Sweet Mom encountered a little worry recently, she discovers two years old of 2 months small sweet begin to become love lays a person. Just flinch at the beginning face, catch sweet Mom hair, bite a person gradually later, take arm of head, clutch... be hit on the body to ache quite.
Plus the addition as the age, small sweet strength is greater and greater, once actually sweet Mom's arm flinchs defeated, stayed to grow together those who grow is red imprint. The head passed when after the colleague sees, still thinking she is to follow husband to fight noisely, do not say her jokingly by " the home is cruel " .
And sweet Mom is bad also and exculpatory, be afraid that the work in the same placing knew to be able to say his girl will come is " force daughter " , the word of disobedient perhaps and so on, have pain so can him hold back is worn. But cannot also hold the post of You Xiaotian sweet become to mix world little tyrant?
If want to check darling makes person conduct effectively, accomplish first please " 3 not " :Not hit the child to regard as droll
Cook once Shi Tiantian's Mom discovers accidentally, grandmother likes to follow when she cooks small sweet the little game that plays the fart that hit wind: Grandmother is taken the advantage of small sweet carelessly when the bottom that hits her, small sweet grinning ground also is answered hit her.
Little baby lays a person, it is to stem from commonly imitate, earn attention, expression mood, frolic wait for a reason. In their eye, laying a person is a kind of form that has communicating with adult, may be the way that grandmother makes fart fart this kind that is to say, encouraged small the sweet behavior that lay a person.
Not " hit "
Lay a person to darling this thing, do not suggest the adult in the home is hit, no matter you are to stem from " with cruel make cruel " or " take in order to hit be troubled by " idea, not desirable.
"With cruel make cruel " ? May let darling do it more firm; "Take in order to hit be troubled by " ? Do you decide this is not to encouraging darling to lay a person? Darling people it is innocent " love is imitated " darling, so " hit " cannot take really.
Often do not allude before darling " lay a person "
Some old people see darling loves to lay a person, always be ground whisper 3 two: "How does this child return a responsibility, lay a person with respect to love as a child " , "Does the child hit the person's defect to from which learn? " wait a moment etc.
Do you think these words can have critical effect? Feel embarrassed, the darling 3 years old ago knows far from " criticism " why meaning. And " lay a person " the occurrence of the word, it is to reminding darling however: How don't you lay a person? Be hit quickly!
How should dissolve the child to love to make smelly mistake of the person so?Understand the act laying a person of darling
We said in front, darling lays a person is to rely on a feeling to work purely, just feel interesting, perhaps stem from copy the mood of adult, expression, move that attracts an attention to just be made. Hope adult does not stick label to darling at will so, understand darling as far as possible.
Tender and tell him sturdily: Lay a person incorrect
Should meet here have parental doubt: "The child is so small, can you understand the word that adult says? " right, little baby people the likelihood is right " lay a person " itself does not have a concept, but they can experience the mood of adult and manner.
To angel darling, treasure Mom should be pressed only commonly or put away her hand, next tender and earnest ground says: "Do not want such doing, mom can ache, mom does not like " , solved next.
(if still do not act well, also can try confiscate the method such as playtime of toy, limitation)
Give darling a warm hug
Did not acknowledge a mistake instantly when darling or still laying a person, father mother perhaps takes castigatory step with respect to can aggravating mood (confiscate a toy) , manner by turn sturdily for gravity.
The practice that parents punishs and solemn mood, it is the consequence that darling is not willing to accept. Their meeting is awe-stricken and disturbed, most darling still can burst into tears. What at that time parents needs to do is to hold him in arms, tell him: Father / mom loves you, do not play father again later / mom?
Confiscate toy, gravity to preach, it is to let darling understand laying a person is undesirable, brought result can make him sad. And the purpose of the hug wants darling to know namely, although him err finishs sth, father mother still loves him, do not affect the development of darling disposition.
Each treasure Mom, your home baby a few years old? Does he have had hit you? How are you handled again? The welcome leaves a message in comment area the Yo that shares you experience ~
