Someone says the heart has everybody two children, one is traitorous, one is obedient, and traitorous child always is met the not controlled issue that makes a few exceed what is proper, with respect to need so a person is had abstain power ability to make it obedient, containing power is the ability that individual ego is controlled and leads, it can let a person can be opposite target more hard, make oneself OK dominate oneself thought and action, it is the ability that one individual success does not break away from.
1, foster from habits and customs and criterion
Habitual nurturance needs a course, the child as a child the parent should let them have a good habits and customs, for example everyday go to bed time, everyday get up time, make basic cycle time, the time of amuse oneself, want to strike a proper balance between work and rest.
Aimosheng ever had said, be used to the best lackey that can be you also can be your worst host, the habit is a person those who contain power reflect, nurturance good convention, abstain force to restrain his bad host with his.
Additionally parents can establish the standard of child of a few ties, but not too slashing, do not let the child lose independence accordingly. Habit and criterion advance side by side- do two or more things at once, let the child be accomplished on behavior and thought abstain self-discipline.
2, the consciousness that rears the child, rise contain power
A lot of parents meet child of irritated heart oneself to learn insufficient consciousness, what do exercise to want parent day after day everyday is urgent, actually the child's consciousness is the main factor that affects the child to contain power, parents should help the child raise the child's consciousness, let the night of day urge again and again that they can learn self-consciously and is not parents enjoin.
Raise the method with the directest consciousness is the parent to unlock, the parent should let the child realize he should be in charge of for oneself, a lot of businesses that he does should have his absolute idea, the parent need not tell the child what to should do, what to do, the thing that should tell the child place is done however can bring what kind of result, let them realize consciousness.
3, the training course that contains power also needs example action
Just think, if you are working, just be abdomen hunger, but the colleague beside is in however snack, the influence that at that time your job can be worked in the same place certainly, in if the child is learning,managing together, the parent is to playing game to have a thing however, child certainly can be affected, the education that so the parent contains power in the child wants appropriative good example in the process.
4, an interest that allows the child gets insisting to mix outspread
Interest is the force that can allow the child to insist to be done most, develop an interest to the child so, let them hold to, in importunate process they can be mixed with fun self-restrained will restrain oneself, slowly the interest that allows them gets outspread, let them realize it is OK to have this one him thing only not just hold to, the thing that still has a lot of is OK.
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