Date of small letter public quizs: Always receive the teacher's telephone call recently, reflective child attends class not serious listen to a talk, either petty action is much, it is disturbed classroom discipline. The middle school on the child, with him preach manages, he is to love not to listen. Attend class attend a lecture is the most important channel that the child gets knowledge, it how should I run ability is good how should I run ability?
Expert viewpoint
Beijing Haidian learns Yong Juan of a surname of teacher of high teacher, Haidian area key member in the experiment: Attention is the key of study, attend class the problem of attend a lecture, be not worth with the student's attention mostly relevant. Relevant research makes clear, 11 years old of attention stabilization period to 12 years old of children ought to be controlled in 30 minutes.
After we study, discover, the cause of formation of problem of student attend a lecture has the following kinds basically: The first it is inadequacy of knowledge of pair of study purposes, sense. Lack the sense of responsibility of study and initiative, study purpose is ambiguous, affect the progress that the student notes of purpose badly. The 2nd it is to cannot control oneself, interference rejection ability is poor. Suffer the effect of surroundings particularly easily, often look around, love is in charge of " other people's business " , apparently look be like learning, real learning result is very poor. The 3rd it is to learn to be afraid of difficulty, without certain perseverance. When difficulty is encountered in study, often do not agree beat one's brains thinks, die and retreat. The 4th stability that is an attention, endurance is poor, watchful range is narrow.
We must abandon " the thing of the school, teacher full-fledged member is responsible, the problem of child attend a lecture, the idea that the parent is willing to help but unable to do so " . The parent must want to believe, the student's attention and domestic support perception are spent closely related. Domestic support perception spends include: The manner of the parent that the student can experience apparently is support, close child the independence of close density, student is experienced, the influence that the parent is used to pair of students, student is right the manner reaction of parent language.
Active, effective home school cooperates, to promotion the child's attention can produce tremendous effect. Above all, the parent should communicate with the teacher patiently, communicate, ask a teacher to help. If discover the child leaves a god to be able to remind in time on classroom, or the seat that adjusts the child temporarily, the position that lets the child sit in the teacher to notice more easily is waited a moment. Want to be contacted actively with the teacher during this, accurate whether is the circumstance that holds the child improved somewhat.
Next, lead, directive child makes a target. Make daily study schedule, weekly study schedule jointly schedule of only perhaps scientific review. Help consciousness of child aggrandizement target. Moreover, active study segment includes prepare lessons before class, attend a lecture and review.
Finally, the interest that considers right study to method rears the child. The parent should search the activity that suits the child actively, let its can experience successful joy already, can experience particular challenge again at the same time.
Face the child's problem, take which kinds of step no matter, holding to ability is kingcraft. Of test it is the child not just absolutely, be a school more cooperate and of the parent hold to!
