, the society includes the marriage that believes you will be very happy. Do not want the element because of parental marriage, produce bias to marriage, of this love still should love.
Does that parents quarrel what to kind of effect have after all to the child?
1, easy problem of psychology of grumpy, generation
Parents often quarrels, disposition is imitated easily by the child, the child can become irratable and irritable certainly, still can let bear originally ability produces psychological shadow with respect to poor child, self-abased, dissocial, the mood is low, disagreement group, scared intercourse.
2, can become panicky to do not have safe feeling
Parents often quarrels, the child fears in panic in meet cranky, why does parents quarrel, be because,oneself? A lot of parents go up in utterance to when be being blamed, can say my if it were not for for child early divorce, disregard reach the child to be in not attendant, the child can feel he himself is a malefactor. Most child lacks safe sense.
3, the marital view that affects the child
Parents' regular affray can hamper the child's normal affection develops, let the child hold very big negative attitude to the following marriage. Future builds healthy amative marriage not easily to concern, even if married the marriage that the child also can imitate parents gets along mode, then affects his child again.
Marriage is different from love, need responsibility and obligation, the child yearns for the family with harmonious, whole longing, persistent brawl to year young for the child, cannot understanding this is how to return a responsibility, can leave deep scar on child heart only. Both sides of the husband and wife in marriage must want to include each other and understand, solve a problem with reason, give the child a harmonious and perfect home, make the child healthy grow happily.
