The friend asks:
On-the-job field, what kind of person is unfavorable and thorough Where is association? Have again what kind of be worth to become a friend?
Come 20 years to big city work from the country from me, my experience is: Unfavorable to social inimical person hand in greatly, affable to the society person is worth to do become a good friend more.
These year will know many people, major person is the hasty passing traveller in my life only, but is there are a few people to differ somewhat me to? .
Have a few people, can become the good friend of keep no secrets from each other; Also have extremely individual person, made the enemy however.
Still have a few people, although before is the enemy, but after association time became long, became a friend however; Also have a few people, concern with me so pretty good, the relation becomes suddenly later worse and worse.
What reason is this?
Why some of person can become a good friend, is some of person unfavorable however interact with him?
The course thinks over for long, I discover, this is the corporeal problem of a person. The person of unfavorable association, basically be right the society is full of animosity; Be worth the person that you interact deep, he is very affable to the society.
In the human relation of on-the-job field, how to go differentiating pair of social inimical people or affable to the society person?
We often want and understanding or familiar person chat together, you can discover, a kind of person is full of negative sentiment, it is more to others complain or animosity, I call such people B kind person. Still have a few people, his metropolis includes many a little bit to others and friendly, I want this kind to call A kind person. We experience from what profundity goes in 5 chatting setting below:
One, when you talk about the person of a few common knowledge:
A kind person: He can admire people says substantially: "He ah, I know, very fierce ah. Very fierce ah..
B kind person: Always like to taking what the mood changes to evaluate negatively say: "He, I know, what to calculate, be his father has money? Be his father has money??
2. Spoke of others doing when you, let oneself very the thing of accurate when:
B kind person: This individual true TM is foolish force, affection trade is too poor, what thing won't be done, too mental retardation!
A kind person: He although this thing may be done not quite well, perhaps have other reasons, we are OK breath out to he understands at many o'clock and including.
B: Fart. He is nodded then small 99, I still do not know him!
3. When you speak of a certain big Ga or starring:
B kind the person thinks: "Such-and-such big Ga is such nevertheless also, genuflect licks everybody his appearance makes a person really keck! My where day the secret him, completely cruel come out, let everybody see his real features. Let everybody see his real features..
A kind the person thinks: "Without giving thought to how, can be chased after to hold in both hands by everybody, the certain advantage that always has him is breathed out, be the place that deserves everybody study. " ?
4, in realize oneself misunderstood the other side, perhaps did I am sorry others when:
A kind person: "I am sorry, this is my fault, if have displeased place, ask great excuse, I can change a mistake certainly next time. . . . . ..
B kind person: Like shirk responsibility ground to say: "He also has become wrong place, if his affection quotient is a bit higher, say specificly to nod, how can I misunderstand him again... "
5, in the colleague that mentions not to like, when leaving a company:
B kind the person says: "Thank heaven, he left eventually, resemble him such person, mix very hard well in people corporation, he does not see after I hope to fall... "
A kind the person can persuade: "The word does not say so absolutely, the person always can change, the person with very special perhaps nature, become old boss in the future, we still wish he is lucky. We still wish he is lucky..
Of course, have absolutely A impossibly socially kind person, because he also may be angry, but he is met as far as possible some more to others well-meaning, many somes of tenderness. Tell on the other hand, b kind person also may not is so bad, he also is met very clever, have experience, only he always feels the society owes him, treat others a few more the newspaper is complained and with.
Tell so, it is better to hope oneself have grow, mix more A kind the person becomes a friend, he can bring the confidence to future to you; Mix less B kind person confabulate, because the regular meeting when his negative energy hits you,carry do not start.
