To marriage, the woman always can is full of expect and look forward to, want to have an outstanding and handsome man, accompany from now on one is done beside the man's virtuous wife fine mother, just about because of the woman to other in part exorbitant expect, brought about all sorts of intense contradiction in matrimony, and the problem that the most essential still is man itself, a man, the more " be no good " , he likes to do these things the more, the man in every marriage does not have one exception!
One, the inequity that loves to blame life
In marriage, in thinking he got a heart, a lot of men love the woman of the move always, then second half all one's life can spend the life that he yearns for, however reality makes a man always however unusually disappointed, the man's job has appeared not color, he carries the difficult task that faces a family feebly case, the mainest is this man does not know active enterprising however, the thing that he likes to work most is, sit on the bed to blame the inequity of life.
2, the life that likes covet enjoyment
In one's childhood we always are living carefreely, what there is in living it seems that is worth while we are sad with affliction, however marriage is different however, in marital process us, especially man, face bigger challenge and difficulty, this must want those who have this to take on with respect to requirement man, can hard-working struggle, and " ability is no good " the man is different however, the life that he is infatuated with covet enjoyment only cannot extricate oneself, this kind of man, be no good in marriage.
3, always love those who count a family member to take care of
The family member is the harbour of our heart forever, in the life after marriage, to a lot of men, it is the food harbour of a material more, the man is not willing to go all out in work and struggle through his effort, always love those who counting a family member to take care of, enjoying the pleasure that existing fortune brings, really true before a be worthy of the name " gnaw old a group of things with common features " , and did not feel a tiny bit of feeling embarrassed, of inner of course accepting, this man is trashy, his marital nature also is unfortunate.
4, like to ascribe responsibility to wife
In marital process, total meeting has a lot of small attrition to be able to happen, go up in a few big questions especially, than the company that runs like a join forces, finally because among them affection of a bagatelle and the economic crisis that causes a company to be faced with, right now man always the completely of the responsibility shirk oneself, the ending of will all accident ascribes to on the body of the wife, such man is " be no good " , because he does not have courage,go assuming everything what oneself should assume.
A good spouse, sure need is including these character, take on responsible active up, such man ability lets a woman be him quite entrust is lifelong.
