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We often hear a country to an adage says, "Stop funeral to the person rather, do not give a person geminate " , means, the house in the home would rather let a person use at handling funeral arrangement, different also idea lets ab extra young husband and wife borrow.
This sounds honest is unimaginably queer letting a person, what is the reason after all? Everybody is asked to follow below small make up come dug.
It is above all " stop funeral to the person rather " cause, because be located in devious, jiashangxin ceases out-of-the-way, the rural person in the past often special superstition, have in the life a lot of and exquisite, formed numerous so called custom slowly.
Suffer " the dead is big " thought influence, they believe to want to assist the dead's family member to handle funeral arrangement only, gone soul can be appreciated for expression, and bless him at every turn successful and restful health.
At the same time they think, for dead on the other hand, also mean a new student, they believe the house of park dead, soon will new student life arrives, for house advocate bring much child much grandson good luck.
Use a house to handle funeral arrangement, not only can bring lucky, still can harvest brushstroke hire, what is there against it. This is why the account that rural old person can snatch a house to borrow others to handle funeral arrangement.
As to " do not give a person geminate " view, also be to have blind faith in thinking to cause, be in the country with backward idea, the gender is everybody the thing that be ashamed ages at opening, the gender also often can be gifted " dirty and feculent " the implied meaning.
Rural old person thinks, there is ab extra husband and wife to make love in the house, similar perhaps " bridal chamber spends candle night " see blood such thing, meet oneself bring unlucky and disaster, object have the aid of of ab extra husband and wife to the utmost consequently.
Actually, as standard of living rise and of scientific spirit gain ground, rural person also becomes more and more include and open, believe to be in before long in the future, what those lagging behind is consuetudinary will be abandoned by people.
