When one boy should marry, woman home wants betrothal gifts million. The boy answers, do not have money temporarily, can instalment not? The other side agrees. After marrying he goes up every months to mother-in-law Zhang make 3000 money. After paying 3 months, his wife did not work, run to a married woman's parents' home directly, the mouth is troubled by: Mom, does every month want us a so much money what meaning ah? Mother-in-law heart one soft: Alas, calculated, did not want!
Can see from this Duan Zi place of the other side opens the fund of day price betrothal gifts that come out, although the boy is final,be dissolved with quick-witted method. Duan Zi is Duan Zi after all! Can if be actual society,you be OK really so do? The answer is apparently cannot.
What on the net a few ana say is particularly good, the marriage of grandfather generation uses pipeful rice only, the marriage of father generation used an ox only, but arrived we Where is this one generation? Person wanting the home half life even a life (occasionally a life also is not solved, for the person to basic level) !Believe a lot of people can say, family is done so also is for his children good, what live later to let oneself children is a bit happier must want a place more. Want car, room to wait a moment. . . . . . ! But are you done so can you make oneself children happy? If the other side is not taken,give so much money (for the family to basic level) and go borrowing money, lend money. Children people after marrying, two people affirmation partakes together for certain this huge external debt, want to be returned together. For money go out all the year round work, are such the other side true can happy (the) below the case that two people made money want to return this huge external debt? This is to marry after all get along, still traffic population?
The article that believes a lot of people had looked a People's Daily to go up to ever was published " want betrothal gifts overmuch in order to traffic population punish? Transform social traditions should have law thinking " (what had not looked is OK look, those who write is very good)Cannot we come according to the domestic situation of the other side do according to one's abilities? If two people love each other, original and OK very happy and perfect establish a family. The day price betrothal gifts that in the end wants because of place of the other side however, the regret that is born to turn the other side into unripely one generation (what common saying says is good, tear open 10 temple rather, do not tear open) of one picket marriage!
So small make up a hope to go for can more sweethearts, because day price betrothal gifts became opposite party, is not all one's life regretful! Small make up hope more person to act, we boycott betrothal gifts of this day of price together! Be equal to prohibit trafficking population. See for more person start work transmit! (If if fruit is honest,be no good, flat belt is worn the other side elopes) .