A such criticisms saw when leafing through small gain of Mom of a treasure a few days ago: Boy, should take bit of pain of course, such ability will be successful! The girl just needs rich raise. Next somebody should be mixed and nod assist in succession, but think carefully, be really such? Why is the boy about is " cheap " raised? This has a place it seems that not quite fair.
Tell from certain level actually, merely the environment can not decide the success, the mental character that also follows oneself has very big connection. Of course, talent and successful personage also can not forging certainly below difficult environment, and a few people may be overcome of the environment difficult, those who choose to abandon opposite living is yearning. So, the life that is pair of children it seems that occasionally did a good work, but it is ruin the effect by adding sth superfluous likely very actually, bring owls to Athens. Affliction can the temperament that of harden oneself is a person probably, and whether success and it does not have too big concern.
One, the meeting after " of boy " cheap is raised how
1. is cautious to " money "
To those boys that were raised by end, be being returned in them is a dot when, no matter what do they want, those who hear always is parents say: "Boy, want adamancy economical, want to spend money on edge, cannot extravagant, optional and prodigal, some things are otiose at all, it is wasteful money nevertheless. "Then, they feel money is a kind of very important thing slowly, feel a minute of money also wants even the flower even sometimes cautious, money is to them one dare not go the sweet potato of very hot hand of lay a finger on. Wear with respect to such harden oneself, slowly they are grown, they become a director, become an officer, become a boss, even after commercial elite, although he becomes more and more outstanding, but he the sort of send out from in one's heart the lowliness that come out is timid with the persistence to " money " , the figure that can let him sells at a discount greatly. And see the word that needs money when him with such standard, in his viewpoint of value, money is earn forever insufficient, it is important, it is to want cautious go caressing.
The fun of 2. childhood is very few
Should buy the game with the most popular nowadays or toy comment with age person in succession when, when he also wants to buy a toy to join them, must object however again and again by parents. Do not be willing to be bought to him for many times in parents when, he also gets himself " of warm blood of that antrum " to seal up for keeping to rise, slowly he also begins to turn a parents into the person of true " economical " in the eye, to the thing that he has fun at he hates to part with beautiful money to buy, conceal that oneself curiosity, silent not the is far from those " to have toy " person of utter a word. Next, if a child is not blended in,arrive in the world with age person, slowly he is met alone, those who do not listen to the outside is blatant, also do not put the get sth off one's chest that gives him heart. Gradually, what the fun of childhood period also changes is less and less.
3. interest loves feel better to be restricted
Is interest interest everybody OK some? How can you suffer be restricted? Tell from particular significance actually, can suffer really be restricted. Those boys that were raised by end, those ages that are full of curiosity to the thing in them paragraph, the heart is extremely rich also, draw then, piano, taekwondo, wait art a moment kind the happiness that the thing let them see this world. But of malapropos is, these things are not self-taught, need resource however, that is to say the exchange of equal value of " money " and resource. And this moment, the parent can tell them these to the thing won't have very great help to his development again, and toward invest above these, waste money to still waste time not only, undeserved. At that time, those mention the boy with cautious money, again also not venture, even if likes again, a province can be saved in their world outlook. such, good interest interest also was obliterated.
4. restricted his eye shot
After those boys that are raised by end are grown, want to go on the other place when them university when, total meeting somebody tells them to go the other place has how bad, not only costly, and still leave home far, no-go also on the weekend come home, wait an element a moment to become pull the rope that tying the child. Such although good, but these parents do not know to be able to make the child very narrow to the understanding of the world so forever, the life reads in that life circle that is brought up in oneself all the time since not be contemporary of praise highly of place of youth having keep in mind. In instantly the society of this bizarre and motley, there is a dream in heart of almost major young person, for the dream far went to an alien land to become a kind of normal state probably. Be in foreign land or it is exotic, they are in widen him eye shot while, the life that returns can better him plenitude, with one action of it may be said double.
2, what kind of idea is just correct Yo idea?
·Patient education, parent set oneself an example to others. Be in usually, the boy can give father education, be in and of father in getting along, the child can know to serve as a man how to should be done, but not little also mom's care and company. Say if hill is unknown to public,father loves, it is exquisite that mother love is like water, and the child that this education after both union comes out, also meet naturally gentle adn cultivated. Where does father go to, this archives put together art I think everybody has looked, between the 5th season, I like father and son of old the tenth lunar month especially, in the process that in them father and son gets along. I discover, the child should remind to should do what to should do when father and son get along not only momently with the action, more should much portion is patient, want to tell the truth to the child to listen attentively, is not to make the child unidentified so follow you to do. Next, after church child sense, convince people by reasoning also should learn socially after church child even, the wisdom that uses oneself will win the esteem of others and credit.
·Develop interest, make its free develop. The child's creativity and curiosity are the best thing, be in so the child year young when the interest that cannot efface them certainly and hobby, want to cater to the child instead, make them free develop. Those who a word is told is particularly good, interest is best teacher, want, such really, if you had interest to a thing, you also have motivation to explore it, also can be full of curiosity to it, more recipient also its relevant knowledge. The child is more such, when they are less, their interest is very extensive, do not limit the child's interest as the parent at that time, offer the possibility of development for the child as far as possible, the job that perhaps this kind is liked or interest will come to to the child or obtain employment do not have very big use really. But promote development of many sided all-round talent in the country today, professional skill always can have the land of one banquet use force, after all ability does not press a body more also is the truth that many successful personage experiments come out.
·Opinion orientaton, let the child have participate in degree. The country is being made as an everybody decision-making and when issueing a decree, even wants the interest from numerous people to set out, get the support of numerous people. A family more want such, each member in the family no matter size, since be in the family, have decision making authority. So, a decision is made in the family when, also want to ask the child's opinion commonly, even if has some of thing and his itself not to have immediate impact. But as a child nurturance child such habit, be helpful for the child the following development, in his growing process he knows how to make good make a decision, how to make good budget, he always can hold a clear head, do the " leader " that oneself live, is not to be lived " leads " . Next, the end that such doing still depends on, make the child sufficient experience the warmth of excellent front courtyard, let him have in this family share feeling and contributive feeling.
Educational child is a long affair, the child that some people feel poor to had been raised is known cherish, understand this is worldly all things can leave a success closer after hard-earned one pace. But they often forgot everything to have two sides sex, make rebounding effect preceding part of the text so I had been mentioned, so, choose in you rich raise the child or be inferior to wanting, can you counteract both? Namely, inspect a condition and decide. Offerring the child high grade resource while, also want the patient hard-earned that teachs child life, look after children recreationally go to countryside, the small town place that has poverty-stricken family truly, the move that makes the child clear is compared with these child photographs by oneself is to have how lucky, the difficult of the life that experiences after had witnessed true setting and speak out always to have difference.
