Subjective affection is a very complex issue, it is a kind of mood that derives by emotional place and apiration.
E.g. , seek a perfect desire to all things everythings on earth, this comes from a kind at inner desire to drive namely.
We are understandable a such condition, the person goes toward altitude, water flows toward small part. Everybody is pursueing happiness, hope life is satisfactory, but this is only after all a kind yearning. Never whose life, can by satisfactory two words will describe.
Be in those seeing to be like satisfactory life backside, more it is a reason that a person understands stop where it should stop probably. When arriving at certain node, know content with one's lot and stop where it should stop to his life condition, so he feels life is satisfactory. And cast a mood and character, the essence of life never satisfactory, more nonexistent so called true perfect.
In " moral classics " in have a such words: Reason content with one's lot not disgrace, know to stop not to danger, OK and long.
? The meaning that is to say of this word, know to satisfy won't be insulted, know stop where it should stop won't have a harm, with respect to the affront that can avoid to come from life. When so this kind is insulted even if the desire was not satisfied, brings lose.
When you know to satisfy, even if encounters life all is inferior to meaning, also know when life did not achieve your desire, arrange its nature, not excessive begs him prep above the desire of ability, not excessive seeks the desire that violates morality and law, not excessive seeks the desire that exceeds limit. So this is a kind of advisability, content with one's lot person advisable, meet a few less discreditable, also be the expression of a kind of great wisdom.
Guo Xuewen changes " dish root Tan " in have a such words: Heaven and earth still is not had overblown, life and have profit and loss, besides trifling the world. Is thing of what one is particularly good at satisfactory and constantly free time ease? Just to snatch a little leisure from a busy life, encounter be short of place content with one's lot, operate in me, freely of work and rest, namely demiurgic must not talk work and rest to it more deficient be filled with.
Heaven and earth moves to never stop, life has Yin Qing circle to be short of, the mankind that is trifling what is more,the rather that more, let a person how possibly a lot of things can satisfactory peace and happiness. Want you only can in the days from snatch a little leisure from a busy life, when encountering a regret also can Chang Le of content with one's lot, even if is the desire that did not achieve you, you also can be in insipid and in seeing a life that seems lose, hold oneself life, search among them joy. This is as not stronger as nature, go according to natural rule act.
We must understand this time, the order of nature that points out here, it is everything is done not have to the queen's taste a truth, besides life has Yin Qing circle to be short of, be a person what is more,the rather that more. In the lifetime of everybody, put in a lot of regrets to perhaps say lose certainly, when you the society is accepted when life is faulty, meet trouble a lot of lesser.
Village said a such words: Content with one's lot person, not with benefit from tired also. Father also has said: Disaster not is more than insatiable, jiu Mo is more than be about to get.
The language of the sages and men of virtue of these the ancients, to us there is a very strong to inspire a meaning for now, a lot of people are cast off hard to a perfect pursuit. Pursuit happiness is understandable, but blindly lose reason, blindly go going after satisfactory, when the desire was not satisfied, the mood of your lose can bring bad mood to oneself certainly even bad anguish.
We do not want to see this, us again and again emphasize, want to understand natural rule, consist in month has circle of shade fine rain to be short of the order of nature, all things everythings on earth is done not have to the queen's taste a truth. This lets us always know content with one's lot namely, one kind when know life is satisfied, ability is in such cannot to the queen's taste a best psychology is searched to be nodded evenly in the world, of the calm go spending lifetime.
