Present divorce rate is higher and higher really, before is the divorce that the man puts forward first mostly, can be the last few years, what the woman puts forward to divorce is increasing however. Although say the divorce is free, but if too too actuation divorced, so meet regretful.
Jun Jun is such, because misunderstanding quarrels,be, furious divorced with the husband, but she very fast discovers, the divorce is how madness. So, she thinks great master an advice, before the woman divorces, ask first be clear about oneself these 3 problems.
Do you return 1. love him?
The woman is in when divorcing, often very actuation. For instance I, because the husband sent a fellow worker,come home, do not divide green red black and write, made a noise to rise with the husband. I suspect he and that woman has catch, but how doesn't my husband also admit.
I do not believe my man not only, minatory still he should divorce, no matter how he persuades me to stay, assure to me, their true it doesn't matter. Can be me at ordinary times disposition is hotter, do not believe him at all that one. Arrived then finally, the husband or the divorce that agreed with me ask.
After the divorce, I just know I am wrong, the husband follows that female colleague is blameless really, that female colleague is not careful that day sprain foot, my husband good intention sends her to come home, sent just, however by me fussily, make the room for action of the divorce.
In the final analysis, it is me too distrust him. So, before the woman divorces, must ask be clear about oneself this problem, "Do you still love him? " if still love him, be about to choose to believe him, to him the opportunity proves him, is not temporarily actuation, leave all one's life to regret.
Does he return 2. love you?
The woman is before the divorce, ask oneself even, "Does he still love you? " , if love you, so this paragraph of marriage is worth to cherish, a variety of goes overcoming marital road to go up difficulty of two individual make concerted effort. For instance my husband, he still loves me, the suffering of the again and again persuades me to turn round, give him the chance.
Can be me is bilious killed me, the word that speaks because of me does not want to close, feel lose face. So, even if he still loves me very much, I feel intended to want to divorce with him namely, who let him do the business that attracts me to get angry?
But arrived,I just discover later, the woman after the divorce is true not easy, the man that wants to look for to think the husband loves you in that way is very bad really. The woman of 2 marriage, be cold-shouldered everywhere, so, I am alone still nowadays, and the husband had had new girlfriend.
So, in my heart very regret. Woman, if the man still loves you, hope you do not want temporarily personal feeling is in power, think everything is good after the divorce, who knows, everything is more bad after the divorce, lost the man that loves you, other man is carried to you choose anthology, be overcome sincerely.
Can after 3. divorces, you raise you and child
At the outset I am absorbed in divorcing, compare impulse because of my disposition on one hand actually, on the other hand because be in our boudoir is sweet group in, having a few women also is a divorce, so I also can be affected, feel the divorce is good. So, I forgot to consider the child's problem and the issue that I work.
Before the divorce, wage income of the husband or pretty are much, 10 thousand is control, our life is comparatively well-off, so, I am at ordinary times chore is done in the home, look after children, did not work 10 years. After divorcing now, although also have half penates of the husband, but I do not have the job, want to go out to apply for a job afresh again.
Can be the ability with me and age, can find a wage of 4500 only, this child should take care of the child again, want the job again, my feeling whole individual is fast tired paralysis, take care of my child at all without good intention affection, the disposition that brings about him also becomes very strange.
So, I regretted really, it is I killed the child, he can be a very lively person previously, become indrawn now, not talktive, not close also to me. So, woman, before the divorce, hope you can consider the feeling of your ability and child.
If you cannot give the child good life and tune, so the divorce cannot be taken really, can kill the child's lifetime. If your husband and wife is sentient still, no matter what produced, must do his utmost go redeeming. On this world besides first wife husband and wife, other people won't become your child really of oneself child.
So, hope woman is before the divorce, ask be clear about oneself these 3 problems, if feel oneself can bear this is sequential, so divorce again not late also. Do not resemble me same, temporarily actuation, those who bring is all one's life regrets however, and return complicity the child.
After the story that heard Jun Jun, I feel, a lot of moment, the divorce is not best choice, hope husband and wife wants and row and cherish.
(hope warm affection article | Rare attempt to | Network)
