One female staff of company takes the door today with respect to be indignant, the reason is she goes up to produce collision with a male driver in the road that comes to a company go to work,
Because male driver does not press custom drive a vehicle, the car that causes my work in the same placing is not careful crack up the light of male driver, male driver is blackguardly still to want to demand compensation
I work in the same place that the proposal calls the police, let a policeman handle, but male driver is not willing to pass normal legal measure processing however, want to be solved under the counter
We ask how she is solved finally
She says she is recumbent and loud, walked along male driver gally
And male driver midway still said, a girl, unexpectedly so forceful, the appearance of a bit girl is done not have
I then female colleague answered, "Girl with respect to this give the impression of weakness, be bullied by your man with respect to this? Be bullied by your man with respect to this??
Feel immediately I that female colleague is very gallant
The ability that is recently especially happens before long elder brother hill throws person case (chafe smally because of road up train, the driver takes a knife to throw a person from the car actually, be chopped dead by the other side instead to finally. )
In this so insecure society, as a girl, in face a new man, can not dread so, true admire making a person
She says actually she also fears at that time, but because she is to stay in the car, so she feels safer, just dare mix male driver is stronger
Advocate in this it is expensive society in order to mix, give the impression of weakness, seem to become a normal state,
Even if encounters unfair treatment, the manner that we handle also is to be able to be borne bear, can calculate even if
But the manner of this kind of give the impression of weakness, often caused the arrogance of those blackguardly people however, let them feel with evil can solve a problem in order to explode
A lot of girls are engrafted to want tenderness as a child, want understanding, be born it seems that the society that parents and week meet with is female definition the weak
And overmatch, the schoolboy that should be stronger than the girl volume takes on
That is brought up when this girl after the adult, even if encounters the pay of a few inequity, she also can submit to humiliation, can get on responsibility toward him body even push
What we see at most is a gender annoy, the male that why annoys often not very is censured, and people likes to put attention drop on schoolgirl body
The skirt that wears because of her is too short, because of her dress too expose, be perhaps her first the others of accost?
A variety of discrimination, bias, the woman that often allows suffer injury not dare phonate
Why be do harm to obviously person responsibility for an offence, pushed victim body however?
Resemble be opposite recently " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " all sorts of controversy, the position that also does not belittle a female in flank?
If a boy is engrafted as a child,cannot resemble a girl euqally effeminate, if resemble a female euqally effeminate it is the weak, fail namely, so grown hind, how can he still make the same score female of look upon of and other places?
A lot of boys are engrafted as a child cannot weak, cannot cry casually
It seems that force and force just are due mark matchs a man student
But force, often be misunderstood to be another direction however
Wrong education can let them think to use force bravely namely, can fighting is brave, do the business that others dare not do bravely namely, even if this thing sins
They were in heavy burden total pressure on every schoolboy body
Never had thought however, the schoolboy also is a person, also meet tired, in tired when also the right cries, cry, not be the thing that what loses face, crying not to represent him is a person that does not have responsibility heart not bravely
The schoolboy is OK also appropriately give the impression of weakness
The success of a man, do not depend on him whether give the impression of weakness, depend on him however can capable to protect his beloved person do not suffer harm