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" Dou Ting is good " in this drama, besides Home Su 3 men disposition is typical, still having is revive the mother's little brother. And the disposition nurturance of these people, little also not revive the mother's influence, and the influence of parents of her a married woman's parents' home.
Of uncle of this Home Su come on the stage, because Su Mingcheng borrowed 30 thousand his money to invest,be, come to an agreement or understanding gives him interest. As a result Su Mingcheng invests to be cheated, 300 thousand compensate, divorce to go out personally completely again door.
The uncle is troubled by his company to want debt at this moment unluckily, 3 are in the office act shamelessly, do so that Su Mingcheng lost the job.
Otherwise goes to 30 thousand, the uncle looked for Su Jiaji's individual, final the bridal chamber of a 3 occupy Su Dajiang. 30 thousand return him, still give 3 months interest more than 4000.
He does not stop however, start to talk to want again 100 thousand, saying is his home son goes to school, want Home Su to give money, the work that his elder sister promises at the outset.
This paragraph of most propbably is very much the person feels good energy of life vent one's anger, because of this one 3 are in Home Su Dajiang " act as a tyrant " , occupy by force flyblown his house, su Dajiang is subdued then helpless small eyes, also be very laugh at a person.
Said to slant, what should say here is this is troubled by the uncle, su Mingyu is forced to come on the stage solve a problem, the Zhang that brings her Mom to be written down before one's death this, reveal a big secret again.
Former lysol mother these year come, be in ceaselessly gold of allowance of this little brother, every time thousands of tens of thousands of differ, buy a house these things are more one-time take out hundred thousands of come.
Su Dajiang plaints say: "No wonder our home is so poor, occasionally the dress is canned not afford... " and Su Mingzhe also says, oneself give every year many money are sent in the home, so these money, majority is beautiful also was in he in this uncle home.
Very apparent, revive the mother also is " help younger brother " of the type, this also is the issue that she lays a family formerly apparently. Original home in the country, it is to be problem of registered permanent residence probably, and not be the problem of registered permanent residence of herself, it is for the little brother can go into town, just marry Su Dajiang of this oppidan.
The little brother's registered permanent residence was solved, should help him solve marriage namely next, house, the child goes to school etc a series of problem. This uncle does not have even the job with aunt, it seems comes for years is all the time revive the mother is being raised.
After this secret is opened, uncle answer is good, return rodomontade, still feel one is assured and bold with justice, his elder sister raises the meaning he is should.
This is logistic, also belt of former unripe family comes out most propbably, only his parents feels: This daughter should exert oneself for the son in the home, the life that is him is done " hard " and " matting " . This son just can resemble borer same, without a single redeeming feature, whats are done, wait for help of elder sister allowance only, and be without a bottom line.
Revive mother this elder sister is quite tired really also, her life is to give former unripe family makes contribution. This paragraph of marriage, the place that also is not her heart to. She also has considered a change probably, but did not succeed.
Nevertheless, she did not revolt most propbably too much and resent, feeling oneself help a married woman's parents' home of little brother, side even is obligatory, it is perfectly justified, although ability is limited, although sacrifice,oneself happiness and life apiration also have nothing to do with. But at the same time, she also sacrificed the life quality standard of additionally a few members in the home.
Most be afraid of, do not have the thinking means of awareness so namely, occasionally, when a person by a lot of people " count on " when, distinguish easily not clear that is " compress " , " use " , return be ability to reflect, regard oneself as easily " Immanuel " , thereby be most willing to goes making " sacrifice " .
If think the lifetime all oneself " contribution " it is OK also to give his family, but premise is not to marry, do not pull low the standard of living of your spouse, affect the life quality of your spouse, also cannot let oneself spouse and child live frugally, go satisfying you " altruistic pay and dedicate " .
This, su Mingzhe most propbably also is a few more genetic the disposition of his mom. The most crucial is, revive consciousness is less than him mother what does such life mode have incorrect. And the thinks oneself are unripe daughter of of course, euqally accountability also the son that is oneself is made some " contribution or sacrifice " .
Do not let her spend the Tsinghua on money, invite the free normal school on her however, want to let her have a job early, and say she is the person of others home, say a girl to go up so much learn what to is used, say him provide for the aged does not count on her again.
The real purpose at the back of all expression, feel namely: The daughter should be married go out, the brother of elder brother of family family member that so she should be herself uses up responsibility...
Such idea, the happiness that is buy daughter at disregarding, and revive him mother is such part originally, did not show sympathy however and be the same as manage heart, also be some callosity really presumably.
Probably, the thought of former unripe family is eroded, had let revive idea solidify of the mother, compromise and admitted in that way mode.
Fortunately Su Mingyu is done not have by such thinking means " uniform " , she walked out of that home, found oneself way of life.
She is independent, have a principle, have a bottom line, the side puts in a side 's charge, but inside the capacity limits in oneself, also won't wrap greatly pull greatly, below the case that makes adventitious really in family however, ground of mild and indirect gives bit of power stealthily.
But she is clear, of life or themselves, a lot of things get themselves to face. Her help, it is the fatigue of raise one's hand, also be to be nodded till.
Such she, although sufferred many grievance in one's childhood, but she has compromised without weakness, had not abandoned, also be to let a person feel gratified, the daughter of worth while also and similar case goes to the place of study.
