I am read promotion person, when I work at ordinary times, somebody of classics regular meeting lets me recommend book of psychological self-help reference books with material taken from various sources and arranged according to subjects. After I am recommended, somebody asks why to to recommend major kind classical literature. The face has an error here, professional kind of classical literature, to professional psychology doctor psychological perhaps practitioner looks.
The person that does not have professional foundation more very much looks him to give his pair of disease, perhaps take medicine, this kind of risk will be very big. Be not professional personage, I suggest to see popular science of a few masses kind book of active psychological self-help.
" how to read a book effectively: Exceed practical note to read calligraphy "
Right, before reading any books, dou Xianxue can read a means, especially manipulative read, read following to was not read is to read euqally efficiency has a problem, rise first read efficiency to say again.
" former unripe family: The disposition blemish that how repairs oneself "
The gist of Fu Wode of author susan · does not depend on accuse such parents, and depend on imparting particular the way to deal with a situation, make those had sufferred or still be in bear the people that parents harms gains courage and strength, free oneself from inside the negative impact mode with parents, regain self-confidence and power, get freedom and happiness.
" affection is blackmailed "
The basic form of nightmare of a lot of human relations -- affection is blackmailed. Blackmailer captures scared feeling of the victim, sense of responsibility and Babylon feeling, both sides is tired together in vicious circle. The germ that Fu Wode blackmails to affection did comprehensive, deep analysis, did to the type of blackmailer and victim Baconian. A paragraph of relation can drop into extortionary trap, blackmailer and the victim's bilateral weakness are caused jointly. And affection is blackmailed look be like with the victim concessional, blackmailer is satisfied end, actually enroach on ego integrality of the victim, the state of mind that also lets blackmailer is more screwy, the problem in the relation still did not get settlement. She tells us, when facing affection to blackmail, how should be correct to ability, we can learn to cast off the method that affection blackmails through a few simple training. The most important is: Place footing, sturdy confidence.
" resist pressure: Adversity renascence law "
What you need to do is not to accumulate ecstasy view to look ahead blindly, straight face is inactive in mastering in adversity however the mood, skill that answers pressure. This book author is long world grand department is in 500 strong companies of world from him experience of the summary in old job of Bao Jie, the reason that put forward to also cannot be acquired in famous business school -- " resist pressure " importance. A variety of pressure origin that he encounters easily in the light of modern and circumstance, put forward to develop the 7 old practical mastery of a skill or technique that resist pressure, these hang also are the elite seat that he faces content of the professor when the masses undertakes grooming in school of Japanese active psychology.
Can read psychology conciously kind self-help book, be first-rate germinant, everybody has psychological pressure, this it doesn't matter, face bravely, it is the beginning that becomes better. Logical dredge psychology question, this lets we and our family be benefited.
