Yesterday, continuous heavy rain of actor Chen Yu sends long article in friend circle, accuse the feeling that be dallied with by male star Wu Xiubo is as long as 7 years, and by small 4 small 5 provoke.
Chen Yu continuous heavy rain, ever used a Mu Mu, chinese inland actress, popular happy singer. 2006, because attend CCTV " starlight highway " the column enters audience line of vision.
Chen Yu continuous heavy rain is accuse the feeling that be dallied with by Wu Xiubo is as long as 7 years, time is pushed, their just was acquainted 2011.
2011, ginseng of Chen Yu continuous heavy rain performs teleplay " next miracle " , know Wu Xiubo of this drama producer, and to it group photo.
2013, piece perform ancient costume light comedy " lucky day treasure " medium Meng Xiaodie, wu Xiubo ever showed up coach personally take sport.
2014, ginseng perform network comedy " strange coffee " , wu Xiubo Ceng Kong falls the play staff gues-stars.
On September 24, 2018, explode go out and Wu Xiubo is lover relation.
Probably, all these, it is deep feeling of so called predestined relationship shallow.
Circle of friend of Chen Yu continuous heavy rain explodes makings say:
She follows Wu Xiubo 7 years, wu Xiubo takes sutra to give her brainwashing, control her, do not let her take sport, say all one's life not to part, dog year give birth to two children.
Besides her, wu Xiubo still has small 4, small 5.
She is taking care of Wu Xiubo's life all the time, sacrifice for the other side a lot of, pay a lot of.
Finally, she still was abandoned by Wu Xiubo callosity.
I like Wu Xiubo quite, also mug-up is fond of Chen Yu continuous heavy rain. Why the girl falls in love with uncle easily, is suffering loved can you have good result? We will read the heart of Chen Yu continuous heavy rain, know its fact more easily probably:
The first, the schoolgirl that falls in love with uncle, it is the illusion that fell in love with oneself likely.
Although, chen Yu continuous heavy rain did not mention pair of Wu Xiubo clearly to have much infatuation, but her there is no lack of in small gain in former days appear praise Wu Xiubo the handsome, word that has ability, actually, had shown everything.
If do not have inchoate infatuation, how would rather understanding pleasant pay so much?
Beyond question, uncle people have a lot of a lot of advantages, these advantages add up, formed the dominant position with the largest uncle -- the good man in female heart, perfect perhaps man.
Wu Xiubo, it is the perfect man in heart of Chen Yu continuous heavy rain.
Actually, no matter follow whose have a love affair, uncle it may not be a bad idea, with age person it may not be a bad idea, it may not be a bad idea of little fresh pork, the woman loves, it is an illusion only forever.
Feminine illusion has two kinds.
The first kind: If I am faulty, so I should look for a perfect sweetheart, will indicate my value, show I am perfect.
The 2nd kind: If I cannot take care of myself, satisfy oneself, then I am about to look for to be able to take care of his completely, satisfy oneself the other in part of all requirements.
And Wu Xiubo this uncle, advantage of all over the body, handsome, can act in a play again, person good, return meeting him guidance, the resource that can use him more helps his astral road, simply control the forces of nature. All expectation that what satisfied a schoolgirl and imagine, in making their frame of mind the most perfect the most romantic other in part.
Is Dan Wuxiu wave so perfect really? According to Chen Yu continuous heavy rain explode makings, he is lying, off the rails, still can start work even dozen of person.
These defect, when love, chen Yu continuous heavy rain is to meet of turn a blind eye to, because of those ideal things, can shield her eye.
Cite a case, as a child, we want what to have with parents, think parents is omnipotent, this is our illusion.
And in grow, we can discover parental limitation, do away with the illusion of perfect all-round, no longer persistent.
But a lot of people still are in persistent. Fall in love with the girl of perfect uncle for instance.
But, morning and evening one day, if they also are in,grow, developing, arrived the other side cannot the domain of encroach on, with respect to meeting discovery, actually, he is not perfect all-round, he has time of a lot of impracticable.
This, imagine undone process namely.
The 2nd, be paid blindly and can not let uncle fall in love with you
See Chen Yu continuous heavy rain grows long accuse article, although return not by real hammer into shape, dan Yanzhi trues, word word casts the ground, letting a person very hard feel is concoctive.
Remember a few days ago, jump because of course of old be away on official business the first belle of Shanghai that the building commits suicide Shen Lijun, jump before the building, she leaves writings of an author now dead of 10 thousand words, caw blood is accuse the evildoing of broken bits male husband, mother-in-law, a third party.
Your person sobs.
This both is one kind is narrated, a kind of drain, of drain is a mood, it is unwilling, it is grievance, it is indignant. In a word----
"I am paid so much, why don't you love me? Why don't you love me??
Feel very look familiar? Before two days push send " the person that everything gives in love, how many repair Cheng Zhengguo? " I just mention.
I think, chen Yu continuous heavy rain acquired deeply this: Do not love, all along won't with another person pay about.
Because you do not value yourself,meet without anybody, and fall in love with you.
What put oneself position when you is very low very low, exist and experience what others won't take you seriously more.
Survive of in the future, love oneself more please a bit, you, just be that the most serious person.
The 3rd: Evasive model the man is " Chen Yu continuous heavy rain people " lifetime disaster is difficult
When the program entering before Wu Xiubo, say, oneself are one won't repudiator, not active, do not refuse, not responsible.
This opinion on public affairs, resemble extremely a broken bits male.
Wu Xiubo broken bits? Have need checking card.
Crucial is, wu Xiubo has an affair with this kind and amphibolous manner, can see, he is dye-in-the-wood evasive model character, and this kind of person, make continuous heavy rain of angst person Chen Yu infatuate most.
Be met, it is this love disaster is difficult begin.
Usually, evasive model the person won't hit out actively profession, he can choose very ambiguous means to be close to you, let you think he loves you by accident, have fun at to you.
But, he is occasionally a kind ignore cold the manner that heats up suddenly, you are left wait right etc, do not wait to profession to you to him namely.
Because, they do not want to profession, do not think the choice that is oneself is responsible.
More the fact that plunges into a heart is, they also, without, so, like you!
However, to affirm evasive model like oneself really, or, like to go up to make them oneself, angst meeting is paid ceaselessly, profession first, throw the bosom of the other side actively.
Angst person is to attract evasive model, their ego, lively, romantic, it is their greatest charm.
However, get to be in the relation evasive model of the person approbate, praise, affirmative, they can put down ego slowly, pay ceaselessly, in order to satisfy the expectation of the other side.
When losing ego, namely gradually by evasive model detest and reject and the process that be far from.
The girl no matter be in when, must maintain ego, your greatest charm, scarcely is abysmal in the relation line is paid.
However
On the career, brandish denounce Fang Qiu, show state power;
On interest, serious investment, expression flies upwards;
On temperament: Easy and decent, qing Li is free from vulgarity;
On the life, rich and colorful, delicate and elegant.
A lot of people can say, fall in love with the girl of uncle, it is to have very intense Electra complex certainly.
I do not think so.
Believe, in the girl heart that has loved uncle in each, can not put oneself the relation below, regard a paragraph of love that remember to the end of one's life as.
is not, so called " Electra complex " .
Probably, this is an everyday, simple, dynamic, flying moth attacks igneous love.
Love is wrong, love a fault namely.
Become, oneself youth, fed a dog.
Just, ask you the next time, fall in love with a person that is willing to feel to your safety truly;
Ask you, hold to ego, have oneself life, value oneself, exceed others.
Survive of in the future, love oneself more please a bit. ? ? ?
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