In the impression of most person, middleaged person is a kind of contradictory and complex system.
They lived most all one's life, having the resource that the youth does not have, look high-spirited and vigorous, encounter a problem to be able to be solved. But sometimes, they are in when meeting subtle petty thing, fall ill for instance, abdication, showed a kind to be belonged to alone however middleaged " Song " .
Song, became the normal state of middleaged life it seems that.
In these contradictory backside, it is middleaged person the angst of be accustomed to sth.
Occasionally, they can spend money like water, will all saving is bungled on child body, it is one wool money in market however argy-bargy.
Occasionally, they are pushed on wine bureau cup change small cup, it is good to answering the bubble on excellent wheeler however tea of preserve one's health of one crock medlar.
Occasionally, they and lad quarrel greatly one, forget so that vanish completely in an instant however.
Actually, the truth of middleaged person angst is: Money is used not quite, health nots allow hopeful, feeling not dare disappoint.
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The person arrives middleaged, the directest worry often originates oneself body.
The hair boundary line that rises increasingly, the check-up that dare not look reports, more and more shallow Morpheus, it is the difficulty that middleaged person must face.
Friend A is slow-witted more and more was afraid of death, he says: "My greatest now desire, it is him health, family does not have disease. Family does not have disease..
This year April, a bump grew on A slow-witted neck, a few days do not have disappear, run toward the hospital every day. After the doctor is checked, concluding is, because long-term smoking drinks, often eat fat late food, add stay up late, caused lymph node enlargement.
The doctor lets him watch period of time first, if natural detumescence, with respect to thing of it doesn't matter, if not subsidence of a swelling, still begin painful, have the risk that gets tumor.
Then, a Ai not only dietary work and rest is abrupt the rule rise, still run toward the hospital almost everyday, him for fear that gives what issue.
Fortunately, after a month, his bump disappeared. And in this one month, his flower is in see a doctor the money that go up exceeds 50 thousand.
A Ai says: "If I have an esp. death really, I do not know how to should do, I do not know that paragraph of time how to face wife child. Do not have a thing finally fortunately, after me again also not dare botch body. After me again also not dare botch body..
Middleaged, be least of all dare the age of prodigal body.
Those not dare the middleaged person of prodigal health, most those who fear, got a disease namely, give the home lane broke down.
They feel the reason of angst to body state, because worry about oneself,not be, however because worry about this home. So, the friend that age should attend beside you more and more when cherish life, do not mock them, they are more conscientious only just.
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Middleaged person's biggest worry, originate a kind of feeling -- poor.
Although oneself had enjoyed some the saving, but however when sensory comparing is young poorer.
Have on the net piece the name is " monthly pay 30 thousand, maintain a summer vacation that does not have the child " article, caused many parents to teach devoted angst to the child.
The mom in the article basked in the Zhang sheet that the pen costs about child summer vacation. Although her month is entered,discover 30 thousand, also cannot pay a child completely the numerous cost of a summer vacation. Holding cost adds up, can let parents feel he is not to raising the child, raising chance of a broken bank note however.
In parental heart, invest more money and resource only, ability does not make the child backward.
To a lot of people, arrived middleaged, profitable way may not increases, the place that needs beautiful money instead is increasing however.
Teach charge besides what should pay the child to hold high increasingly, even the money of parents of assemble good provide for. Look at parents helplessly increasingly anile, humanness children wants to offer condition of better provide for the aged to them, and this need money.
What after wanting to retire, pass is a bit more comfortable, return so that stay to give oneself the money of provide for the aged quite. Once the person arrives a certain age, with respect to the problem of provide for the aged that can begin him consideration, do not want to become the child's burden, also do not want to get along difficult old age. After wanting to retire, pass some more comfortably, still need money.
Besides, still must put bit of money in order to have untimely needs, with will answer all sorts of emergency.
Occasionally, middleaged person looks appearance of person model person, because,meet however for a long time of kink of a few money, they are not to do not have money, what just need to assume is too much.
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To middleaged person, an any friendly feelings, cannot optional disappoint.
Arrive because of the person middleaged, can let our debus mask say the person of on a few one's innermost thoughts and feelings truly, do not have a few.
And those have affection to you justice, the family member become reconciled that can draw out a heart to draw out lung is friendly, meet only less and less.
The person arrives middleaged, the most helpless thing, what nothing is more... than wants another to witness is parting. Those as joyous as them sound laugh at the language, day wine Yan Huan to be met only less and less.
The person arrives middleaged, can send the ground to know more, those people that once had accompanied you have many precious.
Confucius says: "40 not be puzzled, 50 know destiny. 50 know destiny..
Middleaged person has understood clearly, life halfway, the Qian Hemi that the most important is healthy body, enough life is sufficient precious feeling.
Because it is important to be, so angst.
Middleaged and not easy, all sorts of pressure and angst often accompany personal body, if some day does not have irritated worry, be the season with best world.
Wish your saving is used quite, the body is in good health, the child is sensible, parents is still living and in good health, still have lad two 3.
