Educational means of the parent is worn in casual influence the child, the following to the child life is having very big effect, because this serves as the parent, should teach the child with accurate method, stimulative child become a useful person.
Educational means of the parent can cause what effect to the child, how to just calculate true education?
The parent is a the first teacher of the child, what kind of family gives what kind of child with respect to meeting education. Dot does not love to learn, be about to think over first as him parent above all, be child activate can the environment that quiet study? Be still the example that him parent is the child to make a face without set oneself an example to others? Beat and scold the child to solve this problem, can bring serious consequence only, expression is:
1, let the child go against object standing
Go up in domestic position in light of, the child is in weak force, husband is senior cannot enough convince people by reasoning and move thick, can meet only let heart of child profess to convinced refuse to obey, the child on physical strength has not beaten and scold the parent, they can bear only, form contrary situation with respect to meeting parent slowly, those who learn achievement to because be beaten and scold so that jump over,won't rise is faster, contrary, can let the child only more and more be fed up with study, because be study,let them take a beating.
2, make child disposition irratable
The parent's words and deeds is mirror of me-too one side, the parent is learned and courteous, the child is natural civilization scholar is elegant, the parent is coarse and irratable, child nature has appearance play the ape. The parent always solves a problem with the child with beating and scold, exchange communication word, the manner that the child treats others also is same, why do this divorce namely horrible psychology arises to marriage after domestic child is grown, it is a truth.
3, make the child abandonment
Study result is bad, the parent should undertake calm communication with the child above all, communicate the reason that does not love study with the teacher again, be aimed at a problem next, help child forms the good convention of study, improve study result, the effort of blindly negative child, ignore the child's feeling blindly, can let the child feel him incurable, broken jar is broken fall, thereby, enter vicious circle, hit poorer more, jump over difference to be hit more.
I think all the time, beating and scold the child is most unsuccessful family teachs mode, the relation of the parent and child is harmony, equality, mutual valued. No matter the age of this child has how old, they are to have independent thought, have self-esteem, fresh person. With scientific educational way, the life that makes child nurturance good, behavior, study is used to, know be thankful parents, be thankful social person, even if cannot let the child become learn bully, most after at least is grown, there is the person of parent of resentment, chill, retaliation and society in cannot be being fostered into a heart.
