This. Before section class begins, we see a case first, install in tide, the foreign enterprise does foreign trade to be translated with sheet ever young lady! Everyday day. pass very contentedly! Busy by day move goes to work, of the job ah attend English to groom even class, he oneself. Each days. Time is discharged completely, nevertheless the parents in the home ah longing for him to marry earlier only however. Ever young lady and boy friend ah be college time understanding, up to now had talked about love more than 4 years. Maintained each other basically also. This year ah ever young lady firm university! Graduation! Two parents begin to urging them to marry, but ever young lady do not want to marry temporarily, he thinks ah oneself. Graduation just a few! Month! Good sought him share not easily. Like. Steady work, consider the thing that marry without energy really now. At the same time it is the career that just starts, at the same time. Be parents force marriage pressure, ever young lady ah often be immersed in deep trouble in. He worked a few months, follow weak flow to begin to foreign trade. Be familiar! But new. the challenge came again, the spoken English level that is him then is not quite ideal still. Good to practice spoken English, ah he signed up for to groom to oneself class, everyday in the evening should attend class. Additional ah he is right. Oneself record of formal schooling is not quite satisfactory! Preparation grinds through reading will promote professional ability, everyday should take out grinding book is studied in light of a few time. With ever condition of the young lady's current this kind of life, ah marry to be able to throw into confusion undoubtedly a lot of his plans. Ever the young lady eats to be in him home, parents feels distressed her work is hard, undertook the whole thing major housework is vivid, let him have enough time the business that does oneself. Ever the young lady says, once marry, he is the goodwife of a little family, affirmation should do not little chore, spend many idea, come. Run this home, oneself the relation that balances good job and family hard. Ever the young lady is afraid of marry, the career that block up just started, this is he fears the main source of marriage. According to tone checks the elephant is enclothed, from 60 hind investigate to the 90 societies after, show have. The female of 58.95% is when to apply for a job. Ever by manpower resource. The branch asks ask passes marriage love a circumstance, of 31.69% suffer visit. The female thinks marriage. State, to his duty field development is having main effect! Discover not hard from inside afore-mentioned investigation data, opposite at. the male, female. Manacle because of what suffer domestic marriage, the freedom on on-the-job field is spent the conference is smaller! A few. In live pressure. Increasingly serious! instantly, woman income is a when make domestic gross income main component, want to take care of a family already, must take care of the child again, still must make money raise the home. The female is in the pressure in the society is not as little as the male, return instead may taller. Korea undertook one brings the findings that what affects about marrying to live to duty field recently, show ah the men and women is apparent to this view difference. The Korea woman that has 70% above thinks marital be a hindrance to lives at duty field. Besides, marriage returns form to the influence of duty field the following now two respects. It is the female after marriage above all need assumes more families to work, in traditional sexual distinction. In the part! The female in marriage basically assumes two roles, wife and mother. Wife mean should. Take care of a family to cook! Wash garment arrange! Housework worries about, the relation contact between domestic member, become marital proponent. And maternal R is meant should take care of a child, compare for, main responsibility of the husband raises the home namely, main responsibility of father also be to raise the home. The male maintains the extensive contact of move and society, promote oneself fortune more likely, ego evaluates fitness, and female ah often hold several duty concurrently personally, among them 7 mothers job more allow a woman. Animal farm at. Kitchen of day and night and love. These impression not be an empty hole invites the wind-weakness lends wings to rumors, it comes from inside impression of media of experience of life, final fashion into the standard of duty of the men and women in the marriage that we know. When child cry, the mother wants. Before going up, more active ground is taken care of! When child vomiting and defecate, the mother wants to be handled actively! And father. the station is watched aside and can await possibly. When hunger when, ah maternal need walks into a kitchen actively to make in kind, and maternal job be considered as not important thing more likely, can. Resign or. Abandon preferment! Even ah female. More possible accordingly. Depend on. Another in marriage, throw the labor that more proposes a toast without firewood in the family, although both sides has the job, the female also needs a time besides more job to throw a family! N/COL the head of a family front courtyard becomes the focus of the life, heart of very difficult whole body throws the woman. Working certainly will affects the development of the career. The 2nd respect ah it is field of duty of the female after marriage is underestimated easily. Marry to bear the vitreous ceiling that can make the female feels take office field more quickly especially, they will be underestimated. Married man ah often be thought the meeting is more reliable, more conscientious, and married woman in be being thought to work will not more hard! More go up heart, and people. Ah can plant to support this bias, notice more bears the witness of this bias. Married woman should be obtained approbate, often need to give more effort, prove them ah not so take care of a family, prove he has additional investment to arrive in the job. The female's affection makes their weak point, his family concerns more the proof of the weak point that makes him. Enter labor market generally as the female, economy has made the ego demand of minimum of duty field female independently. More and more females value economic independence merely no longer, they have higher end, financial freedom gains professional reputation, realize individual value, way of life is freer, maintain cost lower. The woman that tall person makes does not want the life for marital him loss, the marriage that they expect finds matched pair not easily to resemble again, but what this does not live on behalf of them is very desolate. General for, the lone woman that tall person makes has taller happy feeling than other and lone woman, and lone woman group has taller happy feeling than married woman group. Because the female of tall person achievement has taller ego to evaluate to oneself,this may be, can have the challenge with new more everyday. Not fathomless, marriage can bear so multivalent cost no longer, be opposite especially for the female, lower and lower to marital dependence, even other way of life can replace marriage. The trend is such, inevitable meeting has the plan that more and more person defer marry, it is to marry no longer even. Through this class ah we understand, marriage is aimed at a female to the negative effect more of duty field, because of marriage the freedom that can reduce a female is spent, need assumes more housework, duty field is underestimated easily. Next course, ah we will fear marriage reason in the light of what analyse before, suit the remedy to the case, offer a solution,