These two days, the achievement of the university entrance exam of a lot of province came out, inside this paragraph of time after achievement comes out, no matter be teacher or parent, want to note psychological problem of the child. Because of a variety of reasons, the anticipation that some children face exam result cannot be accepted with the difference of actual result, easy generation betrays disposition cause; The psychology that some children exceed him aloof because of achievement anticipates and forget oneself. The tall hair that so this period of time is psychological problem period, produce the psychological problem of different level easily, the should pay close attention to the child at any time mood of our parenthood, cut cannot not treat sth lightly.
Do not let the child take life to go make a stand against
Such tragedy, already happened many cases in recent years.
Last year, liaoning faces south 21 years old answer read unripe jump building commit suicide, the parent says is the pressure before taking an examination of too big be caused by.
The year before last year, zhao Mou of girl of the banner before Inner Mongolia corvee labor formerly imposed on Xizang serfs is special, attending the university entrance exam after the first exam, jump the building commits suicide.
Again forth, a Sichuan esteems the girl of the city, after the 2nd times the university entrance exam suffers a defeat, chose to cut the wrist, life that drinks pesticide to end his.
These children suffer a defeat because of the university entrance exam, age chooses commit suicide gently, mood letting a person is heavy all the more.
Actually, to parents, lead the child the adult, far more important than forcing child become a useful person, be?
Make the child enough on character, psychology, body powerful, just be parents gives him best education.
And to examinee, the university entrance exam just decides to read which university, but intelligence decides you can go much further.
And the child that parents face adolescence, very faint also.
18 years old of the following children communicate with parents again rarely, parents also goes not to take inner world of the child.
Consanguineous to deep two acting people, manage one room together, can say nothing however.
Compare temporarily dazzling diploma, more god-given is the spirit that has glitter all one's life.
Get bad child to taking an examination of, not too disappointed. Failure of the university entrance exam does not mean the failure of life, everything still can have come afresh. Cannot lose the nerve with vivid opposite because of the university entrance exam, cannot ego is negative. If where gold is,can give off light only. Even if was to go up a bad school, also can grind through taking an examination of wait for means to promote his. As the parent, after achievement comes out, face the mark of accomplished fact, the parent should avoid mood out of control, want reason, do not give the child too much pressure, do not want to censure, maintain whack, communicate more with the child. Lead the way that the child plans to did not come afresh. Want to remind the practice of a kind of all previous that regarding this kind of setback as is life, let oneself be on social heart to become more powerful.
Although the university entrance exam is important, but it is so important to also be done not have. After all, what whats had not compared life is precious.
