Ghost millet: Farouche? Remember these 4 a pithy formula well, socially be able to achieve success one way or another is tickler no longer
The society that we live today wants than the society previously many advanced, live in material especially respect, we can eat fully, wear warmly. But in modern society, although of people apparently look bright bright beautiful, be in however this light is bright beautiful rear, under cover a few unbeknown distress, that lives namely pressure is too great. Develop as economic high speed, the life rhythm of people also is being accelerated ceaselessly, but should catch up with so fast life rhythm nots allow really easy, so contemporary youth faces a family, face duty field to have very great pressure, between this numerous pressure, if farouche, meet more walk with difficulty. Small make up come and everybody respecting a person, he put forward 4 kinds to solve farouche method. Ghost millet: Farouche? Remember these 4 a pithy formula well, socially be able to achieve success one way or another is tickler no longer
Small make up this individual that should say with everybody to be called ghost millet, ghost millet is a of period of the Warring States famous ruse home, ideologist, because his person lives in seclusion,be in in ghost cereal by the side of, especially other and mysterious, so later generations call what it says ghost cereal gentleman. About the birth of ghost cereal gentleman and his one's life experience, made a secret, the view is differ, conclude very hard, he has given ghost unhusked rice a book is called " ghost millet " , in this book he said tactics, controversy, etc, be being put is to be a person to play for today and a few methods on duty field management, in the book ghost millet once was told, if a person is farouche, 4 kinds of method can help him.
We know to be able to talk today is how important, a person can talk very simple, want his head to be able to talk normally only, but want to be able to talk, what say the word is beautiful, the footing that can stand in others ponders over a problem, it is more difficult that if speaking out, certain effect effect has, below small make up will tell 4 kinds of farouche people with everybody, should talk in a few kinds of circumstances.
The first kind: It is the leader in oneself, when still talking before Youshangsi, must lower oneself stance, flatter appropriately boss also is desirable, but do not want exorbitant to exaggerate. In encounter lower than him position person, make there must be a kind of abasement state of mind when the talk with them, stand in the footing of the other side, must not stand high above the masses, can take care of the mood of the other side very well, the station ponders over a problem on the footing of the other side, can invite opposite party more respect you, be willing to chat with you.
The 2nd kind: Be with rich, a few decorous things must talk when money has the person of situation to talk, after because become a few people,having money, they do not care about gold, pay attention to the life that goes up at going after spirit however, talk about a few decorous things to win the good impression of the other side more easily with them so. But talk with poorer person, with respect to gold of OK and direct refer, because of poor person, struggle for the life everyday, to them the pursuit on spirit is a kind of more extravagant thing.
The 3rd kind: Be when talking with clever person, because you say what the other side can understand very quickly among them accumulate contained meaning, want so true, want cultured ability to be able to win the good impression of others. With when foozle talks, want quite, those who say is a few simpler, do not want prate argument, let others feel very dull.
The 4th kind: Be when be together with the family member, must respect elder, when elder talks, should not interrupt at will, you should listen seriously only, the meaning that knows elder place talks can. Contrary talk with more open-minded and optimistic person, you are OK and direct refer theme, do not need talk in a roundabout way. Small make up feel: ? Pray basketry and does of of bewildered of barren of if of Ang of pray of sprain of of remnant of of unreal glutinous Gou approach brighting end of anxiety of favour of Yi of dust of of graceful パ of grey narrow one's eyes does dark collect of Pu Zhang pray write down mulberry Su to sift to sentence astounded graceful excuse me?
