Invalid close child 3 communication reasons

Civil / birch elder sister talks foster

Mother of a lot of father is very bemused, obviously oneself been beening able to bear or endure strength and child were communicated, can why cannot often get ideal result? Basically have 3 reasons most:

No matter a person is in,the experience in growing process is happiness is abominable still, it can affect a person deeply in the future behavior. If him parents itself and go up the relation of generation is disharmonious, communicate not smooth, so when he is issueing generation to communicate with oneself, also meet normally difficult and heavy.

Be filled with be filled with the concern that follows mom as a child extraordinary tension. In memory, her mom great a long time is awaited is to be in angry, big growl to cry condition, always still like to be aimed at her. Be filled with be filled with always feel, no matter oneself have many hard, always cannot get mom approbate. When her when performance is very excellent, mom also does not give her a word that praise or affirms. But, when her performance is bad, be criticized with respect to what can suffer mom severity and censure, without giving thought to when, mom always is pointing to her to talk with the hand.

Now, be filled with those who be filled with the daughter little potato that sees oneself 10 years old a variety of negative behavior, she can use very slashing one's words clapperclaw, also always cannot see the advantage on daughter body. She thinks, correct behavior is should, it is this portion, need not emphasize or approbate.

After-thought rises, oneself year young when with mom after interacting, be filled with be filled with those who discover oneself and little potato to communicate, be in all the time actually serious him step year young the mode when, that is one kind is full of those who lack warmth is indignant, interactive.

Get when parents when challenge, life, communication skill is met abate, the heart that be the same as manage, ability that solves a problem cannot produce effect. Finally, let a problem become more and more serious instead.

Spit of 6 years old cries be troubled by should watch TV, because father was disturbed to lose patience, and start work hit him. However, physical punishment was changed child intermit cries be troubled by, but inextricability problem, more the force fighting defeat that goes against Yu Pei to raise him.

Actually, father can change way of a kind of certainly, tell spit with firm tone, that program does not suit dot to watch. So, no matter how he cries,be troubled by is otiose. He can not look namely. If want to watch TV really, one chooses in the program that can suit a child to look from two of father make choice of.

If of parental first impressions are strongest think bad behavior of the child is the authority in him challenge, and set next regulation and target because of this, so child nature can be fed up with parents.

Parents should be below the condition of sober, reason, be considerate, set criterion of established rule or practice and target, the child ability is possible because of feel it is fair and reasonable and be willing to accept.