I wish
The world parents
By tenderness in order to wait for
In next road, the road encounters eldest brother of neighbour of a married woman's parents' home, because time is ample,left a little casually.
One's previous experience of eldest brother tailor, just began husband and wife two tailor, sell piece goods. But as clothing store increasing, tailer's shop sells bedding hard all right with turning for afterwards, begin from little known at the beginning minor brand, accumulate person arteries and veins gradually, do slowly do greatly strong.
Son university graduates, in hold office of an Internet firm, monthly pay 7000 the left and right sides. Two extinct and lifetime savings were husband and wife last year the big house that the son bought a 130 square in the city zone, and get married for the son marry. This year spring granddaughter is born.
Actually such family is an epitome of family of too much China. The family is, live the guileless life of civilian other people.
I joke with him, now should be to end, son daughter-in-law earn one's own living, oneself do not want again so desperately, couple two it is off-season and OK to taking the advantage of travel go out to loosen loosen, deal also does not want too painstaking.
Rural other people, son marriage, grandchildren be born. The burden with major life and responsibility had been finished, now should be for oneself work when.
Do not carry son daughter-in-law to still stop, carry eldest brother excited.
Pulling my long-winded to leave again. Because do,he says bedding is old, passenger source is relatively steady, june when inn of a well-known trademark invites their couple to join in, open the condition that give to compare privilege. Couple two it is enchanted very, but because buy a house, marry, unripe granddaughter almost consumed the saving. Expand managing is to want in advance to invest capital, the kin friend collect that looks for a letter to had been gotten a few, still have 50 thousand gap, thinking last year when son marriage, daughter-in-law has tens of thousands of money meet gift case gift. Not be termless of course ask for, let a son helping lash-up however.
Say with the son first, the son says to want to discuss with daughter-in-law, the following day pass on a message comes over, daughter-in-law says those tens of thousands of money is putting those who give granddaughter, cannot employ.
Eldest brother is saying, it is excited first, distress next, piteous finally. He says with me: "Girl, you do not know, when the son says that one word to me, I am to have much be bitterly disappointed, the fight of whole person was done not have, we two live frugaly are wanting to enlarge dimensions, will still do not give a son to give granddaughter entirely? Will still do not give a son to give granddaughter entirely??
Remember friend Yao eldest sister again, the husband is the bricklaying of a not good at one's words, yao Dajie at ordinary times wait does a mu 3 distribute land, idle comes down to follow the husband to go out, chare do do coolie.
The son that goes all lengths to graduate to the university buys a room to settle down in the city. Son daughter-in-law is having do not calculate too tall but relatively steady income. Yao Dajie's couple misses young husband and wife two pay expenses in the city big, the age is small, without how many saving, and cannot bear the economic pressure that the heart allows children are too much, bore the major cost that decorate actively.
Last bridal chamber decorates an end, son daughter-in-law goes cheerfully Suzhou wood town showing disrespect or contempt buys furniture. A very happy thing. What expects daughter-in-law asks Yao Dajie on small letter in the evening, go by day who gives the freight of Suzhou?
When Yao Dajie sees small letter, can saying is be utterly disheartened, a cold water is irrigated her penetrating coolness. Not be the thing of the freight of hundreds of money of course, of the acme of the youth that is now egoistic and egocentric.
The education of family education ability with what kind of what kind of family to want to go out such everywhere calculate and does the daughter-in-law to family member body come to ruthless figure?
Can you want to talk about money between the family? Want to talk of course.
Money can solve a lot of problems, qian Shike buys a car in order to buy a house, can delicacies of every kind. Human nature can examine more however when doing not have money, see through popular feeling.
Money can decide speech counterpoises, money can decide superstructure. But when if be close kin originally,frosty money is being remained to concern only between the family member to love, cold the heart of too much person? Exhaust especially the parental heart that Lv of exhaust of essence of life never considers get one's own back?
Still remember 6 years March mother-in-law fish foul disease, operation of hospital of people is in city is not successful, went to Shanghai operation again July.
Arrive before going to Shanghai one evening, I and gentleman decide the girl that lets 8 years old sent 5000 yuan to give grandpa the mother-in-law consistently, let them be being taken.
