We 80 hind the 90 generation after had experienced domestic force more or less, that generation has our father people of a certain kind more " bludgeon gives a dutiful son " thought. Unlike once of the society close, local bad habit brings about parents big at that time child feels is of course, social news is transmitted now faster and faster, force cannot solve a problem at all and now mostly the child also knew the weapon that uses law to protect his, but calculate civilized progress to arrive today, domestic cruel phenomenon still emerges in endlessly.
I see one netizen says he is in today spend again have a fever still by oneself father going-over, and this or often phenomenon. Bring about this to want to look for a dry dad to do Mom even for the netizen.
Tell the truth, my moment also is often black-and-blue, but the parents that I do not blame me, I also did not feel the mistake that is my, blame only quite that age word is too out-of-the-way at that time the ethos with the country is bad. But I can say the child that if still have father and mother,often beats and scold my now only you are unqualified parents.
The child is your flesh and blood, is not your private article
Suffer the effect of traditional idea, mostly parents thinks to have dominant right to his child. The parents that calculates what develop in network height to there still is a lot of today is having absolutely control to his child desire. Still have on the net even " unripe child is not to play that to still have He Yiyi " , on one hand the child that parents wants him has at an early date paddle one's own canoe, ask to go before the course that the child plans according to oneself on one hand however again with strong step, is this not contradictory?
Raising the child is not to play game, always do not think him child is inherent fundamental attribute is bad
Had proved one individual disposition scientificly the heredity that forming is not gene, more environments that will be the day after tomorrow and education. When child disposition too cowardly or it is too stubborn when mostly parents always thinks the child case of this individual character is inherent, should preach be illogical often next violent. This kind of method does not have any good mostly, probably the child stems from the compromise with scared tentative meeting at that time, but the affection that once was depressed after breaking away from parents is met absolutely one-time erupt. If your child is cowardly,right way is so the self-confident heart that you build him through encouraging, if your child is too strong,that parents does not want too doting, let its know in the outer suffering that taste a dot the somebody outside the person is waited a moment
Intelligence quotient is inherent, can approach upper limit only hard and not be a breakthrough
From the child that is born to grown parents to take oneself all the time and the child that fasten a family, the child that we say to you visit king aunt home via often can hearing parents how clever, annual class the first, the child that you see Uncle Zhao is taken an examination of went up key high school, when parents speaks out, be probably innocently, but listen in the child come even if the child that whats are others home is good, oneself with respect to without a single redeeming feature. Even the child below the influence of parents of as time passes is met think oneself are inferior to others namely subconsciously. Have a few father and mother more the result the child is bad that the child of all end and own home is inferior to the effort of others home. Most person is commonplace, won't because he is your child too long should be a talent, if bludgeon is taught,can go up really Tsinghua enters Beijing University I believe this world to go up all schools call Tsinghua Beijing University now.
See this article you yourself notice to teach way please as parents, your child is not you gave him life he should make your tool, the step that follows you goes fulfilling your half-baked wish. See this article if you are children be being experienced or be a likelihood experience home is cruel, do not want blame parents please, talk calmly, in the world all parents love her children, likelihood their education and expressive kind are different, but all original intention is good for you.
