Everybody is good, I am midday fire gentleman, everybody is OK Baidu finds me. I think today and everybody talks about a topic that has nothing to do with lot put in order, that is " life " . Why to talk about this? Be in all the time these days far call in the mother of home town, hear a few most newses, it is a village inside who who gave traffic accident to die, who who jumps building, whose whose go to the bad died. Look in us seem not to concern oneself. Because disaster has not happened on our body,that is. The following day elder sister a phone, say the grandfather gets a severe disease, do not have 20 kinds of disease about, the most serious is heart disease. Hear this news, I am stupefied at the moment immediately, the feeling loses his head. It is far only in an alien land, cannot hurried back in time go visitting, fraught. Although say a grandfather already old is tall already, but still be anxious letting a person. These days I can call in past home everyday almost, ask the illness of ask grandfather, be informed left hospital quickly tomorrow, the heart just is put down gradually.
Carry the responsibility of the village these days, the grandfather's disease, let me want a lot of, let me have new knowledge to life, though before the education that also has done and so on of preserve one's health all the time, but always did not happen beside oneself, feeling is done not have so clear. At ordinary times we are the stories that hear others, which star dies because of cancer, which kin gets a severe disease die, seem to us, he is a story just, when these cut verity happening to be beside me really, also be a story no longer again however so simple.
More important than life without an any things on this world, do you feel? Reputation, money, love can appear so worthless before these second birth lives etc. Fell ill when us, need goes to a hospital treating, can take manage the fund that does not consider a flower at ordinary times, go to a hospital discharging a team to pay fee, even if oneself do not have money, also can think all method go borrowing, go borrowing, want to have a hope only, won't let off. Those who see life is precious. But it is such however, a lot of people still do not know the life that cherishs his.
Below for us a few kinds of common death case:
The first is " the disease dies "
This should be happen beside us most. According to not complete count, china is not normal death number every year to exceed 3.2 million, cancer death is made an appointment with 3.12 million, apoplectic about 1.65 million, diabetic death restricts a number also increasing, but specific figure is unspecified. We cast lot put in order to say reality today, how does such disease come? Common saying says: "Get ill by the mouth " , there is one major disease on our body is " eat " those who come out. As the addition of modern industry, science and technology more and more develop, all everything enters intelligence to change. The mobile phone orders meal, artificial vegetable, turn over seasonal food to wait a moment, cause the remain of our body toxin likely, pile up when toxin increasing, the body can produce signal. Total meeting says on the medicaments manual that we often eat, avoid is acrimony, avoid smoke wine, the doctor of traditional Chinese medicine often also says, eat bit of delicate food more, actually the Buddhist has wisdom most, what they eat is element fast, also have " cross midday to be not fed " say. Ameliorate as living conditions, people is gone after higher to having on food and life, the life that causes modern had the change of world-shaking, when I am very small, also had endured hunger, be in especially my parents this generation person, that moment is satiate wear warming is exclusive desire, do not pay attention to completely of what lubricious fragrance, and modern has eaten to had been worn is the mainest demand. Particularly important is now mobile phone, the computer tremendous influence to the mankind, what how many person sleeps before 10 o'clock in the evening everyday is there still now excuse me? How many don't before the person sleeps, having look at a mobile phone to sleep? Now society, cancer of many years old 10, many years old 20 terminal, already no longer a few, this is inferior health is brought about. How is that just met principle inferior healthy, be far from a disease? The answer looks in me have only, return to primitive life namely, do not eat and drink too much, sleep early rise early, maintain the state of mind cheerful, this is best the way to keep in good health.
Secondly us again for " suicidal type dies "
According to statistic. Chinese children suicide leads the world the first, the person that die every year because of committing suicide is as high as 600 thousand, this is a breathtaking message really.
Rate of Chinese average suicide is 23 ／ 100 thousand, commit suicide every year dead number is close 300 thousand person. This is equivalent to an Europe medium country 1/4 population. Investigator is analysed accordingly, actual suicide number often is counted than the suicide that announce tall 3 ～ 5 times, from this computative, chinese suicide number may be amounted to annual above of 600 thousand person. Average suicide rate is international 100 thousand minutes only 10, chinese suicide leads 2.3 times be international average. Have 685 Chinese suicide about everyday
Chinese mouth occupies the 1/5 of world population, suicidal number occupies the 1/4 of world suicide number. Average every dichotomy bell has 1 person to die at committing suicide, have abortive of 8 people suicide. Average age is 32 suicide years old. China is the only on the world rate of suicide of female of a report compares male suicide to lead tall nation, female suicide rate compares male tower above 25% ; 2 it is 3 times rural suicide rate is a city. Among the female that the whole world commits suicide 100 times every dead to die, having 55.8 people is a Chinese! ! !
Rate of sicken of obstacle of spirit of medium, pupil is China 2.6-32.0% . The college has the undergraduate of 20 ％ to have psychological problem about, among them 15 ％ attribute general psychology problem, need dredge of travel of Zuo of the school, relatives and friends; 3. 5 ％ have psychogenic disorder, occurrence insomnia, angular wait for a symptom; 1. 5 ％ invigorative disease, lose abstain ability, cent is not clear reality and psychedelic.
