There are a few parents now, the study result that sees the child is bad to censure the child with respect to ground of one be ignorant of, feel the child is sneaking just can not learn so badly hard, the child has certain fault admittedly, but the parent also does not shift total liability to the child, actually oneself also have certain educational neglect, see the bottom is how to return a responsibility together.
A lot of child learning are bad to not be willing to bear hardships namely, still have feel study is too as dry as a chip, the parent is in all the time the achievement of monitoring child, decide a goal to the child, this meeting lets the child feel, all these that he does is for the parent, to reach the parent's wish, nature of a lot of people is not willing to suffer this one pain, they see the parent play a mobile phone, watch TV, oneself work hard read book writing job, psychological nature is lopsided. Actually the parent should let the child understand all these that they do is for themselves, the parent needs to encourage them by only, cheer for them, they with respect to so won't repellent study.
Child learning is not dedicated also be the parent was not taught good as a child actually, if the parent fosters the child to do a thing to want as a child dedicated. They do a thing, the parent should supervise them, let them accomplish start well and end well, such they are used to dedicatedly with respect to meeting nurturance slowly. Child nurturance when this habit is learning naturally, meet absorption the affair that attend has done a school work to play again, is not there absent-minded, cannot play to also be not written, this is in namely at all wasteful time. The parent is taught as a child unwary, blame the child conversely now not serious, also be not quite good actually, the child lacks ego to provide the capability that accuse, just want adult to supervise so, if let them form a habit, natural need not so give a lot of care.
So, the child's result is bad, adult also should assume one share responsibility, want to help the child had developed their disposition, very big to their growing help in the future.
