We often say, see leather pocket only, watching a heart is peripheral.
But in the life, appearance is like same area mirror, often can mirror those who give a person is immanent, reflection gives the intellectual experience of a person.
Accordingly, "Judge people with their appearance " going up somehow not without the truth.
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Clean, see life attitude
Common people all has the heart that loves the United States, act the role of with headgear, makeup with rouge.
But say 1000 10 thousand, be inferior to simple " clean " 2 words come so that let a person jubilate.
Li Bai has Shi Yun: "Clear water gives lotus, natural go vulture act the role ofing. Natural go vulture act the role ofing..
Get along with clean person, be like Mu Chunfeng, the heart lays close idea; Get along with slovenly or coxcombical person, the eye watchs bazoo, watch a heart nasally, beg stay at a respectful distance from sb only.
Everybody likes Li Jian, because he comes simply,also be extremely, come completely extremely.
Stagewise everybody is rich eyeball and China take full-dress when, have Li Jian only as always dinkum.
Or it is simple woollen sweater, or it is the business suit with decent clipping, or it is the shirt with spell able cultivate one's morality, not blatant not coxcombical, solitary in ten million person and stand.
Sometimes, move the shine upon that installs appearance to be the life namely. In the life, li Jian also is so simple and clean.
Not Ji Ji at fame and gain, arrange neatly in the home, relaxed, oneself raise a flower, write a song, play musical instrument, make coffee, happy and pleased with oneself, a Pure Brightness is defended in chaotic shedding, in the world in ego play.
Gao Xiaosong says:
Young when, we want to wearing white shirt all one's life, love a person only all one's life, but we discover later, we are not done.
But Li Jian was accomplished, days elapses quickly, in the brain of a lot of people, be like,Li Jian still is at the outset a general white shirt, a guitar...
Actually, the detail of the life, manner is met fine fine long hair finishs reflect the appearance in a person now to go up.
If you approach the life seriously, in the heart immaculate, explicit also have only energy of life oneself.
Probably somebody is refuted, having a few is the grace before the person, person hind is dirty.
Although the word is such.
Can be in the life, if be not done completely before the person repeatedly, who can go through a raunchy appearance again peek is settleclear only innermost being.
02
Face posture good and evil, see inner world
Zen has Buddha sign: "Be born by the heart, life by oneself go to. Life by oneself go to..
One the individual's appearance, be inner world is umbriferous.
The heart if absolute sincerity is kind-hearted, also meet on the face Wen Xu is gentle; Conversely, the heart is full of angry like that, disagreeable trace also can be shown between eyebrow eye.
Ever heard a story.
A female model of twenties, because be on the career time and again be thwarted, thinking is appearance abdicate person 3 minutes, press beautiful women or fragrant flowers to admire, she is resolved go face-lifting.
The doctor looks for a long time up and down, sighed, focus of a disease is in the heart, do not go up in your face.
So knot of because of domestic misfortune the gloomy in the heart, go up plus the job with colleague intrigue against each other, the heart is resentmenting meaning completely.
Originally a pair comely beautiful beautiful appearance, but in negative energy, bad mood long soak falls, arise spontaneously the look that gives cool thin ferocious, nature of the person that see feels uncomfortable.
Alleged appearance, it is 3 minutes of skin-deep actually, 7 minutes of mood.
A few people although appearance is not breathtaking, however Wenwan is dignified, look at particularly comfortable.
A few people obviously appearance compares Pan An, crime of crabbed however firm, let a person be fond of.
Be born by the heart, we too care about appearance, and unwary to interior world do.
Bi Shumin ever said:
Time can erode the effect of face-lifting, encounter Chun Yang like snow drift, melt gradually... what have a bottom of the heart only is beautiful, ability is alimentary the find the scenery pleasing to both the eye and the mind that gives prolonged.
Say so, face-lifting is inferior to making a heart.
If encounter,be inferior to when meaning, know the haze in drive beguilement, the heart is Anacreontic and capacious, meet oneself on the face vernal warmth.
If with person conflict when, haggle over every ounce a bit lesser, much dot is catholic,
Learn a put away of state of mind, you smile to the life, the life also can present you to smile.
03
Bearing elegant common, see intellectual culture
3 wool are in " send you a horse " in ever said:
Read much, appearance nature is changed, make much time, oneself may think a lot of books that had read became as transient as a fleeting cloud, not answer memory, actually they still are potential. In temperament, on style of conversation, in mind without limit, show possibly also of course in the life and character.
If have a meal,read, what you have the thing that pass, metropolis melt into your flesh and blood, and the book also can blend in place reading in your conduct behavior.
Gu Fu is entered at the beginning of Lin Daiyu, in tassel of such poetic ceremony hairpin a group of things with common features in, a lot of ceremony custom and oneself are different, courtesy still did not fall however.
Ceremony of such knowledge knowing a book on one hand profit from forest of the mother teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution, discipline of small off year becomes a daughter of an eminent family; Additional on one hand, lin Daiyu as a child with respect to perusal " 4 classics " , poetic word have words, the elegant between bearing is free from vulgarity.
This also is why is there numerous girl in grand sight garden, common people favores Lin Meimei however.
This depends on her Xi Shi's general handsome spends the appearance that takes water not only, more depend on her having " the garrulous that chant just " quietly elegant is like celestial being.
Sometimes, how many does the writing in one individual bosom have, breeding how, need not enquire family education of its record of formal schooling, want to listen to its utterance only, watch its action, can understand.
Su Shi is in " note sign of yellow Lu Zhi " in say: "Scholar-bureaucrat does not read 3 days, criterion argumentation of a speech or essay is not handed in in the bosom, become aware to lens face is hideous, to insipidity of language of person Yi Yan.
The person is like uncut jade, the book is like burin.
The book is read much, among them emotive joys and sorrows, if general Yi Yi gives birth to bright phearl brightness ground of metropolis exert a subtle influence on is changing the mind our every word and deed, convention does not fall when making we chat, raise one's hand is cast sufficient won't low humble.
We often say a hypocritically modest person, lukewarm embellish is like jade. Often also say poetic book hides at the heart, years is indefectible beauty, because the soul of heavy full figure can feed back our every word and deed,be in the main.
04
Alleged one leaf is peeped autumn, be in the life that can understand a person from explicit a few minor details only.
Accordingly, appearance is a piece of the most intuitionistic postcard that introduces his.
Dress is clean, letting what the person experiences is a kind of esteem; Heart wide love laughs, those who reflect is opposite work have deep love for; Scholar of style of conversation is elegant, those who reveal is intellectual breeding degree.
Luo Su also says:
One the individual's face, it is the exterior of one person value. It is hiding the life that you control oneself, still hiding the life that you are pursueing.
Appearance is parental decision 3 minutes, 7 minutes oneself can be changed.
Wish what we can maintain appearance is decent and neat, maintain comfortable state of mind, hold reading convention. In the day of survive, give alive more beautiful oneself.
