How to cast off the state of mind of eager for quick success and instant benefit?

Hello! The thank invites again! Because a lot of problems do not have professional reason to give you in time the response, forgive please, your problem is a kind of way that how handles a desire actually, desire and ideal are different, the desire is a mood those who change have a desire, and ideal is the investment after reason chooses. Desire person look be like freedom, be like the desire in him angle, but the slave that actually they are desires only, because do advocate is a desire, not be themselves, they must be pulled by the desire nose goes, follow pace be swayed by considerations of gain and loss of the desire. In the desire regnant under, ego does not have rational choice, also do not wish to choose, they even the voice that screen drops the feeling with ego real heart and reason, of one mind is persistent the target at libidinal set, on the action expression comes out is eager for quick success and instant benefit, such doing often can let a thing become more bad, just answer in midnight dream when, can be given out a few times by the life of libidinal exhaust insignificant n wailful.

Originallying to do not have freedom in the ego under these condition, they by resentment, helpless, fault, inflexible morality compasses the stomach that turns with the mood is being bound, be without however conscious, often just feel hard free but and deeply anxious. Solid is worn at such identity not be explicit force, so eager for quick success and instant benefit is the choice with subconscious ego.

"See " the fountainhead that is a desire, "See " with read aloud can model strengthen " small I " , "See " meeting general " read aloud " change stores into experience at " involuntary " in the center, outside thing once with " small I " anticipate not agree with defy behavior unconsciously with respect to meeting generation, form subconscious the conditional reflex in. "See " be by " heart " start, action at consciousness, reflection is formed at thinking " read aloud " , consciousness of deposit Yu Qian, if core became ill, by " corrupt be angry is crazy slow doubt " the five poisonous creatures was eroded, what produce seeing is not " seeing " what produce reading aloud also is not likewise " reading aloud " and can form so called " unhealthy environmental influences that cause disease sees " " evil thought " final body is followed read aloud move, serious person go astray, why same a thing, the result that different person makes however a world of difference, because " see read aloud " different, "See " with " read aloud " the bridge is received is thinking.

"See read aloud " can keep seeking exterior save or perhaps satisfy of future, in order to replace noumenal joyance, this often says namely " desire " , desire cannot self-realization can reach with respect to outside of meeting have the aid of, for instance sexual love for instance drugs alcohol for instance money, for instance food, but these are brief, once if worn-out shoes,the person obtains what can abandon, be immersed in again next " desire " trap, generated a sentiment when desire and body are contacted, the mood upgrades the anguish after solidify is inevitable, because every time the seed with the rising implicit and painful metropolis of the mood, because all actions are not the desire that stems from this your heart to stem from you however!

The desire is consist in time in the center, the mood that so expression comes out also is met as time elapse and remove rise and fall to fall, once satisfied a desire, good mood can appear, because be binary and contrary, appear when good mood so, bad mood comes with respect to very closely associated with each other, can send a hope to satisfy next desire only, the process that satisfies a desire ceaselessly is addiction, you just are met the joy of desire sense organ, a joyless person can enter a desire certainly, the desire is the means with joyless brains happy pursuit, so you think shortcut, the eager for quick success and instant benefit that so you behave.

Do not depress your desire, no matter what you depress, its metropolis is thorough your immanent, await an opportunity, make reprisals with bigger force wait for one's chance, all metropolises that are depressed create Babylon sense, all metropolises that violate nature cause Babylon feeling, you are in all the time deceive oneself as well as others, dishonest itself is the origin of Babylon feeling. Libidinal itself is very beautiful, it does not have any faults; Want you to be able to put down any ends that want pursuit only, libidinal itself is very divine. If the thought follows a desire to be united in wedlock together, it became chains; If the thought did not follow a desire to be united in wedlock together, so the thought can be regarded as a tool and achieve final liberation, the thought is a kind of energy, when the object of alive bound outside it can pass through a desire and moving, it becomes a chains, pilot chains. The depression won't guide you to move toward freedom, the depression is a kind far worse than abandon chains, because pass through abandon, the person can be in to him sooner or later the thing of angle feels cheesed, but pass through a depression, he will won't bore to this thing forever.

