Respect the volition of the old person, let him sing the nocturne that belongs to nightingale alone, those who acquire life is cheerful, this is advanced " suitable " .
Before two days, famous dub directs teacher of Sun Yu beacon to send small letter to me, say to the video spitting groove of Wang Wenjuan of Great Master of a paragraph of Shaoxing opera is transmitting on the net, say she is loved so that have to nod be unable to stand by children, limitation is too much, hope untie a person. Then the dot goes in watch, but see Mr. Wang Wenjuan one face the suffering of have no alternative expression, in speak out freely and desire character stops again wander. Beacon teacher tells Sun Yu me, this paragraph of video is in old artist group in cause intense resonance, turned next a few cards give me.
I am a bit hesitant, be afraid that weight of one not careful the wording and purpose of what one writes did not hold good, hurt Mr. Wang Wenjuan or her children. Did not think of Mr. Sun gives my wearing flattery, say " the thing that loves to see you write " . Try to write then.
What should cast aside clear above all nevertheless is, this article is not aimed at specific individual, however superorganic is discussed. The video spitting groove of Mr. Wang Wenjuan is a pretext only, epitome the general case that the old person loves to be complained again again. To some families, this kind spits groove is a kind of luxury simply, filial inhospitality and even abuse an old person also be in have more, look from such domestic perspective, of Mr. Wang Wenjuan spitting groove to be able to be regarded almost is a kind " hair is affectedly sweet " , because be gotten by care,be only excessive, feel a bit small to choke, cannot help thinking the apiration according to oneself breathes freely fully.
So this kind of desire closes unreasonable, be worth undeserved attention? Answer: Reasonable. Worth while. About the topic of filial old person, affirmation can draw millions of people to participate in, body part is aged society, reckon every family has the classics that reads aloud hard originally. But this classics reads aloud again hard, still should read aloud give " honest " , what fall in filial name namely then is correct and filial. Filial meaning is: With one one's heart of provide for parents endeavors with volition of comply with parents. "Good children " common fault is, "Filial piety " very reach the designated position, "Suitable " absent.
Beacon teacher says Sun Yu, filial to the old person, this suitable word has knowledge too. The mood children of the old person can not understand, often think oneself are good intention. This is communicated have difficulty quite, the acting channel of two acting people perhaps is above this. He still says he may go to home of Mr. Wang Wenjuan persuading to persuade its children: The life that runs mom kindly is good, also can want to understand mom, she has her interest, nod in order to make her cheesy, play appropriately play mahjong quite happy also. Want scientific live out one's life in retirement, but the be fond of that also should respect an old person.
Respecting science provide for the aged, this has knowledge greatly, and unable to decide which is right of opinions differ from each other. Some longlived people not wine of smoke of Buddhist monastic discipline, not arrogate to oneself moves, bound of big begin or resume a meat diet, must compare alive however a few otherer the life of the old person is longer. Individual gene and habits and customs, because of the person different ground secretly dictate is worn different old person. The old person has the habits and customs that he forms for a long time, good Ye bad Ye? Sometimes your bane my sweet candy, sometimes your sweet candy my bane. Unless be the undesirable habit of extremely ill health, generally speaking wants only measurable, arrange its to should be optimal choice naturally.
Should give an old person one has the dignity, old age that has quality, likelihood " and suitable " than " correctional " get effectively much. "Canal " be must, but simple pour exhortation into sb's ear is not the best thing to do. A life moves toward the old person of life terminus gradually, you want him to change this to change that, make him angry be not arranged everywhere even, this affirmation is not good filial. Youth often " it is difficult also to change " , what is more,the rather that inveterate all one's life old person.
Of Germany " 2 heart " have two words respectively, very suffer inspire. One is writer song heart, he says: "We show consideration for an old person, like wanting to resemble treating the child. " another is philosopher Kang De, he says, "Senile, be just like nightingale, due his nocturne. " these two words add up, generalized filial piety and suitable all implied meaning in the main. Resemble treating the child to show consideration for an old person in that way, be full of love ground to use up filial piety, can humanness child. Respect the volition of the old person, let him sing the nocturne that belongs to nightingale alone, show the beauty of its life, those who acquire life is cheerful, this is advanced " suitable " .
In the instantly of have ample food and clothing, arrange filially, just be more important task. Every humanness child, be like arrange when rub one's palm along smooth out with the fingers " arrange the core that is filial piety " , make an old person satisfactory arrange gas, just be be apt to greatest Yan. (Liu Xun is amounted to)
