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Imperial physician of baby father a surname: Assist with M.d. of college of medicine, college of medicine of haing Buddha university is postdoctoral, doctor of the chairman outside god of children of 3 armour hospital
Empress or imperial concubine of the first rank of child Mom week: Tsinghua mom, reporter of Qian Xinhua company, the person that the female does poineering work
Humble of article ／ hot Mom as form of a address for an official or rich man
18 years of the beginning of the year, one is as long as the long article of the accuse parents of 15000 much words makes author king fierce become each popular person of big platform for an instant.
Wang Meng also is not the Loser of life, he is Number One Scholar of the university entrance exam, beijing University student still leaves aesthetic to be born, these outer people are gloden Title in the eye. Also can be so a person that school work has, the Spring Festival had not come home in 12 years, pull black parental telephone short message 6 years, sent 10 thousand words to grow article accuse parents in 18 years of the beginning of the year " excessive care " .
Nowadays, already close and stand year below the influence that Wang Meng weighs to he still lives in parents of former unripe family, cannot resemble the normally life like other, calculate and in the home already break with 12 years, but still for a long time cannot be at ease. Calculated a son to have long article of 10 thousand words accuse parents, the torment that its parents also did not understand a son and pungent, also do not have reaction to this, say to also did not teach good son according to the book continuously.
Be in this year the beginning of the year, hot Mom also received the incoming letter of a vermicelli made from bean starch, he and Wang Meng are same, also be Number One Scholar of same the university entrance exam in those days, enter a school euqally later, affect as a result of what give birth to a family formerly however, the life frustrates repeatedly, university when because suffer from,went up depressed disease, leave the school without finish school. Much calamity also is after having a job much more difficult, frustrate a lot of. Good not easy and middleaged improve, be in however and stand year be diagnosed to go out had kidney failure.
The life already tormented his so far, he did not have living thought early also, want to abandon cure for a time, emerge of itself and perish of itself, also lived to come down below deliverance from the back, but the body is living, the soul is already dried up, still become aware life sky swings up to now without if really, giving me to write a letter also is to do to review to his lifetime only, let what common people knows parents is crude and merciless foster can bring how old harm to the child.
Myriad sighs with emotion after hot Mom looks, because the article is too long, hot Mom is not made too much narrate, it is important to collect look to everybody, the hope can give everybody a few inspiration, in Yo on the road take crooked route less.
Original, not be to study good result, read good university, father is met happy. Vermicelli made from bean starch calls A for the moment. Grandpa A is a landlord, so father of his childhood funeral, it is his grandma skill one foot drag is grown, from small do not have little bear hardships.
Begin from A begin to remember things, a is to listening to A pa from small by person ride roughshod over, eat the suffering that pass to fall asleep, original idea is to let A try to make a good showing, give A pa feel proud and elated later. A also is a filial person, from small regarding this as is the motivation that he learn hard.
Differ with others and the domestic environment of harmonious, because A pa grows the reason of experience, grumpy, often be apt to with respect to shout abuse, do not give others exculpatory chance, a bit does not abstain from whether to have the child attendant, with neighbourhood bad also, a it may be said is beaten and scold to be brought up as a child. When be being scolded every time, A dare not return a mouth, can bear silently only, if learn achievement to be inferior to his meaning, beat and scold won't stop more.
Because of body reason a list of names posted up is taken an examination of to go up in anonymous, cannot get the good look of his father naturally, be being treated repeatedly is medium after taking an examination of, just begin, and because,return from grade the 2nd drop the 9th, in good year 30 when right A shout abuse, no matter at that time is the happy event of reunion of the whole family,enrage a day right-down.
A also makes a determined effort for this from the back graph strong effort learns, a also did not lose people's expectations the university entrance exam to study a good result from the back, entered oneself for an examination T is big, but father is dissatisfactory also, because he wants to let A read military school only, in was informed A to enter oneself for an examination when T is big there is a bit smile on the face.
Think to had decided to go out to be loosened with friend beguilement to the try to make a good showing in the home in A even when, be called shout abuse, saliva horizontal stroke flies.
From this, a was lost to his pa thoroughly awe-stricken, so oneself read desperately of stand out pay in his pa eye, if it were not for comes down his intention, it is worthless, oneself or that can hold the post of by parents wanton parental person.
Filiation, once had break, restore again hard to be like once upon a time.
What the university reads is not successful also, term begins before today A father says to money is done not have to read to him in the home with him, it is OK to say till A sum loan just loosens below at a heat, 2000 yuan stay to go when sending A to read an university.
Although the life is close cling to cling to but at least is new life, a also is to pass so that have taste, do not be willing to receive the telephone call of A pa, because every time phone no more than is money is done not have in the home, he by who who who gives killed.
Knowing from the back is depressive too long what be still, a discovers only game can make him happy, can playing game to play dog-tired ability to enter Mian only everyday...
