That bit of thing of Home Su Dajiang, should say only originally, solve very easily.
Pile the issue that fart selects greatly however, father and son 3 people talk in a roundabout way, escape defer, ill-natured and negative.
Everybody does not agree to face true, ability belt went out " Dou Ting is good " thing of this one pile.
Su Mingzhe early days, look be like always be in try to bear the blame, escaping actually, do not agree to accept the following fact:
His school work has, the surface is bright, consciousness should load everything; Leave home first however, unemployed, both sides is not considered.
What is a person short of more, jump over talk about again and again what.
Filial piety is used up in order to be separated by vast oceans on the mouth, "The eldest brother that I am Home Su " , " this home left me to be no good " , " this home cannot come loose " , " I am very disappointed to you!
Say these while, he actually early knew, this home is held out actually with his relation thin. He most this are disappointed, it is him himself.
He should give money to buy a house, "How does let me be earned than you? " he should play the leading role alone, "I was in charge of our pa. "I was in charge of our pa..
He is not not to know, these act are overcompensation, but he escapes this fact.
Whenever the wife points out a fact to him, he escapes with respect to defer, "This is not one and the same! "This is not one and the same!!
Whenever direct of him remote control gave an issue, hurry responsibility turns another person: "Too disappointed! "Too disappointed!!
Su Mingcheng is not not to know he is gnawed old, not be not to know to consider a career, oneself are far be inferior to Ming Yu. But he does not have a law to accept, escaping all the time so.
Su Mingcheng loves talk about again and again most, two words. One of, "Su Mingyu has a few smelly money namely! " secondly, "Mom gives me this money! "Mom gives me this money!!
"Su Mingyu has a few smelly money " , with respect to the advantage that can obliterate Su Mingyu; "This money is Mom those who give me " , can mask oneself to gnaw old fact. But he so when saying, soft, know be in the wrong oneself.
When so Zhu Li lends money with Ming Yu, he feels this is in humiliate his self-respect. Father draws out enter an item of expenditure in the accounts this when, he stamps with fury.
Cry more noisily, empty is jumped over in the heart.
In one's heart, this is his soft costal region.
For escapism, he is OK very ruthless and cruel. Hear Zhu Li to say his spirit did not ablactation, spank swung the past. Hear Zhu Li to persuade him to fasten investment, reject to accept reality, "You do not say to invest return rate with me of what, I believe myself to be able to make money this namely! I believe myself to be able to make money this namely!!
He does not agree to accept a mother to mistreat Ming Yu's past even, hear Su Dajiang to say him mother is bad, OK and malty block the door up to scold: Because once admitted this,be nodded, admitting his is undeserved really the family of benefit the first trash.
He is true dare not face reality. Once was faced, cry antrum came out:
Audience talk about again and again, home Su 2 daughter-in-law early days is normal person, particularly good; Later period appears, actual.
Actually she two had done not have God to enter the ground, just compare at 2 Xiaosu, can accept reality just.
Everything what Wu Fei does, it is the logic of a rational person: Consider small first, consider authority again, do not fill big tail wolf; Occupied first (look for Ming Yu) solve a problem, the give oneself airs on mouth of and rather than. Of course, a lot of moment appear too actual: That is the footing that herself regards a wife as.
Everything what Zhu Li does, also be the choice of a rational person: Straight face reality chooses to return money, the job was lost bring a lawsuit against, the job came back to appreciate, be far from the Su Mingcheng that does not agree to accept reality apparently -- of course her job was lost bring a lawsuit against, bring about husband to go to pairs the period of the day from 11 pm to 1 am is not big playing husband's younger sister, but the thinking that cardinal principle is a normal person.
She is opposite deal with concrete matters relating to work two, now and then show a drop hoggish, but the man that contrast ignores a fact twice, had shown came.
Of course, this drama all contradictory fountainhead, it is Zhao Meilan and Su Dajiang.
And they also are in all the time... escape.
According to gut, zhao Meilan is an interest originally consummate: Follow Su Dajiang for registered permanent residence, think additional Pan Gaozhi originally, do not have a law to divorce because of Ming Yu however, do not get lifetime then meaning, yu Mingyu of vent one's anger on sb who's not to blame and Su Dajiang.
Vent one's anger on sb who's not to blame also is one of way that psychological defence ego protects. Zhao Meilan is a little brother to bustle all one's life, do not get self-consciously again annals, so inevitable that seek a ground. "The woman gives a man to do foil namely " , aggrandizement this thinking, she can ego opens solution, oneself are a little brother busy it is right. "Blame bright jade and Su Dajiang " , aggrandizement this thinking, can let her accept her all one's life to marry those who be in Home Su not complacent.
And the extremely evil source Su Dajiang with this contradictory drama, it is the king that escape.
Zhao Meilan is in when, he is escaping all the time: Hide closet, escape to take a walk, good the fact that escapes Zhao Meilan to mistreat Ming Yu.
After Zhao Meilan is dead, he is escaping all the time face Ming Yu: Because of self-conscious be in the wrong, also know oneself can be faced chronically strong shrink back.
Be afraid of strong, be good at collecting of course soft.
Su Dajiang is pestering Su Mingzhe to want to go to the United States first, return the designed boast that place alcoholic drink: Be depressed long, get pair of fellow official, especially tall chairman, throw one's weight about. Because know,also be, su Mingzhe is good bully.
