Be troubled by between the lover when parting company, hard to avoid because the meeting is too angry do not want to have any contact with the other side later probably, draw small letter of the other side black time. If small letter is pulled black deleted probably, and before you want to save again when male friend, should with what kind of are reason and means ability added? Principal, this reason is sure cannot too expose demand to feel, also cannot let him feel your give up the idea forever does not cease, otherwise, those who cause the other side be on guard heart, save become more difficult.
One, the state of mind that has adjusted oneself, drop demand move
The love that everybody is thinking him can long. But not be a hope how, so meet how, have time a few reasons are brought about presented TA to be spoken to you part company this word. The time that cannot face this unexpected blow when you is met the mood with simple inactive and dejected indulge in is sideways, want to save love, principal, you need to had adjusted your state of mind surely.
Train the state of mind of active take things philosophically. A lot of people after parting company actually can drop not to rise, sad mood was held make a heart. So a lot of people can have doubt very much, does the state of mind that wants to maintain an active take things philosophically have so simple? Actually a lot of time moods are go by oneself distributive. So, if wanting to part company all the day this thing, sad the out of control that can cause a mood very simply to go up, bring about make some of job that goes against oneself to save come, give the other side pressure ceaselessly, can make mentally of all the more of the other side negative only so you, thinking to part company is right, that can let save difficulty of all the more only. Save place of Connors of love Great Master to say: "Good only principle, be far from negative energy namely, handle it when it has negative energy, when the assistance when others has negative energy others handles it, if cannot be helped really,that is far from him. " the state of mind that wants to foster health so, must search some active up the job will do, lax attention lets him missing the work that part company. For example: Go climbing, go singing with the friend etc, make oneself mood optimistic rise.
Use hour energy on the body that raises his. When love, each other are met on love on oneself sure hour and the body that energy throws opposite party, having a kind of appearance is the one party that feels tall as demand, can throw more hour and energy in the other side, surround all the day the other side rotates, this hard to avoid won't let the other side control his, bring about oneself to come from me build without beautiful hour. So, divide at this moment, did not request the other side to be together with you again hard again, so as pitiful as its save, the motivation that still is inferior to a this request the other side is used on his construction. Perfect oneself ceaselessly only, have sth used to one's own advantage with respect to meeting all the more, ground of all the more has attract power. So, if want to save really, the construction of itself is very those who be necessary. Become when oneself the beauty of all the more, of all the more have charm, give the other side the sense of a kind of present a entirely new appearance, can let the other side know you anew, collect an interest again once more to you, this hurts Chun Beiqiu than where be every day even all the more is useful.
Improve oneself love grade. Have time, of love grade not tall, cannot know and fathom the other side what thinking, what is those who want, and this time often does not know how to follow to the other side is communicated and respond to the other side. What if want,follow coexist of the other side so is harmonious, be about to improve oneself love grade. What you should do is to learn to go delibrate detail, pass the action that watchs opposite party and act namely, analyse in what pass oneself, make appropriate response. Be like some girls to often say she lack safe sense, serve as a schoolboy then you are about to discover is what reason brought about her to do not have safe feeling, know what reason only, meeting all the more has ability specific aim ground and coexist of the other side. When your attend to the idea of other one party, for the time that the other side considers, so the other side cherishs this one feeling with respect to meeting all the more.
2, the channel that establishs contact from the beginning
Inside a lot of film clues, after leading role of male and female parts company, in certain inside grand circumstance, heroine is dressed up meticulously one time richly beautiful ground appears to be mixed in hero before everybody, tick off had hero compound desire, successful results is good. Although you do not have playwrite side in real life,you weave gut, also teach you how to act without the director. But the opportunity that a few skill can teach you how to make a come across, get contact from the beginning.
Through the friend's assistance, make an activity of a few parties. Although you showed to already parted company, but there still is lad one case a few between you, you can your lad arranges commit sth to sb's care a few activities, at the same time invite the other side is participated in. But if understand you,this friend needs friend, can talk, can avoid to produce a few needless misunderstanding. Your friend can explore first the other side, there is what activity recently can be participated in, have what place he can go, the odds of such come across is met a few taller.
He gives a bit suggestion on intercourse software. If the word that withholding intercourse software is returned between you, you cannot write the autograph of a few sadness and inactive trends quite, should show a few beside amused and humor job, the content that sends value of a few high price causes his attention. Climb for example with the friend of a few high quality, send what the scenery of a few beauty laughs very happily probably to be patted oneself. When this kind high value is shown continuously two months are controlled, can the day that attract pays close attention to you to the other side, you can germinant alluded to him.
Active contact the other side. The other side on active contact is the behavior of more active enterprising, but need to pass a paragraph surely cold just adopt after aspic period. Should go up in intercourse software he and you are germinant have interacted, for instance he has your trends nod assist. Your contact does not have this time so nervous, the other side also not ill feeling you. You can call excuse says to want to return his something, but saying is what thing, if his come to an agreement or understanding, you can make an appointment with place of a hour to see him. If he says not to need returned word, you say, you already were sent through express now, let him notice express message. And in fact you do not need to send him, let him expecting in a few days of future, produce lose to feel finally, make him active on contact you.
3, the means of exam contact
Finished self-remoulding when you, also undertook be showinged valuably in friend circle together, can have exam contact, if can choose,contact has in a few special red-letter days.
Festal contact. You can try to use a few festivals to send a short message to be sent your respects to to the other side, serve your blessing, the festival is a of your exam very good opportunity. Than be during the Spring Festival, a lot of people can send a short message to him, divide you to send the short interest of a blessing to him at this moment, can not cause his guard heart, instead this behaviour that assemble manage changes you to send a short message. If the reaction of the other side is active, you can continue to go down a little. If you send short message the other side not to pay attention to you, explain he still does not want to respond you, at this moment you do not want redo exam contact.
Send before the short message many azimuth to consider. What is the end that includes you to send this short message? How can this short message that you send let the other side want? What kind of response can the other side make to this short message? Compound affection Great Master has said, the success of exam contact must look you to whether interact on same frequency. So, modification short message and reply short message are very of crucial point. Ask when him you are in not, do not reply instantly, must lie between a few hours at least, probably you can say where you are in and a lot of people are amuse oneself, behind schedule again contact. Such word dropped your demand move a little while, change his demand feeling effectively thereby.
