The last few years as people economy standard rise, more and more teach an orgnaization early arisen, taking even a lot of star the child to go up to teach early, caused broad parents more imitate with follow.
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As parents, think the child is best, somebody signs up for to the child all round teach a class early, hard to avoid can have " companion pressure " , look at others newspaper, oneself also sign up for. Actually, teaching early is a particularly hazy concept to a lot of parents, most person the real meaning that not very says to come up to teach early, be like the feeling like having a blurred vision. Just feel everybody walks along such doing, I also must be done so.
But, teach early collect fees let again very big one part crowd flinchs, feeling to raise child is really special the matter that burns money. At every turn " little hold carry on a 3000 month " " cheeper bilingual teach a hour 300 early " " piano lesson 500 " ? Let a lot of parents be immersed in a kind to confuse think of: Education can be only " the type that burn money " .
But, if do not go up, the darling that sees neighbour, friend went up, wary oneself darling lags behind at others; If going up, economically true very demanding, is if doesn't darling learn,thing money earned by hard toil to hit water to float?
Actually, use far from so kink, teach early need not spend a lot of money, can accomplish in the home.
What use without giving thought to is which concept, the course that teachs a class early is formed by game commonly, the feeling interconnected system that develops darling in amuse oneself namely is harmonious ability, big campaign ability, cognitive ability, social the foreign language is artistic and ability, illuminative, illuminative, or the behavior habit that makes its nurturance good and disposition.
Teach a class early to need the parent to accompany darling to attend normally, saying with its is to teach darling, be inferior to saying is godparent what how have high quality is close child company.
One, accompany it is the most important to play
Common parents accompanies the child to play more all sorts of game, can have game of a few paper folding, doodle game for instance or colour mud DIY, let the child contact strange thing and environment more, these are to arouse the child the process of all sorts of potential. Avoid by all means lets the child prematurely as dry as a chip know how to read, remember a word, learn a number, it is so in try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upward-spoil things by excessive enthusiasm, can strangle the child to explore sealed interest only.
Manual DIY is the indispensable link in teaching early.
2, life element is best realia
In daily life, read draw to darling this, make game, take darling to ramble supermarket, outdoors activity, close nature, or darling just looks at you to cook, do chore, be not a nonsense, however accumulate containing various, intended innocently teach an element.
For instance you admit in supermarket teaching darling " apple " , darling teachs to admit in the zoo " elephant " , affirmation of this kind of sense of reality sees card Ling Baobao be comprehended quickly than teaching a class early, impressive much.
The life is an encyclopedia originally, parents can teach darling knowledge and skill at any time and place.
3, the manner of the way one speaks or what he says that notes oneself and behavior habit
Parents is one side mirror of the child, want to let the child become what kind of person, parents is about to do a what kind of person above all.
Want to make darling self-discipline, love neat, parents cannot optional and slack, room of at one's convenience is farfetched; Want to let darling be full of love, parents waits for a person to need thing cannot chill; Want to make darling disposition gentle, parents cannot grumpy...
Compared with the nurturance of the mood management that goes training darling painstakingly, disposition and habit, the imperceptibly influence that parental day after day teachs by personal example as well as verbal instrution is greater to the influence of darling.
Teaching early is a persistent process, its effect often is not get effect instantly, it is however in exert a subtle influence on, produce positive effect to the child's behavior and disposition slowly. Get on 9 to teach a class early to do not have what action at all occasionally so, more important is parents mix to the child's company in the life guide.
So, parents accompanies the child more in the home, make game together, start work DIY, namely wonderful taught early. (Shandong doctor loves)
