The about honest person article that writes before gets the review of a lot of readers, everybody says his disposition holds out simple minded, treat others very good-tempered, but a lot of moment are to do not have good newspaper kindly.
What I advocate all the time is person or good place good, but person wanting cent. With a song the word is described even if the friend has good wine, if that jackal came,have fowling piece. The goodness that sums up a word to ask you namely takes a cutting edge oneself, the simple minded that asks you does not feed a wolf.
Before was being summed up the problem of friend of a lot of readers, continue today and inscribe. I sum up the mistake that 3 honest people make the most easily for everybody today, hope to be helped somewhat to everybody.
One, know concede only
Honest person always believes a word, bear temporarily calm, remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging. But what I want to remind you is, when you want to remove one condition, you look round first what is looking at the back of oneself. If be unrestrained and far -ranging really, blue sky white cloud. So you although the in the future of the stride is retreated, but if abyss is at the back of you, are you sturdy still retreat?
Some people are very of the extreme, true good friend can be paid for you all, real enemy also can make you penniless. Do not think this devoir divides your conscientiously to be willing to respond you with respect to nobody, the person that ask for trouble likes on this world is too much. Although you choose calm, he throws a stone toward you unluckily. If your nonfeasance, still waiting for him your fill and level up?
2, without oneself bottom line
The bottom line is a good thing, I hope you also have. If the person did not have a bottom line, can let a person look down on not just, more the object that meeting be reduced to poverty bullies for someone else. You think you are good-tempered, have mind, look in others you are likely more resemble goofy.
Be an upright person should have a bottom line, fun can leave, but do not want to pass joking harm dignity. Work should have a bottom line, oneself are capable to do, can go doing. Do not violate him morality standard, also can be done. Caustic person's not hoggish thing is not done stoutly. Interact with the friend, want to let them know what them bottom line is, ability avoids a few bad things to happen. If they not know how to behave in a delicate situation, challenge your bottom line again and again, you also need to take outer part to him.
3, too easy others
Do popular feeling to want to leave 7 him deal out, others of 3 deal out. Because a person is gentle to you,do not want, put good opinion to your heart, think this individual can be handed in greatly. Before understanding him deep, not oneself all characteristics reveal the other side. Such meetings make you exceedingly passive, joining him is a good person really, a friend, do not have a problem completely so. If he is to use you only, you draw out a heart to draw out lung did not give him an opportunity that can be exploited to sbs advantage just about?
Be an upright person, want to learn to take a heart more. The world is very dangerous, want to learn to always protect oneself, the person with special person very honest in one's heart.
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