Chinese children is in the permutation of suicidal reason, study pressure is overweight occupy the first (45.5% ) , it is next love early (22.7% ) , parents leaves other (13.6% ) . Arrange in the age of suicide in, 12 years old occupy the first (40.3% ) , it is 14 years old next (22.7% ) , 11 years old mix 13 years old (13.6% ) . In the sexual contrast of suicide, boy of girl far outclass: The girl is occupied (72.7% ) , the boy is occupied only (23.7% ) . On suicidal means, choose medicaments of profess to convinced held absolute majority, amount to 95.5% .
Case of Chinese children suicide:
1, on Feburary 20, 1997, li Yuan of the 2 students at the beginning of Guiyang city some middle school commits suicide in the home, on Feburary 28 " Guiyang Metropolis Daily " published this posthumous papers of 14 years old of children, say in posthumous papers: My achievement never feel well, I am
A trash, all is inferior to others...
2, July 2000, because the parent does not allow machine of play playing Zuo , guangdong saves one Chu Sannan unripe hang oneself of suitable heart city to commit suicide.
3, in March 2001 on March 20, harbin city struggling elementary school a boy winter winter of 11 years old (alias) , make the telephone call Zuo " news 110 " : "Save save me, my father death hits me, I had committed suicide two days this 3 times. I had committed suicide two days this 3 times..
One picket the massacre of another picket is to cannot bear really description, let a person feel regretful. So much data, having what also represent partly is us now Chinese ethos. What is the cause that causes these? How can we just avoid? Are these my force of one person can be redeemed already? Hope to see the parents of this article only, children, teachers, friends, the body and mind that pays attention to the child more develops, be more than achievement far, school work. Pressure of enter a higher school, emotional setback, on this world, what there is is more important than life? What is worth you so cruel-hearted, is what buy parents deeps sorrow at the injury abyssal? A variety of predicament in answering life -- they see at the same time action tear open court effort to answer school work and life, at the same time grinning ground says: "I also am taken an examination of this be bungled! I decided, I also jump building, jump to seventeen building from first floor! " another classmate receives immediately on: "I support you, before jumping nevertheless, remember on the belt ' descend ' umbrella oh, I am afraid that you jump then flashy meeting regrets! " do not think this just does not have a heart to do not have child of; of cold blood of lung, inhospitality, life once, why learning to use humour speak and from ridicule, come is everything of clear up life heavy?
The 3rd namely " the death that be killed "
Speak of to be killed to die, we often can remember emotional issue, horror makes a surprise attack, affray, be in debt to etc almost everyday bad thing happens.
China has 80 thousand every year to commit intended homicide and be executed to 130 thousand person about. Be at large every year personnel is 10 thousand people of 1-2 are controlled almost. What the Public Security Department announces is rate of crack a criminal case is 95% above, do not have so much actually, the convict public security bureau that great majority did not catch far from put on record. Paid ability put on record. Be killed, this to an adversity is for who without giving thought to, for the bilateral family of the person that be killed especially and homicide, it is the news that makes a person bitter. Have how old hostility after all, can you let a person rise to kill a heart? This a few seem to also cannot leave to be taught from small body and mind, return those who ego protects consciousness to strengthen. Appeal the whole people here, learn ego protection, the society adjusts oneself heart sex. The stand aloof just that the Buddhist tells is to be able to let a person 6 kosher, reduce mood wave motion, we see a lot of entrepreneur via regular meeting is there is Buddha bead in the hand, join buddhist sit in meditation, perhaps be quiet sit downing comes, listen to sutra, audition music, this is planted even if let a person maintain the balance of state of mind, not urgent not impetuous, do not fear not confused, those who achieve cultivate one's morality to raise a gender is essential. Alleged buddhist is decided even if want to achieve anger to also can be appeased, despair also can free oneself, impatient also can calm be like water, be overjoyed also can keep calm.
Its 4 namely " unexpected death "
What unexpected death concept includes is too much, unskillful and faulty medical or surgical treatment, traffic accident, inductrial injury accident, bromatoxism is waited a moment.
The number cardinal principle that China dies because of road transportation accident every year is controlled in 110 thousand person. Road transportation accident occupies 80 ％ above in accident of our country safe production. We discuss with traffic accident, the time of small letter, traffic accident should be perform in friend circle everyday, so everybody says the state now the driver's license was taken an examination of hard also is normal phenomenon, drive at ordinary times the safe item that needs an attention is very much, go completely carrying out without how many. Traffic safety law is not to kill us, be go to us from Azrael where again time pull. Occasionally traffic accident is not a person only, it is a family likely, the most terrible is the family gives traffic accident, survive only finally one person, a person that this work comes down, how to go facing the following life? 3 when drive carefully basic principles are: Concentration observes attention, carefully, prevent ahead of schedule.
Life went very quickly, an opportunity never can appear twice, wish you live the life happily everyday, not when the lovely dot that the day went to just find out them, also do not put all particularly acceptability hopes in future. Although broke a string, 3 bowstring of the others still should continue to perform, this is life. The person's lifetime is one instant only. So we should cherish it, life is good, all material are good, wisdom is good, love is good!
Talk about this with everybody about the meaning of life, want to a person sees my article only, and go carry out, I also not heart of try in vain is written. If you feel useful, transmit goes out, the person beside the appeal treasures life together.
