Above all, want this correct problem that understands love; Cast however their high school gives birth to this identity, this age paragraph adolescent is in feeling to stir just about period when, to the opposite sex generation good impression is a kind of very normal phenomenon actually; What the parent worries actually is to talk about love to be able to affect study on one hand, worry about minor their meeting to make the issue that hurts the body on the other hand;
Be aimed at this kind of problem, church child's correct processing technique meets what come than restraining them have the effect more; Want to call them right amative idea above all, want to know to be liked to be a very good thing by person appreciation ／ , but also should understand regard a student as this main body, study is very important, should let themselves understands and find right kind to be not liked the study with normal effect of this kind of mood; The person is to have go against those who turn over psychology, be in especially traitorous period these adolescent, you check the more, he wants to do the more, because this process can let him have exciting feeling; Actually normal amative itself can affect study not quite, it is you check the more instead, he besides want to talk about love secretly, divide an energy to cope with you even, next the energy of deal out study is fewer, learned achievement to drop next, you have can feel to look more, talk about love to affect study as expected, next more check, next vicious circle; Restrain their nature at going relatively, go controlling this normal business, better settlement means is their method goes to church slow with processing this thing, good amative relationship is OK each other advance study, of mutual progress.
Additional on one hand, must church child protects him, below the current situation that teachs some lack in physiology, parents should be assumed have this responsibility, want church child to had protected his body.
Finally, love this thing is normal thing, but of amative object discriminating a choice is however very difficult a problem that control; Below the circumstance that still fails to oneself are judged completely in the child so, want to help him discriminate this thing as family; So scarcely should depress control child, produce this kind of situation really otherwise, he cannot seek an opinion to you at all, oneself go making a decision; So, scarcely should let the child feel you cannot understand him, let what he loses you prop up, and the condition that you also cannot know him and idea.
