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The extreme mood in eliminating heart of small number of people and crime are angry, need is made from the education to the parent, guide the parent to handle the conflict of the child and classmate correctly. What appear in the parent and pedagogic association at present is contradictory, the parent is handling the not rational movement when the issue that the child involves, lack correct educational concept and method to concern with the parent.
On September 21, zhejiang luck installs a man to hold a knife to enter school is killing a pupil. Install bulletin of city public security bureau according to luck, guilty suspect Lin Mou some daughter 19 day and produce quarrel with school student Xie Mou, eye ministry is hit to send ache (the condition of an injury is light, not go to a doctor, go to school normally) , forest such-and-such and the heart is unripe complaint, 21 days carry fruit knife to search Xie Mou to make reprisals and harm Xie Mou to the school. Current, guilty suspect Lin Mou some already was installed by luck police criminal is detained, local check just intervenes ahead of schedule this case, door of Ministry of Education arranges other to the school student to undertake psychological dredge. (relevant report sees 07 edition)
The daughter is bullied by the classmate, the parent appears personally to look for the other side to make reprisals and kill the other side, the property of this case is very abominable, consequence and effect are unusually serious. After the case is announced, a lot of people are very indignant to the fierce and cruel act of guilty suspect, but of unexpected is, a few netizens stand in guilty suspect however at the same time, think he protects a daughter not to suffer with life bully, be worth to understand. The state of mind of these netizens, reflected a kind of society mood that needs vigilance.
Lin Mou some murder is extremely individual case absolutely, but case in happening in those to be full of the sound that extreme mood, serious crime enrages. The extreme mood in eliminating heart of small number of people and crime are angry, need is made from the education to the parent, guide the parent to handle the conflict of the child and classmate correctly. What appear in the parent and pedagogic association at present is contradictory, the parent is handling the not rational movement when the issue that the child involves, lack correct educational concept and method to concern with the parent. What many parents accept actually is " learn successfully " education, this kind of education not only requirement child must be contended for everywhere strong emulative, and requirement parent also should be contended for strong emulative, cannot be defeated by someone else anyplace. Such " learn successfully " the lesson must be changed.
In recent years, the campus force case that a few places produce has the power of grow in quantity, what enrage to campus crime is aggravating, the parent and society are responsible, everybody becomes the victim that campus crime enrages possibly also. Those understand guilty suspect Lin Mou some person, oneself are in when encountering similar issue, the likelihood also can take this kind of ultra step, feeling was to give an evil energy of life. But they did not think of, this not only caused massive harm to another family, oneself child is in the company of future that father also can lose in growing, envelop in huge shadow. Forest the such-and-such kill in revenge that it is a newspaper killed Xie Mou, if Xie Mou's parents also is,want to revenge anyhow, does loss loss photograph sign up for when?
Attrition and issue producing between the student avoid hard, after producing attrition and issue, student parent needs reason to treat, educational child and classmate get along well, undertake thinking over from child oneself angle more, guide. Some students are apparent fault square, but parents protects calf child, do not be willing to admit one's mistake from beginning to end, also do not ask to apologize, this is really provoking, but parent of other one party should seek legal approach to uphold the right, is not personal feeling act, in the other side seeks under impulse " revenge " . This is the legal society main demand to the person's accomplishment, parenting person ought to set oneself an example to others.
Additional, to the conflict that produces between the student, the contact since processing has a process toward need. The child realises him the problem in conflict, with respect to need originally the school and parent have education, the parent does not answer too the processing result that is eager to obtaining oneself to want. Many people think, the child is bullied in the school, if the parent does not come forward for the child, it is really too feel vexed, too hold back is bent, advocate with force the method is solved then, praise " pleased favour enemy " . This kind of believe in " jungly principle " disregard the cruel way that reachs consequence, do not be in charge of badly to individual and society. With Ruianlin such-and-such murder is exemple, the daughter two days ago is mauled by the classmate, the school still should be in harmonious processing, lin Mou some cannot help starting work oneself are solved, because,this is not merely he " lack is patient " , more because of his believe in " jungly law " , willing with " one life touchs one order " extreme means undertakes vengeance.
Ministry of Education was released 2015 " the directive opinion that teachs the job about strengthening a family " , department of education of requirement each district and nursery school of middle and primary school cooperate the Women's Federation, involve worker worker appoint wait for relevant organization, in team, place, education plan, activity is begun wait for a respect to give hand, run good parent school jointly; Nursery school of requirement middle and primary school works school of enter a school of parent school accept overall deploy, help and supportive parent school organize expert group, invite professional personage and volunteer, design relatively specific family to teach detailed outline and course, development family teachs teaching material and mobile guidance manual. Hold parent school to begin domestic education, must highlight a serious content, teach the parent to handle the contradictory conflict that the child involves correctly namely, safeguard the child's rights and interests through legal approach, can resemble Lin Mou anything but some in that way " pleased favour enemy " , also lead to bitter tragedy finally to oneself to other.
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