Paddy Cheng Hefu: Considering the ability with ability the greatest ｜ is him conquer (go up piece)

I am when obtain employment of the beginning of the year, it is rural clodhopper of the standard really. Before, I never had had big city, and holding thick southern accent. The phone rings, I hope people goes receiving, do not want to let others listen to the accent of one's native place that gives me, still feel oneself are to have misshapen person even. Although have this kind of self-abased feeling, I or decision accept his faulty place, try to surmount, I think such I just won't think I am a loser. I am straight-out to oneself: "Right, I am a clodhopper, those who read aloud is out-of-the-way rural university. I am right this world utterly ignorant, common sense is insufficient also. Unless I seize the opportunity of every study closely, try hard than others, do not want to succeed otherwise. " anyhow, I am learning not to deny oneself defect, accept this fact, need not oneself are " perfect " him deceit. Such, I just can feel relieved the ground strides forth, improve oneself.

True impracticable word, need not pretend very row. Admit him impracticable place, with respect to wherefrom set out afresh!

This is the one class that my one wife and children in Kyoto acquires when company service. In my this lifetime, often reminded oneself not to forget this experience.

Get with work energetically in current cent system falls educational hard, the student that takes fraction is same, can graduate smoothly. However, both the difference between is more than at achievement. To surmount oneself, the good student of cent must break through an obstacle to should pay double painstaking effort ability to overcome these difficulty more a little ceaselessly. "The life does not have high aim, seek branch only " with excelsior, pursuit outstanding, the expression that is not sheet to point to school work to go up just. This is the chance that shows human acme, matter to oneself to be in the choice of the road of life. If you think pursuit is outstanding, must agree to transcend a barrier, further upward. The person has laziness, it is not easy really to force his to go ahead. But the sweat and toil that sees oneself are paid blossoms and bear fruit eventually, the sort of joyance is unapproachable.

The greatest skill surpasses the ability of ego namely.

Everybody knows to have two kinds of students: One kind is not likely very clever, but effort is diligent and the person that graduate with outstanding achievement; Gift of another kind of student is bright, but play a heart heavier, had not read a book seriously, mix foolishly one paper diploma. Latter meeting says: "Gnaw a book to death, achievement is good of course. If I am so diligent, doing not have a person is my adversary. " after graduation, this kind " mix an age too protect " the friend that encountered a career to have, the heart thinks: "His expression in the school is really flatly, my achievement is very more too much than him. " this word appears to allude: If he has the accident of this friend, behave more outstandingly certainly. True? Gnawing a book to death also is a kind of ego is surmounted, not Ji Ji at be being satisfied momently, say to join a group for example right, idle away in seeking pleasure, or it is to watch TV. The friend of that render outstanding service and be famous also perhaps made similar sacrifice. He must depress the desire of own libertinism, absorption go up in the job. Did not forget, want to surmount ego to must spend bigger mental efforts. Accordingly, we are when the ability that measures a person, the psychokinesis that must connect him also considers inside. If a person follows ego compromise, the decision drifts with the tide, ability is met certainly greatly abate.

The brigade of life is not light to rely on intelligence an wisdom to be able to walk along bout successfully.

Piao of origin of Cheng Hefu of author Piao paddy " the passion that chases a success "