Every family is different, some mom can arrange a room particularly, the not soiled by a speck of dust that can get even! Some families are extremely messy, but these two kinds is that meeting bit better to the child? Tell you the truth today!
Some mom domestic lanes and alleys particularly clean, can saying even is, a bit dirt is done not have! The toy that connects the child is not exceptional also, it is shipshape in that way ground is put in the case, strange is, the child often does not play.
Such mom often can complain the child says very wasteful, because still had been done not have how to long be about to throw away a lot of toy, some is new still even, the child has played just a little only second did not play, it is wasteful really, she often go off with sends a person.
How another kind of mom won't run the child's world namely.
The family was not fastened in the home in shipshape, the child's toy often also can be put in disorder, in the area that vacates child play, the toy also is walk unsteadily oh, the child often also can tear open a toy, often meet by themselves " devastate " without appearance.
Such mom often won't arrange the child's toy, but the child that they can laugh at this to say their is " destroy king " .
1, in house have in very random most home " ursine child "
Will to everybody tell a story!
Have a house, have " ursine child " break stone the window that destroyed this building, did not pass how long later, the host of the house the window that broke, fostered cordial relations between states, after the child sees brand-new window, especially other and abashed, and this house also had not appeared to break the business of broken window again. Those who tell is the broken window theory on psychology.
For instance a child has a lot of toys, what clear away everyday is especially other and orderly, which the passion that this child can compare other child to did not play a toy, because they do not want to destroy this neat environment, this learns those who say to go up in the heart namely " broken window is academic " .
But bad thing is, if the child is diligent every time at clearing away a toy, still be affected by parents' impatient mood, let the child grow in reprimand, formed terrible physiology, if the parent has cleared away a toy,still be shipshape, the child does not consider the possibility went touching a toy!
Conversely, if parents saw the child drops about toy, but good-tempered treatment, so the child can like to play a toy, because the toy is much, can think an Eden is same in the home, the child also does not have the sort of guard psychology.
Released the child's nature, the child is small like to throw a toy in disorder, if be parents impatient, or it is not happy, had negative effect, bad to the child.
The child likes to tear open a few toys, to explore and pondering over ability of the child, have promotion! Can let the child use solid part.
2, house chaos returns creative significance
Once was in Mu of economist the base of a fruit. Ha Fude is in " confused " in respecting, what if be a person,clear away the table is clean, shipshape, such person lacks creativity commonly, seeing what inventor is, it is confused desk, and the creativity that stimulated so much.
The child of make trouble, play while the discovery that can have a lot of, fear child of what childhood blank, and the ability that plays a toy resembles is like was being lost.
Some people feel toy too take the place, the home still can be brought about if the child plays in farfetched, and what clear away a toy to rectify everyday is shipshape, still can let the child do not want to touch it, resemble reveal article, home of intentional a Confucian school of idealist philosophy of the Song and Ming Dynasties has done research, say the child from cubby chaotic, make the handsome appearance of creativity more easily.
Besides what outside the toy, the child is especially other still love doodle, like on the besmear on the wall in the home a few occasionally, occasionally obviously what the child draws is pretty good still, but be given to obliterate by the parent namely, parents can censure the child, so she incline to is drawn no longer even at dare be not being drawn, certain child still can continue possibly, but interest is to be inferior to for certain former.
If the child is in on the wall doodle, parents was not blamed, the angle that is appreciation even looks, can see the child very quickly so " work " . Did not forget, doodle also is the kind that explodes child creativity and imagination.
3, actually house chaos is not equal to a house dirty
Had the view above, that " lazy cancer " mom are OK happy! Not be of course, house chaos is equal to do not tell sanitation!
The child's resistance is low, fall ill easily, mom often should clear away a house, also can let darling nurturance make household habit, but the thing of child evening can help him rise a tomorrow, such their meetings have the space of his fun and amuse oneself.
