The spouse is the person that accompanies our lifetime, how to choose spouse ground of the times different, the demand that presents is diverse also. Grandfather grandma, parents the person of that generation is basic the life that is parents, the character of intermediary Shuo. As the progress of the times, slowly, people begins yearning freedom, will choose lifelong partner according to oneself heart. 90 hind was to appear the choose of an extraordinary occasionally standard " 3 view should close " , it is world outlook, philosophy and love view namely.
The choose of 3 view occasionally standard already actual strength of prep above disposition, outside, economy and record of formal schooling. Am actually I is understanding 3 view very much to reflect after all where be? But often can hear a word from friend mouth: "3 view should not, anguish suffers, drive sb. to his death simply " . Does the anguish with 3 view true disagreement suffer? If 3 view should not, whether to continue to make do with even?
Before before long, I go joining the full moon alcoholic drink of child of a friend. With of the desk is a pair of young husband and wife, our age is average big, different is the parents that they had been a children. Did the friend in banquet deliver to that mom (abbreviation: ? of Yong Ren of ⒆ of of hammer of blood clam of β of Juan of a cricket of of ∷ ┮ is 〗 of exhausted box of Hui of of blind of harmonious of of ∷ of . ┎ returns Piao " of ∷ of pregnant of of Zhao of the Huaihe River of rare Wu carries body dam to send of Fen of Ai of Kang of Fu sole handsome of ∩ of the that kill ∷ carries body?00 many a little bit therefore. " the answer that hears urine, small be good at complexion is more ugly, subsequently in a low voice growl path: "100 much? A jug 100 much? Darling just drinks a milk now, do you buy jug to work? Waste money! " the respecting that urine brings grievance slightly: "Darling should drink water, when we go out together, also can use, after waiting for him to be brought up, this jug also can be used. . . . . . " voice says smaller more, till inaudible, as the beginning of feast, the small episode in feast also ended so.
I in banquet also am paying close attention to them silently all the time, urine is cautious all the time, err of for fear that finishs sth. Be engaged in affection happening actually at the beginning, I cannot accept this responsibility a bit, does a jug need of many bits 100 challenge so in communal circumstance oneself wife? The thing that buys a life to often want to use such reaction, a bit terrible really. A petty thing is such, how is the important matter encountered to still be met in the life? Had this thing a little with the friend later, I knew they are the love of junior high school, of the opposition of bilateral parents, mother-in-law look down on, often the Yan Ke of home of fleer, husband and the fund that demand woman home ceaselessly. Do not understand very much really, why should urine be together with him? Be love? Worth while? Happy? First love is admittedly good, everything what can give oneself, did she present have get one's own back? Suddenly between I seem to have so that word that friend of a bit understanding says: "3 view should not, anguish suffers, drive sb. to his death simply. " also understood why the 90 choose after occasionally standard 3 view are consummate.
3 view should not, not be to say the point of view is different, however two people are not on same spirit administrative levels and frequency, do not wish to respect the other side, do not wish to change. You are OK every respect is a bit more defective, but 3 view must close, because that is the view that we treat this world together, the view of the view of life and love.
The remainder of one's life is very long, seek right person, entrust is lifelong.
The remainder of one's life is very brief, do not seek wrong person, regret lifelong.
If 3 view should not, whether do we make do with even?