Send bright when getting married, discover Zhu Li agrees to bear the blame, then everything does not cry bright into, call Zhu Li only, raise all sorts of unjustifiable requirements; Urge Su Mingzhe at the same time, "Buy a house quickly to me! "Buy a house quickly to me!!
Dare not touch Su Mingyu, su Mingcheng dare be not touched gradually later, wu Fei dare not search gradually later. Everything looks for Su Mingzhe, Zhu Li and Shi Tiandong. Very simple: Persimmon is collected be held softly.
He is right children people quite much ill will, detail of of all kinds is not carried. Understand very easily: He becomes aware get oneself all one's life feel vexed, be oppressed by Zhao Meilan; He always is imagined be far from often be far from Zhao Meilan curtilage, compress children people, can make a day make the land, obtain happiness.
"This thing does not blame me! "This thing does not blame me!!
"I am not then, which be in charge of my where is capable! Which be in charge of my where is capable!!
"My blood pressure is high! "My blood pressure is high!!
He is escaping all the time take on father's responsibility, want to enjoyed obligation to stop only.
This also can explain, urgent growl growl wants Su Dajiang to marry with Cai Baomu, old building catchs fire those who do not have a law to save is pressing.
"Nobody can be in charge of me after! "Nobody can be in charge of me after!!
Eventide road is far, reason retroact.
Bright Yu Yuming becomes persuade him repeatedly: Family baby-sitter is a graph your money. In his heart, doesn't why know?
But he was depressed all one's life by Zhao Meilan, always be in so autohypnosis: Cai Baomu is open-armed to oneself, it is the glamour that admires oneself.
Was evicted to come by Cai Baomu so, he just is howling subreption. Blame saying is children prevents her to marry, just let him love be thwarted -- because once admitted he became blind,the eye misreaded a person, still by the person such humiliation ground evicts come, oneself are really, complete feel vexed all one's life.
In one's heart, su Dajiang's thought is:
Should escape only in " father " , " close affection " , " a respectful form of address for an old person still has err " in these a few carapace, do not go facing oneself to become father very bad, when the husband very unsuccessful fact, want to had ifed all the time.
True condition actually very simple:
Su Mingzhe is in charge of father feebly at all; Suming is become even if gnaw old; Su Mingyu is the most successful in them, it is however by the let sb suffer in the home most.
Home Su if 3 men are straight face reality admits defeat take soft, sit on Zhao Meilan's funeral, admit oneself or incapacity or blamed, the first collect solved this drama -- of course, also cannot pat cough up of so much collect.
As drama anthology plan, su Mingzhe's change is: More or less to know oneself do not have ability to provide a family. When answering the United States, still admitted to bright jade oneself are incompetent designedly.
Su Mingcheng's change is: What more or less admitted Ming Yu is powerful, what discovered oneself slowly is babyish, begin to assume responsibility, still gnaw old money, sureness worked.
Alleged of gigantic baby grow, do not pass even if begin to receive fact of the object of the action in a sentence to go up oneself, escaped no longer.
See the world demand to the family member, it is quite low really:
Should not hide in close affection to make a scene only roll about, can well occupied say a thing, assume responsibility, had calculated.
This theatrical work is real truthless also. Really honest, there is domestic dispute really on the world, hide in face, self-respect, vested interest and evasive carapace, do not agree consider sth as it stands. Truthless in, 3 revive escape severally make a scene, exaggerative arrived the utmost, just go out so so caboodle cuts a job.
And, su Mingyu too be infinitely resourceful, too spend money like water, ability solves problem of this one pile.
Must rely on too powerful leading role aureola when leading role, adscititious submit to humiliation, ability gets half satisfactory, that on the contrary bright: This is 1% too good case only.
The of 99% Su Mingyu in real life, because do not have so be infinitely resourceful, elder brothers also may not can accessibly introspection, so, can defend similar scar only probably, hold back all one's life?
This doubt is like the story backside that wants end-all winding-up stage, the myriad on the world does not have the grievance of reunion, think, just let a person feel anxious?
" Dou Ting is good " this story is in Suzhou.
Next door Suzhou without stannum, have a Changjiang Delta family. A woman is young funeral husband, take one child one female remarry another man. Children by hind pa is bullied as a child big, even the boy friend that the daughter looks for comes to have a meal, by hind pa takes bamboo pole to had been mauled -- of course, that boy friend is bare-handed at that time folded bamboo pole, the pa after was being frightened; Follow police station again there say to do not have a thing, not hind pa is caught go in, pressed down a place where people gather for various purposes; The daughter gets married smoothly later, free-standing; Pa often comes after, must rely on daughter provide for the aged instead, close all the more to the grandchildren outside daughter son.
80 years old go up, hind pa bear this hind when attend upon a dying relative of daughter provide for the aged, shedding a tear to say he is wrong before, do not have a face to say all the time namely. "I also know to there is an implication all the time in your heart, I it is bad to you " .
This hind daughter -- hum, it is I kiss Mom, I am in this thing " love story " in had written -- say with me later:
"To old just say this kind of word, what is used? Those who suffer, also went too. Laugh laugh, besides laugh laugh what to idea still have? Besides laugh laugh what to idea still have??
My Mom is super- low match edition Su Mingyu, look in her, the result that she gets has calculated, but after all not without the regret, also can ego comforts " laugh laugh " .
Alleged put down, not be scar be pacified, just uncover scar oneself no longer just.
There is how much Su Mingyu again on the world, face escape the problem, family members that do not agree to face a fact, does Lian Xiao laugh not to come out?