When you by the desire diversionary by libidinal dictate, you are about to beg, you are babyish. Every are about to beg be pair of existence to complain. Every desire is right you show besides dissatisfaction is sufficient, sufficient to the dissatisfaction of your existence. The desire brought future, create the worry of didymous instantly. Desire innovation goes " small I " concept. Won't have otherwise " small I " .

Why should seek money and money? It is to want to have some kind of self-identity only, good who is letting others can know you, good who is letting people can say you. Good prove to others who you are, why are you searching influence and prestige all the time? That reason is same. You need money, money is a kind of need, but, money is not your target, also cannot be a target. Say for example, the house is need of course, not be to called you to damage the building, hide to remote mountains next, the house is need, but you are living not be for the house.

Consist in sees the desire in reading aloud is control follows his testimony, those who let you is small my ceaseless outward bound is projectile, let you always want to prove what to nod, and the father and mother that actually everybody includes you even, it is from problem of oneself footing occurrence look upon, no matter you want what to prove, to other it is footy. Who is they won't care about you, had wanted what kind of life, have what kind of dream, they can care about the thing that you have only, what Dan Ji blames is them mastered you it seems that happy control counterpoises, this meeting makes you very joyless, joyless reason depends on ourselves attaching others, expect somewhat to others, hope from pleasure gets over there others. You had never gotten pleasure truly, but that expects to be in all the time. The thing that father always can do because of son place and he differs and get angry. You become criminal, he will be angry; You become a wise man, he also can get angry, because you did not satisfy his expectation. He always expects you are accomplished he wants to do and impracticable thing, besides, you are wrong.

Why to no matter we are adopted,plant in fact the manner goes expecting, the thing always reachs its reverse side, this is the deep dialectics of existence. Expect won't come forever, look forward to won't reach forever, won't satisfy of longing forever. You yearn for it the more, you lose it the more. It is which level no matter it is such, the rule is same. The desire always is in affirmatory and never cash, the desire always promises your joy, promise your greatest pleasure even, but joy won't come true, and each desire just brings more desires, each desire gives more, greater desire in itself generation only, and result of course also more setback.

You do not need to be admitted; Need is admitted by any authority or do not approbate. You are yourself's authority! You are Buddha you are Christ. Buddha is not the Buddhist person that found---Either. His chela just is the person that found. Jesus is not the Christian person that found---Either. His disciple, they just are the person that found. What want a change exclusively is your heart, the volition that can disobey yourself without the person will change you, unless you are willing. Unless you get ready,should enter that sealed, want to enter that night that had not taken, without the person any forces can change anyone, only you have that force to be able to change yourself, we are not the people of a very responsible feeling. I am not in charge of for anybody. I am in charge of for myself, that is enough.

And actually you were not necessary to be in of the desire drive go down to make any improvement, present you, you are very beautiful. Begin to live well! Do not go wanting to say to become very perfect in the future when you, or it is to become you to resemble such, or it is to resemble in that way, you just should live, after becoming you to be able to reach some kind of level according to your idea, you just should live... but life is in right now here, it is flowing from inside our hand all the time break, tomorrow is death, there just is life today only... it is today all the time, otherwise what you expect also won't come forever.

A very small child does not have a desire, he is so preoccupied the line of sight that the birdie that flies only in some engrave attracted him out and out, a butterfly, its flowery colour can make him extremely the rainbow of glad sky, he is unthinkable what to still have brighter than this rainbow, richer, still have the night sky that covers tiny spot, star is connecting star one day is rich really, it is contented, it is pure. By the desire diversionary person is poverty, it is a beggar, it wants this today, it will want that tomorrow, it wants to gain knowledge. It wants respect getting a person, it wants to obtain money, it wants to gain influence. And former often easier telesis.

Once you grew, you know what is need, what is a desire, otherwise you will cannot discern forever what is need, what is a desire. The desire is mad forever, need is well-advised forever, if you defy your need, you will self-destruction, if your desire continues to lift, you also are met self-destruction, this both is self-destruction, if you continue to deny your need, you are in court destruction, if you continue to increase your appetite, you also are with what differ means is in court destruction, so what in you the expression on the action comes out is more eager for quick success and instant benefit!