If you are determined to want to marry the man that shoulds not to 3 view, that marriage suffers fro

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Common saying says, wine meets bosom friend 1000 cups little, the word is not congenial half many. This word is put in marriage as much applicable, the person that two 3 view should not marries, that certainly will can appear " the word is not congenial half many " circumstance. This kind of circumstance, calculating is not spouse concern has made a person very uncomfortable, between husband and wife if " the word is not congenial half many " , that marriage will be contradictory ceaseless, suffering can'ts bear character. The marriage that this reader experiences below is such, we hear her story together.

See you are written yesterday evening " the woman marries the man of a low affection business " story, I have feeling very much. Although I do not have the marital suffering of that woman, but my marriage also is farfetched. This is my suffer from one's own actions, ought not to be determined to marry the man that shoulds not to a 3 view at the outset.

I am mixed at the beginning a lot of women are same, also be to consider free have a love affair, look for a right man to marry. But before I encounter that right person, pa Mom begins to urge marriage, begin to date to my arrangement. Although they were not my arranged marriage, although did not arrive,force the degree of marriage, but always forcing I go dating however. I am original very inimical to dating, always forcing plus them I date, so I date to be able to fail every time, of the heart go against combat mood exercise evil influence, want to date with any far from object communication is overmuch.

Pa Mom no matter how do I think, date failure continues to date to my arrangement. I am eager to wanting to cast off date, said with the friend, let them give next I am advertent having to suit my man, I want to introduce free love through the friend, did not want to date again. Later knew him very quickly through friend introduction, after was being contacted a few times, the sense is good still, we decided love concerns. I tell pa Mom me already love, let them do not date to my arrangement again. They say love is OK, but should marry as soon as possible.

I dare not marry as soon as possible, if marrying because of firm love, look in me mix date marry to was not distinguished. I decide first love says again for some time, still think according to before oneself are right marital idea, affirmatory and appropriate marry again. But, get along come down, the sense that he gives me is " appropriate " " improper " half, some places let me feel very appropriate, some places let me feel extremely improper.

Proper place is he can patronize a person, let me have safe feeling. Improper place is, if we are aimed at when a certain problem is open to question, the sense that he gives me is us 3 view should not. In this respect he is too big man creed, always use a kind of strong language atmospheric pressure to make me, hawk his viewpoint to me, must let me be done according to his requirement.

Appropriate local nature lets me feel very good, but improper place became a knot in one's heart in my heart, always remembering with concern improper place, the kink in the heart such man, want not to continue with him after all. In the process of my kink, he begins to urge me to marry, since,say two individual love, do not have necessary messy. On conjugal problem, he so be eager to hope for success, following me actually also is disagreement of a kind of 3 view. But, at that time unluckily pa Mom also begins to urge us to marry, if do not marry,say, still let me date.

Below troubled at that time condition, I decide to marry with him. The friend beside hears I want conjugal information, persuade me sober, say our love time is too short, so rapid move marries, in case the discovery after marrying is improper, the meeting is very bad. I hear these apprehension to headache, to give up this apprehension, I ask him, "Can be after marrying, you changed for me? Can you let me? " he says affirmative meeting, then I cast all apprehension to marry with him.

But, after marrying, I just realize, he does not have the consciousness that changes for me at all, won't let me more. The circumstance that the 3 view that discover before marriage should not, magnified after marriage a lot of times. No matter be any problems about marriage, even if be the bagatelle of a few trifles in the life, his metropolis and I am vexed, always forcing I agree with his viewpoint, I do not agree with him to say all the time all the time, can get angry even.

Someone may say, is the controversy between husband and wife very normal? Alas! If this is common the argument is good! If you had experienced such marriage, can know, in the life you counterpoise without speech at all, all everything is controlled by the man, lost the spirit with respect to him feeling, lost be an upright person some freedom and this right, very depressive, very painful. The problem that shoulds not because of 3 view many times, I can be enraged so that weep, but he shows sympathy far from, continue to hawk his viewpoint to me.

Marriage of in every case can continue, I won't have the idea of the divorce. But, marry the man that shoulds not to a 3 view, time is longer I feel painful more, the heart always wants to escape, even if divorce hind is lone,thinking also do not want to had continued to go down with him again. Although we still do not have a divorce now, but I had decided, I need to look for a chance to divorce with him.

A paragraph of any marriage, the feeling of party is very important. Your feeling in marriage, it is whether the other side loves you, whether to include you, you whether the true portraiture that 3 view should not, yourself's heart won't cheat him. All is in in marriage always is the person that finds anguish, because with wrong person married,be. This reader marries the man that shoulds not to a 3 view, also be to marry wrong person of course, and wrong a bit unusual. She knows two people before marry 3 view should not, although the case at that time is a bit complex, but the person that is determined finally to want to marry him, it is herself.

Not only it is this reader, one is same, if you are determined to want to marry the man that shoulds not to 3 view, that marriage suffers from also be your ask for it again. Your time will be reasonable: Marry the man that shoulds not to 3 view, marriage will be bitter can't bear character. You do not want to think after marrying, he can be your change of course, do not listen to him to make issued commitment you believe, discovered two people are improper before marriage, that does not have necessary marriage, going to namely otherwise jump in fiery pit. Because marry the person of to the person that 3 view should not unfortunate blessing too much, if you are known perfectly well marry the person that shoulds not to 3 view the meeting is very bitter, act wilfully even, that all anguish can yourself bears.

Resemble this reader same, although the man is mixed she the problem that 3 view disagreement is a man, but if she does not marry him, did not have with respect to what thing. But she chose to know a fault to err however, that marriage is very bitter, can strange others? Want to say to her, "The business has grown this one pace now, hope you come down to think well calmly, if decided marriage to cannot continue, that does not procrastinate, this divorce divorces with respect to breakfast, otherwise later occurrence what accident brings about a divorce not successful, you will be more painful. You will be more painful..