Kind-hearted path, must take care step by step; Good-tempered road, must somewhat bottom line. Excusing is goodness, it is open-minded, but cannot make evil propeller absolutely. Life is alive, need pay attention to one's own moral uplift without thought of others.
The person is living this all one's life, the heart wants wide, should magnanimous to the thing to the person a bit. In " the person that get let sb have sth into the bargain is in and Rao Ren " below the education of this kind of idea, we do not know to had been excused how many times, also do not know to had excused others how many times.
But, how many person understands the distinction that excuse and excuses without the bottom line. Do not have the excusing of line of know how things stand and feel confident of handling them, be blindly compromise, it is right evil indulgent. Ji Bailun says, the mankind has two hearts, a heart bleeds, a heart is good-tempered. We need notice, excuse should be line of know how things stand and feel confident of handling them, can be harmed ceaselessly only otherwise.
Case of Hangzhou baby-sitter arson still lets me up to now furious anxious. So happy and perfect family, wife Wenwan is beautiful, the man is handsome and nice, 3 children are lovely and lively, this family lives advantageous, to baby-sitter Mo Huanjing and her family also is taken care of have add.
And this diabolical baby-sitter concealed him the thing of gamble and past theft, pretend to bought a room to borrow 100 thousand to goodwife, not only such, she still stole the precious property in master home to go hock.
When first time theft is discovered, kind-hearted family did not call the police not only, still excused her and continue continue to employ she. Male host still says to baby-sitter even " lack cash say with me " .
The goodness of the family did not let Mo Huanjing feel ashamed not only with compunction, become aggravated even stole a value the renown watch of 300 thousand. Although male host is driven beyond forbearance, choose to let off her to did not call the police however, it is repulsive merely she.
Hellion is met only excuse regard as the excuse of be insatiable. One and again, again and of 3 excuse, also fail to save Mo Huanjing's Babylon soul. This, she sets fire in master home actually in order to pretend be on fire, try in vain to get make amends for one's fault by good deeds to stay in order to continue through put out a fire, can be arson this, killed however 3 children and their mom!
"Those who do not have a bottom line is good-tempered it is abandon, the goodness that does not have a principle is foolish " , the goodness that does not have a bit ability is the signal of give the impression of weakness in people look, be in an unfavorable situation finally, it is the person that others considers everywhere instead.
The person's relation should balance ability abiding. You are OK and good-tempered, OK and kind-hearted, but evil do not have limit, set to oneself first please so be restricted.
Once saw the story that the netizen shares on the net, experience the feeling of open the door to a dangerous person indeed.
Call this netizen small A for the moment, his friend is small B. Small B229 year old return accomplish nothing, mix slash society. High school when, because the monitoring of the classroom became bad, he took the chance to steal the classmate's mobile phone, told a teacher with journal, hear should ransack of desk hind, he puts the mobile phone in the desk of small A stealthily actually.
After the event, he says to A: Your achievement is good, popularity it may not be a bad idea, everybody affirms those who steal to won't suspecting is you, final affirmation is to end up with nothing definite.
In fact, small A suffers very big misunderstanding because of this thing, till v monitoring proof mobile phone loses that paragraph of time he is absent classroom suspicion of ability wash out.
He says to read aloud be in two is friendship spanning for generations, that moment excused him, also did not tell someone else.
But before a job that produces before long makes small A thoroughly cold heart.
Very long the small B that did not see phones him suddenly, say oneself are in Jiangxi here find the job, invite him to come over to play. Be worth 51, he is without guard ground, the result just fell down the train to be surrounded by a flock of people. He just knows after the event, it is small B borrowed so usurious, still do not rise, be chased after to block up every day. Remember small A job is so good, salary is high also, give this a bad plan, cheat small A to return usurious.
Through this thing, small A sees small B clear thoroughly, signed up for alarm later mix small B break off relations.
Such telling have a word: If let others see your goodness, others can expect you are kind-hearted all the time. See others did bad business to you every time, your heart that be the same as manage can tell you everybody is not easy, the person that get let sb have sth into the bargain is in and Rao Ren. Then you use excusing ability to realise you is to be in indulgent a what kind of person goes wantonning his evil.
Goodness does not have a fault, but goodness of abysmal line ground is the biggest evil! If not be the goodness of these abysmal lines, won't have so much the person that does not know to be thankful, punitive justice, too cross goodness to also can suffer disaster! This goodness gives reason right person, appear particularly important!
What is true goodness?
True goodness, be full of reason, it is marble even occasionally, just may be right big kind then however.
Xue Daoheng of man of serve of the Ministry of Official Personnel Affairs in feudal China of face of the Sui Dynasty once visited Zhong Shan to open temple of be apt to. In cloister audience hall, xue Daoheng asks along with the small bonze of travel: "You can tell me, why circle of King Kong glower is opened, is other a term applied to a kindhearted person low however does eyebrow be apt to look?
Small bonze answer says: "King Kong glower, so surrender 4 demon; Bodhisattva low eyebrow, so compassionate 6. So compassionate 6..
Temporarily compassion, harbor evil person, look appear small kind, actually is big evil; Penalize convict, look be like callous, actually big kind.
Justice is able to promote, diabolical be able to execute, it is the biggest kind. Do not let goodness, became aid King Zhou in his tyrannical rule, help a villain do evil.
Kind-hearted, cannot do not have a bottom line!
What power of Buddha tells is kind-hearted, be wisdom, not be abysmal line is indulgent, to ego cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, we can choose silent and patient, but to help other, of need is not blindly without the principle, want the increase with major attend to however.
Father's younger brother this China say: "The mankind gives congener bring to bear on anguish does not have other reason, it is to be in ill will merely, in all animals, only person so do. " the ill will in human nature, greedy, envious, look in every corner get vague impression, true fine hair on the human body letting a person is chilly. The ability of make a clear distinction between right and wrong, want to also want pair of people to the thing already, the person that must not let be full of ill will again abused your goodness.
Of abysmal line excusing is the oldest ill will likely namely, because, this is in indulgent ill will cause.
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