It is actually before this the expenditure of big family is grandpa mother-in-law entirely, two their official are retired, one is the company retires. Economically although do not say bounteous, but never want us to worry about.
5000 to be about to go to the grandpa mother-in-law of Shanghai go to a doctor for, saying is an utterly inadequate method in dealing with a severe situation, but it is affirmative and insufficient at least.
This thing also calculated originally. After a month, 2 aunt of Guangzhou call inquiry illness. The mother-in-law that I hear disease is medium inadvertently in process of Lao the daily life of a family tells 2 a form of address to a woman about one's mother's age with the sound with bright bright and clear some, money is not tight, son son's wife gives.
Do not know the mother-in-law is to comfort 2 aunt at that time, still be keen on face-saving, but listen reach she is really happy. And I am an overhear really. All one's life ambitious mother-in-law, 5000 money make her happy become such!
Tell the truth, I prepare to leave a floor originally at that time, half mother-in-law in discovering defect is so happy, got on a building stealthily again, let her be mixed again 2 aunt are happy a twenty-five-stringed plucked instrument a little while, what do not disturb her moment is happy, should not feel aching when she is happy.
Marry to be born to girl from us actually, go to school, now and then fall ill cut in, daily family expenses, it is they are in entirely without complain pay without regret, we now and then stung by conscience feed back their trifling to make her 5000 yuan glad to become such, this is an inequality that does not love badly to what wait, pay be in all the time without complain pay without regret, once get a bit get one's own back, feeling is greatest bestow general.
Long-winded so much, farewell looks for a son to lend money this archives to neighbour eldest brother child thing, do not say party, I this spectator listened be filled with indignation.
I think of a problem suddenly, although cruel, it is the problem that we must face however: Who if two have couple of neighbour eldest brother,fell ill, pointing to these 50 thousand money to help, a kind of what kind of manner can his son daughter-in-law be?
The world is undeserved, eldest brother is undeserved.
Eldest brother be bitterly disappointed, but the son that the son remains him, daughter-in-law remains his daughter-in-law, grandchildren remains his grandchildren.
He is remained laic, he is hit hard spell lifetime, lifetime painstaking effort is remained leave a son.
But, answer without midriff really in his heart? More or less don't have disappointment to the son? And did not ill feeling really between daughter-in-law? Can facing be when the person's granddaughter now and then also does understanding lay a cool idea?
Money is touchstone, also be monster-revealing mirror, when having money, a lot of problems were masked, once money is tight, very much question and expose completely extremely came out.
Raise defend old unalterable principle, but generation of a few father is waiting for son provide for the aged now, give birth to business firstly eventually, the son got married to help even bring grandson.
If father generation disregards family property to eat and drink really,go whoring bets those who become a son is not should I filial piety, this money is should not give. But, neighbour eldest brother manages temporary have enough to meet need to look for his close son to kiss daughter-in-law lash-up to cannot be accomplished to expand.
When the thing person admittedly be bitterly disappointed, but our spectator hard to avoid not the fox mourns the death of the hare-like grieves for like, and this kind of phenomenon is not a case really, of the acme of young generation person egocentric true your person shudders.
Moreover, without not filial daughter-in-law, have not filial son only.
If the son is true bright logic, consider overall situation, oneself bedside person, as long as frank and sincere really move with affection Xiao Zhi in order to manage, I want to want to step down the husband and wife that go only, it is should can reach consensus.
Besides is to parental investment most most the investment of be to one's profit, the first, because,parents is met of son daughter-in-law sensible and reasonable and pleasurable; The 2nd, he can become aware get oneself all one's life the greatest success was not to earn how many money, buy how many house property, fostered to know to be thankful however the son that misses close grace; The 3rd, kid genuflect breeds, the crow is fed back, the world comes filial piety, when parents needs your decline with all kinds of excuses, is the education with the faithful formal filial piety that accepts to big as a child then written article?
In the final analysis, not be the problem of 80 thousand money, it is the bottom line that be an upright person and personal integrity, it is social criterion and state.
More what is more,the rather that, generation generation, unripe be born not to cease, the person is being done, the day is looking, who does firmamental He Cengrao cross?
Wish the world parents, pains lifetime, final can by tenderness in order to wait for, much better.
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