Although domestic member is the most serious person in our life, but in actual life, the time that we and colleague get along is more. Arrive from the job in the morning the job afternoon, sometimes we must work overtime. We spend the time on body of work in the same placing to exceed 10 hours everyday, exceeded our family even.
Accordingly, get along with the colleague harmonious it is very important. After all, together so long, if you do not like each other, the job will be very unpleasant. If you encounter a bad colleague, because have contradiction with you, you can look for you everywhere, plot against you, so you will be more uncomfortable.
However, a lot of people are working the place is very careless, they do not know to be repelled, this is lost very easily. Notice all personnel of yard place please so. If be in in working process all round you,have 4 kinds of cases, that means you to was worked in the same place to repel. You cannot despise them.
1. Invite a party without the person.
What is the good humor between the colleague? After coming off work, we still can have a meal together, this is one symbolizes, because this means the crossing besides the job, we still are willing to get along under the counter, this is to develop individual attachment.
If you discover you do not have those who get any fellow workers to invite, besides the late dinner that heads an organization, if you invite your fellow worker one case,perhaps have a meal, and want to make an appointment without the person, you can be worked in the same place probably to repel. Because they do not like you, also do not want to isolate you, so they reject to have a meal under the counter with you.
2. If encounter difficulty, do not have a person to be able to help you.
In working process, everybody can encounter difficulty, do not know how to be solved. This is normal phenomenon. After all, doing not have a person is all-purpose. Right now, the work in the same placing's importance got reflecting. Because people uses blaze to collect firewood, a person is not solved, so people gathers draw on the wisdom of the masses, always find settle way.
But, be eliminated by the colleague when you outer when, your meeting discovery does not have a person to be able to appeal. No matter you appeal to who, the answer is: Busy, do not have time, do not know, because they do not hope your work is great, how can they give you the proposal?
3. Congratulate winner without the person
The colleague should unite friendly affection. Every boss wants to see this. Although this is not true friendship, the outside work of everybody still remains to finish.
If you discover you won award or obtained favorable result, and did not work in the same place but your leader congratulates you, you may be eliminated outer. Because work in the same place envious or detest you, your grade is higher, they are more uncomfortable, nature can congratulate you without the person.
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4. Praise without the person the friend is encircled.
Circle of small letter friendship is the communication agency with the mainest modern. It surmounted phone and short message already. Accordingly, from the point of the current situation of small letter, we can see the impact with the colleague.
Send a circuit the friend when you, when the staff will comment on you, because your person has been enraged,be certainly, everybody likes to interact with you; Contrary, no matter what your friend circle sends content, the colleague won't have any responses, praise even also won't point to you, so, you are repelled mostly, had better be the friend circle that finds out you. His inference, if they became wrong, still search better settle way.
Did not invite in friend circle, without the help, without congratulation, did not praise. These 4 kinds of circumstances make clear, they are repelled by the colleague outer, so we should do our best to solve them as soon as possible.
I am Ha Mo, a professional person. Notice me please, the person that becomes yard place to cannot be replaced together.
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