(him understanding understands most person namely. )
Memory remains, can let us oppugn our in the exchange of the outside and heart, what cent letting a person is not clear that what is him nature is inevitable, what is abhorrent bad habit.
Between the doubt of almost all sort, protracted it is the word that a high frequency rate appears, just what it brings everybody is distinct recollection, perhaps concern a mood, perhaps concern time, perhaps concern instinct, perhaps concern an environment. So, today's inspiration is nodded is " doubt " .
One, like? Accept? Finish? Blind? Protracted exist really.
Is the profession listless? Black 15 years? Doesn't the result deserve to go up ability? Is the result always overtime? Every day anxious job, life? If these circumstances exist, so protracted be big question.
A few acknowledge in resembling small appetite society are same, generate protracted idea, it is ceaseless to the thing that does not like in the future procrastinates, although also can feel oneself will get eventually " the adjudgement of the destiny " ; 2 it is to knowing next this issues that how take in the future procrastinates, although also can feel oneself will fall in eventually " the pool of blood of weak feeling " in; 3 it is a lot of righter important " important matter " ceaseless in the future procrastinates, although know such " ego is blind and paralytic " can cause " important matter reason " ; Final we are protracted in doubt still, be in blind in loss.
Like the thing that goes up to be being done, accept oneself " incompetent " , achieve the time limit that oneself place, blind in add hopeful, we are OK still perhaps in a way saves atone for oneself.
2, regret? Acedia? Repay? Favor? Protracted exist really.
At the beginning regret, to final despair, how many space is there between this? Perhaps be the Yao of one pace, because the mood comes, is so fast. The room is borrowed, the car is borrowed, favor is borrowed, does the pressure above this have multiple? Perhaps be last straw, because break down,collapse to always happen in flashy.
A few information in how be being run like cerebrum are same, produce protracted condition, it is some things, the age is less than, experience is less than, a person is tired also learn to death won't, for instance: Regret; 2 it is focusing, close stare at, struggle, the life that has how many person is to hang by the neck by the information of a few mistakes on a tree; 3 it is all sorts of all sorts of loan in reality, pressure, collapsed how many dream; Who knows protracted and original also want study.
Regret, despair also can be protected for cerebrum by understanding " master " a kind of existent function, perhaps adjusting control their degree, still be some benefit. Repay, favor also can is by understanding " the sky will fall to hold the post of Yu Siren greatly also " augural, perhaps want to had been met so, because also do not have other method.
3, before it is too late? Immediately? Early still? Finally? Protracted exist really.
Make do protracted, failure, self-condemned, embarrassed, our cerebra has thought a way to us instinctively, namely: Begin a new job, complete a new project, make a new target.
Resemble psychology about protracted view same, produce protracted psychology, it is to repeat a thing to meet ceaselessly " automatic open " , this kind waits to be understood to be " happy " more very at " protracted " ; 2 it is to repeat a thing ceaselessly " still have time " , seem " hope " psychology can conquer is protracted and same; 3 it is to repeat a thing to meet ceaselessly " cannot finish " , look for a reason to go anyway, anyhow is to do not know clearly; About protracted " oath " much went, return or?
It is oneself before it is too late start work, it is now immediately instantly, do not like early still namely, finally is scared. Alas! Look one of tweak that doubt is him protection really.
4, pressure? Self-condemned? Fear? Catastrophic? Protracted exist really.
Cerebrum should stimulate mood ego to protect on one hand, wanting screen mood again on one hand also is for ego protection, so we can get is social pressure and psychological twist, for instance: Stumbled on foot today, or it is to mask escape uglily.
The information in resembling protracted germ is same, generate protracted source, it is to face pressure, our choice is protracted, because protracted it is a kind of real strategy; 2 it is to face ego protection, our choice is protracted, because protracted it is strategy of a kind of psychology; 3 it is to face self-condemned, fear, our choice is protracted, because protracted it is the simplest, the most feasible strategy; After all which more bear hard, it is to face reality, be still escapism?
We do not mean pressure, however cerebrum gives us; Self-condemned not be ego protection, cover the stubborn conviction of the weakness however; Fearing is not a kind of difficulty, live however a entrenchment that stay; Disaster is not those who see factual hind clear is flimsy, however after screen reality be able to bear or endure silently suffer.