After-thought arrives this paragraph of time, a already awaited in those days via realizing oneself gave an issue, but he at that time also does not say to give a problem to be in after all, thereby for a long time cannot get correct help.
This kind of circumstance arrives continuously from the back big 3, because cannot get any helps, original idea thinks the A that leave school, the school let turn later absolute, hope A can graduate at an early date get ameliorative.
Be in that year later, the destiny opened a fun with poor A again, he is in fast graduation when be given to bump by the car of a pair of husband and wife, husband and wife is not much also money is OK compensate, also gave 300 yuan only. A is abrupt at that time with respect to heart ash meaning is cold, lay on the bed a few months, did not join even project so graduated.
This thinking after the job, the condition of A can improve somewhat, however from at the beginning, the work is not great, work laboriously works 3 years, the of ten salary that does not have him recapture and bonus, after dejected comes home, a pa also can complain A to did not listen to him to say to read military school in those days quite only. Return meeting and A to say from time to time, "He does not want A this son, want to drink pesticide to go dead. " however once oneself became unripe ill, run the hospital is met again very assiduous.
Thing already so far, that moment already the A of depressed disease is opposite diagnose feeling is very dim, suffer from went up " affection obstacle disease " . Expression is " the patient is right all round thing affection reaction is short of break, inchoate be short of for meticulous affection break, if show consideration for the family member's care (affection is insipid) , serious when indifferent to involving the major issue of self interest, feel the responsibility of vexed anguish to average person, the patient reacts without corresponding affection (affection is dim) . Still can behave affection and surroundings to be not coordinated, laugh oneself without the reason, undertake affection very hard communicate with the patient. Afore-mentioned symptoms are symptom of schizophrenia feature sex " .
Suffer with respect to join when alumnus is contributory, he also is the feeling that touchs without a bit, but reason also tells him, he should thanks to this, then he wrote an acknowledgment letter.
The amlposition that is like life begins from school work failure, those who work before a few years is not suitable it seems that already fritter away he all courage and confidence, although from the back technical pillar is accomplished in a company, still also feel inner sky swings clinking, a rises job is to discover he got kidney failure more before long, with serious illness make a stand against 3 years two, begin to consider " The Book of Changes " , still learned 6 Yao, him discovery is the person of suffer many mishaps in one's life actually, suit to become a monk or nun, put down everything then, prepare to become a monk or nun.
But become a monk or nun repeatedly, father also did not stop the harm to him, what cloister runs to look for him to just raise big A to recount after becoming a monk or nun is not easy, what a bit does not suffer A is pungent put on the heart.
In A the disease is not curable, when need A pa looks for a few kin to help, a pa rejected this issue directly, because be not pulled,just play this outer part. A is comprehended suddenly, original A pa does not love A, the also is his this individual only face that care.
So far, world outlook collapses right-down, because,present A pa also is clear about in the heart is young when the scar that suffer, but present A also is the failure that teachs because of A pa, not be A tries hard not quite, just as if every time see dawn, a can be pullbacked afresh again abyss.
Original idea is determined to arrange its nature, the A that follow disease and goes, finally however because of the help of alumnus miracle survives come down, be with, wrote a letter to give hot Mom, it is to review, also hoping is to save atone for.
Of correspondence probably content as above, textual and longer, detail is very much, interested vermicelli made from bean starch can come my fair number looks, hot Mom looks also is deep feeling myriad, although know to give birth to a family to be able to be opposite really formerly the acknowledge of a person, the disposition, capacity that whether has a lover produces tremendous effect. Be born in the child of wretched family, adult hind is extremely easy self-abased, do not understand how to express feeling, do not know how sweetheart, mood out of control is constant some expression.
Not be party after all, also cannot cut hypostatic meeting to arrive from inside an article the anguish of A, say very hard to him " you not should such, you are needless also such " , with respect to the current situation that can change him.
Be not psychologist as, give out harder the solution of a get effect instantly will help him solve difficult problem, after all these need time to cure.
But, a can speak out these now, draw up come, also be a favour. I also believe, want enough time only, the thing always is met better and better.
The scar that former unripe family brings a person is mixed be born poor, inherent disability is same, you cannot ignore it, you also cannot treat it as all-purpose excuse is him all failure will seek ground henceforth.
Go pouring out, go facing up to it, going to lean from misfortune also can be him only.
Have the child's father and mother as, the life experience of A also is worth our vigilance, hope we can become better father and mother.
Welcome to empress or imperial concubine of the first rank to say, say to raise the science of child and philosophy
Imperial physician of baby father a surname: Assist with M.d. of college of medicine, college of medicine of haing Buddha university is postdoctoral, doctor of the chairman outside god of children of 3 armour hospital
Empress or imperial concubine of the first rank of child Mom week: Tsinghua mom, reporter of Qian Xinhua company, the person that the female does poineering work
