Rearing the child is not a comfortable thing, looking in me at least is such.
When the child is small, the parent needs the nurse that follow closely, prevent hungry move, knock is worn; A bit bigger when, the child is piquant good stand or fall of make trouble, achievement is bad... let the parent hold broke heart.
Although preach Yo child is the homework of parental lifetime, accomplish in one move impossibly, but in my eye, lu Zaiyuan also has shortcut to be able to go, want the parent to teach the child to accomplish this only at 3 o'clock, the child is not far from the success!
Do not sleep 3 become aware
Well-known, in the evening at 9 o'clock - mixed at 1 o'clock in the morning at 5 o'clock - 7 o'clock is to grow hormone excretive fastigium, it is the gold time that child skeleton and muscle grow. If the child misses these two phase, with respect to meeting influence hormone is secreted normally, delay the child to grow tall.
And Morpheus time not regular word, the immune force that can allow the child drops, the healthy problem such as metabolization of occurrence endocrinopathy, body, depressed meeting lets such spirit they also do not have enthusiasm on study, if things go on like this, again clever person, also can become muddleheaded gradually, become stupid.
White sky class is busy, parents did not rest for nothing, much meeting is taking the child to hit dozen of mahjong on the weekend, sing sing KTV to abound next spare lives, the metropolis after such activity ends commonly exceeds at 12 o'clock.
But so noisy environment does not suit the child to rest very much, the nerve that exceeds strong decibel and smoke wine to fume the person's atmosphere to let the child very easily stretchs tight closely, cannot loosen body and mind to rest well, instead still can fall to headache the sequela with exhaustion, it is adverse very to the child of body development.
Accompany the child to compose the obligatory course that course of study is a lot of parents in the evening, but for the parent of urgent to some disposition, the child cannot be written in time or should be to err only too frequent, they can criticize the child aloud or hit the child.
The parent sends the likelihood disposition mood is smooth, but they however oversight the harm that brings to the child.
The child is abused before sleeping, meet the child bring pressure and dismay, companion falls asleep as this kind of negative sentiment, how does Morpheus quality get assuring? Bear the child of ability all but, very possible meeting pesters a body because of this nightmare, fall asleep hard.
Do not eat 3 meals
Act on managing the view that is goodness, the parent always can insist to let the child eat the meal in the bowl, but unluckily child abdomen has been maintained those who go up so that go up.
The parent does the gastric juice that can yield the child to secrete so unusual, digestive function is disorder, serious word still can be caused fat or hidebound. Best method is, according to the child at ordinary times appetite fills proper meal, such both neither waste also need not fear the child is being maintained, kill two birds with one stone.
But show according to research, taking the advantage of what heat eats mucous membrane of antrum of main be geared to the needs of the job and esophagus to damage is huge, if relapse for a long time hot stimulation, can bring about esophagus to produce chronic inflammation.
Consequently, have a meal to the child temperature is appropriate good.
Soup soak cooked rice in soup or water is the habit of common a kind of food in the life, a lot of parents think the nutrient value of soup is high, although the child does not love to take other course, should drink good soup nutrition only enough.
Little imagine, the child often has soup soak cooked rice in soup or water, not only full abdomen feels strong, because mastication is little,return, the food with normal effect is digested and absorb, increase burden of intestines and stomach, for bad to functions of those intestines and stomach child, can the stomach bilges, the symptom such as gastralgia.
Do not say 3 words
When us by the child's behavior angry, total meeting is not spoken via what think " you again such, I do not want you " , " you are not obedient I do not like you " wait for menace their word. Although this just abreacts one kind, but if often say this kind of word, can let the child lack safe sense, right beside all thing has fear and uneasiness.
And in parentage respect, can let the child dare not communicate intimately with us, fear by our rebuke, bring about parentage thereby aloofer and aloofer.
The child is small still, erring is excusable, we cannot because of their err a thing, scold them " whats are done good, give birth to you what to is used " wait for a word to deny he is all good one side, the expectation that blames their him short of.
After the child makes a mistake, ask ground of consider sth as it stands and him to talk well, he can become more and more preach manages. The means ending that if be planted with this every time,complains, let the child suspect his, negative oneself idea is confirmed, human association can behave out low after.
Every child is special individual, when education we should not unite mode, requirement child " you should learn like Xxx, the other people is so clever, do accordingly right " , want teach students in accordance of their aptitude, respect their individual character, do not give them the framework that demarcate develops at will.
We should include their inadequacy, tell them: Do not depend on the size of the part successfully, the key that wants to become outstanding should learn to follow him competition namely, the rate that uses oneself grows.
