Is sexual education had necessary?

Recently, children suffers the incident that the gender approachs to happen often, how to protect children health to grow the topic that everybody cares. The sexual education that spreads out from this should be done after all, this who will do, how should become the issue that became everybody to care most.

Undeniable, at present China falls in mainstream speech authority, still talk about sexual color to change. Sexual education is in the parent and teacher eye, as if great scourges, cannot character says, why does everybody have such fear to the gender? This speaks of from our sexual culture even.

China comes thousands of years, pursue the sex that teachs without the gender to teach, namely the parent is in of the child into never can talk about a gender for a long time with the child. Ancient time is done not have contemporary such educational system, and rise from Chinese face, confucianism became the mainstream of Chinese culture, in pursue chaste intense below female thought, the gender became contraindication between ordinary common people, chinese the ancients has everythings on earth of easy to read and understand sex of male and female to lay an idea only, do not have modernistic science to know about allowing bisexually to affirm, accordingly, the gender is taught more have no way is mentioned.

Ancient time not only the intellectual level on whole is not much, corresponding book is current very few also. And archaic newspaper, magazine, broadcast, TV, network is nonexistent, adolescent also contacts sexual stimulation without the opportunity almost. Below this kind of circumstance, the sexual education that teachs without the gender became best sex to teach. Because everybody does not say, dot also is not contacted. Marry son's wife when the son, when the daughter gets married, parents just is drawn out " press one's store of valuables " implemental, tell young husband and wife how to should make love thing. Be to have a joke, foolish before the son marries daughter-in-law to face bridal chamber, father tells a son, with your body the best place hits the place of your daughter-in-law piddle. Result the following day in the morning, discovery is foolish in the pool of blood before the son falls in wife Jordan.

From theoretic tell, father is right foolish an instruction before son bridal chamber belongs to sexual education of course, and belong to the understanding with the at present simplest to sexual education people, sexual education is coital education. But the sex of my place praise highly teachs instantly, not be coital education apparently. The gender teachs the education that loves more, the education of responsibility.

In archaic village inside the life limits of familial type, information is very underdeveloped, doing a gender to teach is best means instead, because be in Confucianist setting, say a gender, it is very feculent body from good thing, besides, the teacher in parents and private school thinks the education that do a gender, also do not have teaching material, sex of the ancients thinkable is taught, it is coital education, accordingly, this kind does not have the way that the gender teachs, continued thousands of years. And the result is right also.

But, time is very fast, before you can say Jack Robinson had arrived 21 centuries, of times of network, media we, no matter from intellectual level, information is current wait for numerous angle, the ancients cannot is likened to completely. Newspaper, magazine, broadcast, TV, network is the effective transmission way of information, and easy to do can obtain, especially maize information. Small video of picture of pornographic novel, yellow, sexual love and all sorts of media are right the report of off the rails, sex, be full of our eyeball. Children is not deaf also not blind, they also can see a movie TV, also have mobile phone computer, the most important is still can go to school read, want to know, the main source that adolescent gets sexual knowledge is the communication between the companion. Accordingly, if we do not teach sexual knowledge, be in budding adolescent to because had better surprise,also be met, oneself seek the solution, in network media times, the sexual knowledge that we assure very hard to adolescent is searched is accurate sexual knowledge, more the sexual knowledge that ensures to communicate between the companion hard is beneficial harmful still.

So, instantly, the sex of children is taught, should do, and no time to delay.