When our everybody is small, can acquire a lot of axiom, having a lot of among them is Confucius of his a respectful form of address for an old person. Of course a lot of words that he says are so reasonable really, " is for instance lukewarm know new " so, be recited actually far from with us, when teaching us to want to review everyday because of the teacher, cite with respect to classics regular meeting, can saying authority is already complete is know sth thoroughly at the heart!
After a lot of people are grown, gain greater success for him drive, still meet among them some logion is taken, of the maxim and so on that serves as oneself. For instance we arrived duty field, can face a lot of competition, occasionally calumniatory can come from a colleague even, let us feel very get hurt, very get hurt, can take out " of " return good for evil to be read more with respect to somebody at that time, the hope can make him sober brains.
We should be borne or should bear of course, but whether true need breaks a tooth into pieces, must want and move Where is the degree that blood swallows in past abdomen? Aperture master also had not told us, should ask we want to use only heart, go dissolving complain, even penitentiary even those people that injure us, this lets a lot of people plaint, we are not sages, we are not done really! The trouble that can not look for him calculates pretty good!
Also have a lot of people nevertheless, express suspicion greatly to this word of aperture master, does he want to let us become an a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle namely? Let others make different face, must still give right face to the family go up? Confucius expresses not to carry this boiler on the back. In fact if everybody knows, he the word that at that time is not this meaning, meet for certain dripping wet of mood merry and lively is very much, that aperture master teachs us, arrived " is driven beyond forbearance the degree of " , need not bear " again with respect to " ?
We still see him why can speak this word at that time. At that time also is the student that has him, the likelihood was to get of others bully, also be to had not played the other side probably, go asking a husband how should do. Is the master how say? If he says, may make everybody astonied! Because he says, tell the person of " heart " to those, you ability is OK such redound. If others flies,one foot kicked you, you still sign up for with the word of heart, are then you neuropathic? After going out, also do not say to know me!
So what is the view of Confucius? What he says actually in the analects of confucius is very clear, this moment should " complains " with straight newspaper! This word what meaning? Spoken parts in an opera is " with cruel make cruel " , he dare take crural kick you, you cut him directly! When believing a lot of people see here, just understand the misunderstanding to this word has many deep. Of course this not strange also master, who lets you be not known read " the analects of confucius " ?
For this we should understand, actually Confucius to " of " return good for evil feel disgusted very much, what also he objects resign oneself to adversity, go to be a mistake more cutting a person directly of course, after all now is law society, should protect oneself with better legal weapon.
