Actually, raising an old person to provide for is the obligation that children should use up, these are clear, but need my the real situation to pay, I am not done, because,what I can do is merely compulsory, without feeling! When just giving birth to the child, husband's father and mother is heavy male light female, myself takes care of the child in confinement, that moment is Caesarean birth, also experience of it doesn't matter, the child because be of artificial feed, bring about indigestion more via often can be being fed by me, every other gets up 3 hours two to wash feeder to change make water to milk powder not wet, it is good to basically had not slept become aware, what eat in confinement is bad also, mother-in-law not very is in charge of, often hungry abdomen, husband can buy some of snacks to be being filled up to me only, the sanitation in the room also is he is cleaned, bring about collywobbles lochia is endless later. Again the child is gradually big later, want to let a mother-in-law help taking, I go going to work, the mother-in-law is not willing, every the tuber of elevated gastrodia will dance, signed up for a Latin dance class technically still, also did not work all the time, I follow one aunt really when the child is small same, downstair neighbour sees spit groove I am not as exquisite as my mother-in-law still. The child is 3 two years old when, the grandmother should take care of the child to sister-in-law of her a married woman's parents' home, she should give birth to 2 embryoes, when be being faced, say with me, it is to take care of a confinement hind to come back, later is not however, let her come back to look after children, I go to work, she is in the home blubber, say us such, she does not have a law to make relation with her a married woman's parents' home, she still continues to take care of her sister-in-law 4, herself says, get up 5:30 every morning, cook, fried dish, their home is to have a meal in the morning, send big niece to go to school next, prepare lunch midday, receive niece to come back to have a meal siesta, she is taken to bathe before siesta, send niece to go to school afternoon, come back to take small 2 treasure, continue to busy in the evening, taking niece to sleep. My farther-in-law is in the home, united States its name is to give us to cook, the result did not do two days, be troubled by in the home, say " my confinement in childbirth did not open salary to my mother-in-law, they do not have obligation to look after children to me, who oneself brings whose child, they became old also do not want us to raise, as to take niece nephew, because niece nephew can compare a son to be close friends to them when they are old,be... "
My farther-in-law also makes a lunch in the home, he sleeps in the morning, because the head can stay up late a day night,hit mahjong, dinner is average my husband comes off work come back, he looks after children to me, myself is done. So clamorous after, be to do not have the life since method another really, broke up, we eat in a married woman's parents' home now, the child is put in the nursery school of village of a married woman's parents' home, my pa Mom helps me take grip, I go to work with my husband, a married woman's parents' home follows the crural Cheng that husband's family walks ten minutes, my husband's father and mother had never visited my daughter, also had not made even the telephone call, spend the New Year we can eat a meal together, do not contact usually. The year before last year I fall ill be in hospital, they had not shown a side, my daughter also is my pa Mom is being taken, leave hospital later come home sanatorium, the body has not restored completely, want to be reinspected regularly, just catch up with my sisters-in-law to give birth to the child, my farther-in-law calls actually want me to wait upon confined, it is to breathe out really breathe out... them ability is 52 years old, not be 7 old 80, had not asked me the body has been done not have very much, let me take care of confinement, my husband lets him himself call to me this thing also ended up with nothing definite... they take care of me now little father's younger brother, little father's younger brother is bad-tempered, the child eats and drink from confinement pull scatter sleeping is to follow my mother-in-law, young husband and wife two as doing not have the child eat and drink amuse oneself, the sheet bedding that sleeps even themselves is my farther-in-law is washed, answered really now a word " evil person has evil person to grind oneself " !
I think, etc they are old, I cannot prevent my husband to go filial piety, but I do not do myself to go the with one one's heart of past grudge of slam the door is ministrant, I still am done not have so goddess, cannot cross the Na Daokan in the heart, my husband also has said, won't blame me! If the mother-in-law was done after me, when the child needs to help, the side that with one one's heart endeavors, him therefrom comes over, know among them distressed, it is heart of popular feeling substitution!
