Finish is a child much simpler? The parent destroys 4 kinds of behavior of child self-confidence, ha

One, what does the child do to be criticized

Of child excitedly tell with you, the anecdote that he sees in the school, you scold him not to put idea on study however!

Child achievement was not taken an examination of good, you are negative everything his, cold-shoulder him to do not have prospect.

Every parent hopes his child is the most outstanding, because this meeting increases child freeboard level forcibly, when the child was not finished, can criticize child without a single redeeming feature, the child falls in this kind of criticism, do not have self-confident heart more and more.

2, decide everything for the child

A lot of parents, always feel the child is small still, work without definite idea, monopolize for the child chronically everything, think oneself to best choice forces the child, let the child do not have any speech authority.

Grow this, the child can become aware him whats work is bad only, do not have self-confident heart more and more, after be brought up, encounter a thing to also do not have his view, to moment the parent can complain the child does not have definite idea again, it is the problem that in one's childhood the parent teachs actually.

3, pay blindly, do not seek get one's own back

Some parents, love oneself child very much, would rather oneself have bitter taste, also be willing a best child that leaves oneself.

Give no cause for more criticism of this kind of practice, but if protect the child in conservatory all the time, can let the child grow not to rise only, give a society later a little be rebuffed, can feel bear hard, self-confident heart is 0.

4, fail company

A lot of parents because a variety of reasons, accompany the child without time.

They leave the child chronically a person is in the home, feel satiate to wear warm go, but the inner world that ignored the child however, by the child that parents ignores, often compare with age person more introversion and self-abased.

Educational child, not be a simple thing, since parenting, be about to learn to be in charge of to the child.