The person's behavior is to be able to get the guidance of our consciousness, this is us what say " reason " , but everybody also is different to the acknowledge of the help, some people hope the other side also can give corresponding redound to be able to choose to help each other so, and experience among the process that some people are helping another person happy satisfy with ego, such as Lei Feng, lei Feng is altruistic dedication is not had really seek get one's own back, but this is to someone else character, to him himself character, joy helps other feedback give him namely " newspaper " .
See those who cross patristic series movies know, affection investment does not need to cash instantlyAnd more of others of help of a lot of moment is to establishing a kind of relationship, the appellation between patristic godchild is representing join of a kind of affection, resemble the favor accident that our Chinese says a bit, why you can lend money, because lend money,itself consumes emotive behavior one kind namely. Patristic say well " I will need probably henceforth, also do not need your help possibly also forever, and when I need you, I hope to be able to be there " .
The help between the opposite sex is to meet by look upon of coloured eye institute, so we should learn to avoid doing anything that may arouse suspicionAnd with age the help between the opposite sex often is can be considered as behavior of a kind of pursuit, why cannot be widow door knocked, the widow does not need to help, still say everybody is very chill, the social viewpoint of value that its represent rear is to avoid doing anything that may arouse suspicion, although help others is very glorious, but we also should learn to protect our.
