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Happy education? Did not deceive people!
On this world, without an any knowledge and skill, it is OK without striking a blowing can obtain.
Study is not a comfortable thing, the whole world is same. Review the person beside us, in every case obtains certain achievement to want to pass tough effort. The world did not drop the matter of pasty, pass the indefatigable effort of oneself only, study assiduously, just have successful possibility.
Study also is same, who is to take an exam all the way go all out in work come up, everybody is one pile homework in one's childhood, do badly to be criticized twice by the teacher even sometimes?
If say study can make you cheerful, that also is after you are passed hard, when obtaining achievement and get one's own back. Dull without the course the learning process that forces with suffering, obtain the study result that makes you happy impossibly.
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Play can you enjoy a good success? Did not amuse!
The taking of outstanding study result, when needing the child to play game in others, others is in when seeing a movie, static next hearts will learn. The child with excellent in every case, besides gift bright, more is acquired effort.
We imagine very hard, if the child is not learning hard in one's childhood, aimless, do not know pay, all the day idle away in seeking pleasure, after be brought up, can become in working process agree to pay, agree hard, agree to go all out in work.
So, child of the education in saying to be taught in the child with its can learn independently, have the mind that goes all out in work conscientiously, be inferior to saying is to fostering them to stand from sapling case active up, the fine quality of responsible feeling. After the society stepping after making them grown, have active up, the sense of responsibility that gives hard, this ability is to let the child those who learn is in in effort learning process the mainest goal.
We must let the child know, on any road that gain success, always accompanying labyrinthian, be full of hardships. Want to have good study result, must want hard, want hardship to pay, this also is the responsibility of each child learning.
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Have fun at can you like to learn?
Everybody often says teach students in accordance of their aptitude, saying interest just is best teacher. Educational child, be about to disentomb above all the child's interest. However in fact?
The child says to like a painting, signed up for a class to him when you, learned before long, he can say, sketch is too difficult, had drilled every day as dry as a chip; The child says to like piano, learned to do not have a few days, he says again, drill every day, the hand grinds a bubble; Believe to still have a lot of such, the child that tries to quit. So, occasionally, interest is the thing that relies on chart least of all.
Have a kind of such explanations actually, some people are not right the business that doing does not have interest, do not have ability to had done the business that doing at present however. Like oneself to do bad business without the person. Everybody meets not self-conscious as far as possible evasive oneself demerit: Sing run the person of tone likes to go at the same place with the friend not quite normally KTV; When the person with card poor ability is called fill a vacancy by the friend often very loath; ... the child's study also is same.
So, not be to have fun at ability has been done, had done ability to have fun at however. A lot of things, be done more, was good at naturally; Was good at, do naturally weller than others; Do weller than others, interest rose greatly, prefer to do after that, more be good at, more... benign loop.
So, occasionally interest is not the first. Besides interest, more should of church child is pair of things hold to. A thing, since chose, be about to do one's best go been do.
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Is foreign education relaxed?
The abroad in our impression teachs:
Lie between 3 difference the holiday of 5, school that finished class at 3 o'clock, close to the classroom education at game, and teachers' considerate and patient encouragement, want the child to behave Debuna only it seems that mental retardation, with respect to the affirmation that can get a teacher easily.
As a parent, you can feel uncontrollably, in Euramerican read too too too relaxed, easy, simple. But in fact? It is you far from want in that way.
Reality is such, be in the United States, a child, if do not go coaching,the class makes up a missed lesson, not beautiful big price goes learning talent, do not go attending social activity to abound him personal details, then he enters famous brand college likely hardly. Although favour can cross the school gate of the university, it is not easy also to take degree smoothly.
Professor of some abroad famous college said so sentence word: If will attend a college, just eat and drink a few years to come here, experience the life. So you will be empty-handed, and take degree far from possibly, no matter who your dad is.
Euramerican middle and primary school exists with Chinese middle and primary school really tremendous and different, over, the student need not bear any pressure. Be in next happy after a few years, most child also such. They perhaps go to community college mixing a few years again, perhaps look for some of rock-bottom physical strength job to live directly, perhaps begin to take unemployed allowance directly, in the gad on the street.
Any study are pay difficultly, must not engraft to the child again what joy is taught, interest first is academic. Study resembles mountaineering, when you rest, others had entered peak. At that time, you just realize, so we had lagged behind so far.
Want how old get one's own back, be about to give how old effort. Study is such, other Yi Ran.