Rural girl should know, in rural confinement in childbirth be can be in only of husband's family confinement in childbirth, cannot be in a married woman's parents' home is confined, we think a lot of time be illogical, more moment are to be able to blame parents old feudal, what time, still have this kind of traditional idea, the girl in family city is in instead many of confinement in childbirth of a married woman's parents' home, be in inside daughter confinement of mom attend below, restore but good, be in a country, calculate oneself to think confinement in childbirth is in the home, mom also does not allow. Be superstitious really? The netizen states the reason of backside is more real.
Reason one: A married woman's parents' home has sibling easy pose contradictionHave brotherly sister to a married woman's parents' home, have the case of sisters-in-law especially, it is special do not hope the daughter is met of confinement in childbirth of a married woman's parents' home. Because the daughter is inside the traditional idea of rural person,marry go out to be in husband's family is confined, answer confinement in childbirth of a married woman's parents' home, want to live one case with them not only, and mom is about more taking care of daughter, this moment sisters-in-law is met grouchy, because this time more is to be on daughter body, can compare plan, easy generation is contradictory.
Reason 2: Answer confinement in childbirth of a married woman's parents' home, delegate marriage is badRural person is especially other and sensitive, laying most person is confined in mother-in-law home. If once the daughter of whose home meets her a married woman's parents' home is confined, the person all round can weave at random, special meeting says the lying-in woman is not sensible, can make carding comments at the same time, it is the mother-in-law concerns with daughter-in-law bad, give birth to the child to be absent so husband's family is confined, run back to him home confinement in childbirth, it is husband and wife for certain the relation is bad, relation of wife and mother is bad.
Reason 3: Husband's family is grouchy, pose contradiction of wife and motherEspecially to if gave birth to the boy's puerpera, if do sth without authorization runs to confinement in childbirth of a married woman's parents' home, affirmative meeting creates the barrier between wife and mother. What know the country is special is heavy male light female, gave birth to the boy, still bring back a married woman's parents' home to go confined, the mother-in-law is sure the meeting is very angry, because of oneself cannot the sees oneself grandchildren of hour, go visitting grandchildren to daughter-in-law a married woman's parents' home also cannot follow one's inclinations, can pose contradiction of wife and mother so, go against the following matrimony.
Confined note:No matter you are in which edge confinement in childbirth, no matter be,mom is taken care of, a lot of elder had not taken care of confinement, so the habit of a lot of confinement inside confinement may be according to themselves is confined before consuetudinary come with the method, after all the times is in progress, some are unscientific, because this him puerpera wants to add an attention more, some places may have some of discrepancy. ① about eating side, do not eat an egg, old hen, want food balanced, do not need to fill particularly; ② should get out of bed appropriately on foot, not all the time lie in bed; ③ wants shampoo to bathe brush one's teeth, the attention is wholesome; ④ basis is seasonal and different remember air conditioning, indoor and ventilated; What ⑤ darling does not wear is overmuch.
Confinement in childbirth is the important matter of feminine lifetime, it is good that he still want to be done ahead of schedule in pregnancy communicate, avoid contradiction appears inside confinement, oneself are angry, life is inside confinement very the health that goes against the body, what can have touch likely still at the same time is depressed, should shift to an earlier date so ready-made, if a married woman's parents' home is not willing, also do not want to importune, if husband's family is taken care of bad, also do not want too angry, life hurts a body easily. Can let husband take care of, live meeting place perhaps asks confinement an aunt is OK, confinement in childbirth is a half-moon time, actually very fast.